How can I stop feeling sad that none of my friends gave me birthday cards or presents?
I wonder why?Do they think you have everything?Do they think you expect an expensive present they can't afford to buy?Are they forgetful?Did you give them presents on their birthdays?Would they do something like that on purpose?Are they really friends?Similar Thing happened to my mum for Easter. The woman who comes to help mum was given many cakes, chocolate etc by our neighbours, mum was very upset they never gave her anything, never remembered her.My advice was “ Mum, don't be sad, they know you have everything and we are the ones to give usually. They have too many problems they have to sort out, 2 recent deaths in the family, and my mother's help is important for them, as she goes to give medicines to the older couple every day. She is vital for them . They can't forget her at holiday times. You have everything. Forgive them. “
My mom disowned me....do I send her a birthday card?
My mom disowned me 6 years ago when I went away to college and decided to marry my high school boyfriend. She was really controlling (kind of like the mom in the virgin suicides movie). She wanted to pick my friends, and didn't think I should have a boyfriend until I was over 30. This life was fine for my sister, who is 30, and still lives at home. She was more lenient with my brother, but for me,this led to a lot of lying and sneaking around during my high school years. I got engaged my first semester of college, and my mom wanted me to call it off, or not have anything to do with her. Well, I went through with it, and it has been the best decision of my life, but I still wish she was still in my life. I've tried calling, sending letters, etc., but she won't see me. My dad and grandma (her mom) can't change her mind. I miss her, she was a great mom when I was little. How do I renew our relationship? Should I send her something for her birthday?
What is the best birthday present you have ever received?
When I was 6 years old all I wanted was to have a birthday party at McDonald's. Everyone was having their parties there. I was over the moon happy when my mom agreed to let me have a party there.The night before my party I took a bath. While I was in the bath I noticed these small red dots on my stomach. I was petrified! I finally was getting the birthday party I wanted and then this happens. I had no idea what the red bumbs were so I hid them when my mom came in to check on me. I thought it wasn't a big deal as they would go away and I'd be fine in the morning.The next morning I woke up so itchy all over. I jumped out of bed and ran to the mirror. The worst catastrophe stared back at me. I had chicken pox! My mom immediately cancelled my party. I was devastated. To make it worse, now I had to spend my birthday alone as no one wanted to be around me.I was wallowing in my sadness and disappointment in my room. I heard a knock on my door and there stood my grandma. She handed me a happy meal and gave me a huge hug. She said if I couldn't have my party at McDonald's, we'd bring McDonald's to my party.She made my birthday so special. I don't even remember the gift she gave me. They didn't matter as she gave me the best gift ever which was her love. We had such a wonderful time together and it still makes me smile to this day.
A funny message to write in a birthday card to someone I barely know?
Okay, this is kinda confusing, to me anyway. About a month ago, I started babysitting my mom's friend's granddaughter, so I've had to stay at her house about 3 days a week. She has two sons (both are adults, in their 20s I'm guessing) that live with her and one of them has a birthday party tomorrow. I kinda got to know both of them a little while I've been there to babysit, but I don't know either of them very well at all and I would like to become friends with them eventually. Now, I'm wondering what I should write in the birthday card I got for one of them. I don't want to make a bad impression somehow, but I want it to be a funny message that would make him laugh. The front of the card reads "I let my cat pick out your birthday present." and inside it says "You don't already have a dead mouse, do you?" Everyone there loves cats, so they have a lot of cats there, which is the main reason I picked this card. So maybe something that would go along with the theme of the card would be good. Any ideas?
Help. My mom's 60th birthday is ruined!?
60 is a big one. Not one that I would want to stand up and shout about. Some people want their birthday to pass quietly at that age. Your mom is an adult and should celebrate her birthday how she wants to celebrate it. Despite your efforts if your mom says," you should have..." and " I have other plans", well then you know that she has decided. Instead of being on a super guilt trip, make plans for another day and take her out. Your gifts are fine, your intentions were fine. Call your mom on her birthday early, tell her you love her and hope she has a great day and do what she wants you to do. If its late, its late. It really is never too late to celebrate. Edit: Don't worry over spilt milk. Just because it didn't turn out how you wanted it to doesn't mean she won't appreciate the thought, it IS the thought that counts. Don't go buying more for you mom just to soothe your guilt. It is not called a guilt trip for nothing, let your mom decide how she wants to spend her day, then you can decide how you spend it. A mothers role in life is to be understanding, you can apologize but she really might not think it is such a huge deal. Use your own judgment, it IS your mom, not anyone Else's here. Especially the ones who are bashing you....boo hiss!
How can I get over the worst birthday ever?
Today is my birthday and everyone forgot except one friend and my mom and she didn’t even get me a real gift, just a $100 bill and a card. Even my Dad, Friends, and Grandparents forgot. I’m nice to lots of people and I go out of my way to make sure there is nobody who dislikes me and everyone is always happy, why didn’t anyone remember? I always remember theirs and make sure they have a really good time. I feel like I am very sad and alone right now. Today I am 20 and it’s supposed to be a big deal, a step up, and a happy good time. So why am I so sad right now? Why can’t I stop thinking about all the worst memories and sad feelings I have right now? I feel like I have no real friends Can anyone tell me how to be happy again? I'll do anything.