How did you feel when you first moved out?
First few days.Yay!! I am free! I can stare at the ceiling forever without being interrupted by my mother. I can go home at 2am without my dad yelling at me. I can sleep with my mouth open without my mom shutting it close.And then, reality hits me like a truck.Who the bloody hell will clean my toilet?? ( Had to use office toilet for few days before it flashed to me that I should buy toilet cleaners and clean it on my own)And of course food. My stomach has become a garbage can. I stuff it with anything that I can afford to buy. Half baked potatoes, cold chapati, dal with no salt. :(I realized that monthly groceries don't fall out of sky. I had to pay for it. I had unrealistically decided to spend only 100rs per day, but with each passing day I had to scrape through all my jeans pants for that one miraculous 100rs that I might have buried in my pocket and had forgotten about.After few more days..Clean and sparkly bathroom, thanks to harpic.Food- replaced a lot of junk with healthy fruits and fruit juices which were cheaper as well.Still learning the art of money management, but it is better than it was.I grew up and I learned to live on my own. I have my own failings, but now I can get up and walk the mile on my own. With each passing day, I become more responsible. I wash my own clothes, make my own food, clean my bathroom and take care of myself. I have also realized how dependent we are on our parents that we struggle to survive on our own. That we struggle to take care of one individual that is ourselves. That a large amount of resources is required for survival and maintenance of just one individual. I am enjoying this freedom and this phase of my life. Yes, I do feel homesick, but that is what makes our home a special place in our hearts, otherwise we will never learn to truly value home and our parents.
Urghhh again. my husband is drinking?
Ok so this is a complicated question. Please dont answer if you are just going to be mean. So my husband of 7 years, whom was a recovering alcoholic when we met and stayed sober the first 5 years we were married, began drinking 2 years ago when his business collapsed. We lost our house in foreclosure and he was out of work for a year. But I am not singing a sad song, there are people a lot worse off than me. We both have jobs and we have a place to live, so it my world, that is something to be thankful for. He hid the drinking from me for a while, but I quickly figured out he was doing it. At first I flipped out, then I thought maybe he could handle it I was quickly proven wrong. Things went from bad to worse, he ended up one night getting drunk and fell on a fire and had 3rd degree burns. He swore he would stop after that, but it wasnt long bf he was going at it worse than before. I forced him to go to rehab, which he did twice. The first time he came home and within 10 days wrecked his truck driving drunk. After that incident the drinking continued off and on until he drove drunk with our 5 year old in the car and ran it out of gas. I forced him to go back to rehab and he went for 30 days. When he got out he was drinking again 14 days later. I put up with his drunkeness, loud music 3am, the lying, and smoking in the house until March. Then I moved me and my child to my sister's house bc I couldnt take it anymore. He visited with us off and on until August. I rented a house in the same town and tried to make things work. He seemed to be getting his act together, so I let him move in last weekend, really against my wishes, but I cant afford the house by myself. So tonight I went shopping with my mom and he was supposed to be babysitting and he was drunk when I got home. I dont know what to do anymore. I left with my mom and my daughter from my own house. He is a great man when he is sober, but when he is drunk he is a living nightmare. Of course I could not type all the details of every incident from the last two years here, but what do you do when you have a man who is a good husband and father when he is sober, but refuses to quit drinking??
I absolutely hate my teacher i want to punch him in the face?
i have NEVER hated anyone, but him urghhh i feel like punching him in the face, i always snap at him and i HATE him, i didnt hate maths i was good at maths but now i absolutely dispise that class i dread going there i fail my exams i never do the homework, i never pay attention because i cant stand even looking at him, and then i feel like a retard for not understanding the exams what should i do, im gonna try my hardest to change classes next year but i cant do anything for this one (trust me ive already tried many many times) what can i do i just hate him like ive never hated anyone before i swear.!!! and tomorrow i have to go back to his stupid class and to ******* school to learn things im not even gonna need when i grow up they teach useless stuff its a waste of my time! ive even considered changing school only to not have to go to his class anymore (but my parents wont let me) what should i do i swear everytime he talks to me or says a joke i want to hit him. i have no respect towards him and ive made that very clear to him
What is the worst thing that you have read today?
15-year-old cancer patient raped by 2 men, seeks help from neighbour, raped againA 15 year old cancer patient was allegedly gangraped in Lucknow, Utter Pradesh. The duo who raped her dumped the girl on streets and fled away. The girls ordeal was far from over. She approached a neighbor for help who allegedly raped her. She was already suffering from big trauma and this inhumane thing happened to her, who was just 15 years old. On one side I read news about how safe is India for female and on other side I read news like this daily. People are so inhumane that they don't even spare victim seeking for help.5-year-old Haryana girl raped, found with 16-cm wooden stick inserted in private partsAnother 5 year old girl abducted from her house at night was found dead with 16 cm wooden stick inserted in her genitals. The victim died due to torture perpetrated by inserting wooden stick into her private parts. The stick was inserted with a force which not only cause serious injuries inside uterus but also in the intestine. The girl was also bleeding from neck, bruses were found on victims neck, waist and nose.She was just a five year old, who don't even know what rape is, who became the victim of rape. People are doing this inhuman things which bring tears in our eyes while reading. People like this only deserve death penalty.Image source: Google image.Thanks for reading!
? for the guys...What feels better mouth or the 'coochie'?
Hmmm. Vaginal intercourse truly is the way "nature intended." By that I mean that penises are meant to fit in vaginas, and vaginas, I think, have evolved to create maximum stimulation for penises. Nothing feels better than entering a vagina, IMO. But with that said, there are so many more things you can do with a mouth, and a skilled oral-giver can create sensations that just aren't possible with vaginal intercourse, because there's more control over what exactly is happening. Then, when you add in the sexy visual impression that you can get with a woman going down on you, and the slight submissive quality of a woman "taking" what you're giving her, a nice, full, oral copulation is extremely satisfying. Here's how I'd answer your question, then: If I had to give up oral or "straight" sex for the rest of my life, and only have the other forever, I'd give up oral. However, as either foreplay or the "complete act," occasional oral is really hard to beat. (no puns intended there at all.) So don't worry about him just wanting oral from now on. He won't be like that at all. --- EDIT: And kudos to you for offering to sexually satisfy your man, even though it's that time of the month. Many women are just grossed out by any thought of sexual contact that time, and it was really considerate and giving of you to take that "step" for him. -- EDIT2: One of the reasons he may have been moaning so hard is that when guys are having sex, they get into this mindset of "have to please girl... she should be the vocal one.' We get this either from years of conditioning that guys shouldn't express emotion or from watching adult movies, where the girl seems to scream uncontrollably from the moment of insertion but the guy just breathes heavily. :) But when he's only RECEIVING, when it's not his job to try to please you, then he may be able to relax and express his personal enjoyment more.
I'm a cancer sign and i cant stand kids, doesnt like to be home,and HATES cooking?!!?
I'm a Cancer and I hate kids too, unless they're related to me. I really do value family and would put them first... I literally have 0 patience and I can get pretty moody if I'm bothered too much. I love going out and I hate staying home all the time because it's just a WASTE. I have a Leo sister and all she does it stay home all day. Even though they say Leos are adventurous, she has 0 curiosity in her and she's incredibly lazy. I don't think that I could ever date a Sagittarius. Although they're pretty fun and sexy, I generally find them insensitive and unromantic. I'm with a Pisces guy and he's very giving and understanding. The only thing I don't like about him is that he's too clingy, but his good qualities outweigh his bad. We have to remember that our astrological signs only make up the "base" or "foundation" of our personalities. What makes up most of our personality is the way we were raised and the environment we grew up in