I Have The Worst Sister What Should I Do

I have the worst sister ever. What to do.?

It is not up to you, its up to your parents. If your mom is allowing her to get away with it then there is nothing you can do about it except take it for another year until you graduate and then go away to college.

Talk to your mom. There is no way your mom is happy about it. You mom needs to enforce tough love and your sister is past the point of her being legally obligated to support her unless she is mentally disabled. So if your mom tells your sister to shape up or ship out, your sister would have to.

I suggest you have your mom tell her that she has however many months to get her GED and then another length of time after that to get a job. And that she is not allowed to smoke in the house, unless your mom is a smoker and doesn't care about it. But if it were me, I would tell my daughter she has 9 months to get her GED and then 5 months after receiving her GED to get a job. If she doesn't do either then she needs to get out and if she refused to leave I would have the police come and escort her out. Sometimes you need to make people like your sister understand that acting as she is is unacceptable and there are consequences for their actions.

I would also confide in your mom how you feel. That you do not want to be home because of her that you are tired of being berated and called the names she calls you and if she doesn't do something about it that she will not only lose your older sister, she may lose you as well as she is not standing up to her, being the mom and standing for what is right.

She needs to get the house back in order and it does not sound like a healthy home life.

My sister is the worst maid of honor, what do I do?

Holy moly, what drama! I'm sorry you have to deal with it and be in the middle of it all--especially around such a special, important time in your life. Your sister's age plays into account here...she's 18 years old, and she's doing what 18 year-olds do: act immature. She obviously isn't ready yet to own the title of Maid of Honor, and she is being very selfish indeed. Your mother and grandma should say something to her, but more importantly, I think you should tell her after the shower that she just isn't holding up her end of the bargain, and I would ask her if she's like to be a bridesmaid instead. If she refuses, so be it. She hasn't held your feelings in high regard, so you really don't owe her a big, long, drawn-out apology. I would ask your friend to take the honor instead, and explain the situation to her; even telling her that she was your first choice.

Maybe some won't agree with my statements here, but I am actually in your shoes. My own sister is a bridesmaid. My brother's wife is my Matron of Honor. My bridesmaid sister acts exactly the way yours is acting, so I completely understand your plight. My sister didn't attend the shower, isn't attending the bachelorette party, and she's not even arriving in town until right before the rehearsal. And she only lives a very short distance away. She doesn't answer my calls, texts, emails, etc. The only time she texted me this month was to tell me my friend died in a car accident! Over a text, no less. So while some may disagree with my advice here to boot your sister, I'm actually coming from a standpoint in which I completely see how hurtful and stressful a sister can be--especially when she's IN your wedding and not cooperating.

Booting her doesn't mean you two can never be friends again...it simply means that she is not being sisterly to you, and is not upholding her responsibilities as your Maid of Honor. Take away the fact that she's your sister, and this would be a no-brainer. I wish you luck, and remember--this is YOUR wedding, and YOUR life. Not your mother's, not your grandmother's, and not your sisters. You deserve better than this treatment, and I truly hope you receive support from your family.

My sister has the worst attitude ever? What should I do?

Okay so let me start off. She is 26 years old and has two kids and still lives at home. She has the worst attitude ever and literally complains about everything. She thinks the world revolves around her. She is so very rude to my mother and other family members. When everyone in the family tells her that she should change her attitude she gets even madder. She trash talks my others sisters and my mom. She doesn't really do much for her two kids. She is always dumping them on my mom and gets severely angry when my mother can't watch them. Grandma (my mom) literally does everything for them. She is s very mean to them and never wants to deal with her kids. I hate coming home from college because of her horrible attitude. She hates whenever anyone comes to visit including other siblings. I'm really fed up. I really don't know what to do. It's almost as if she is stuck at the age of being a snotty 16 year old. She literally hates everything, except for any man that will pay her any attention. It's really starting to get to me because my mom is getting up in age she is 62. I feel like she shouldn't have to deal with this. What should I do? Her negative attitude is straight up ridiculous and it's clearly starting to take affect on the family.

What is the worst thing your sister or brother have ever done to you?

I have an older brother and an older sister so I'm just wondering.

Worst thing my brother ever did to me was back several years ago. He is 7 years older then me btw. Me and him were the only 2 at the house and I think I was doing something to make him mad, and he took me and put me in a trash can. He carried me outside in it and he taped up the lid then he pushed me down a little hill in our yard. After I got out he had the door locked too so that was not a fun night.

My sister is just barley 2 years older then me. When I was in 8th grade she had a party at our house with her friends and mom and dad were in bed already so I went down to the room where they were all at. Back in 8th grade I had no GF and man seeing all of them girls there in their bed clothes was like the greatest thing ever. Then one of them said look and she pointed at me and they dragged me in the room. My sister told them to hold me down she then taped my mouth shut. 4 girls had me me held down and my sister jumped right on stomach with both feet. Then they all took turns doing it, and they finally stopped and I was crying and they said are you sorry? I said yes and ran up stairs.

Now I have done several mean things to them as well so its not like I probably did not deserve it. Back then me and my sister pulled pranks on each other all of the time back in the day lol. We all 3 get along great still and the pranks have stopped for the most part.