If you had a chance to either go back in the past and change one thing only about your past or to see your entire future beforehand, which would you choose and why?
I would not choose anything. Let me give my justifications for the same:If I go back to the past and change one thing, then I will not be where I am today. There are regrets, there are mistakes in the past, but I have learnt something from them. It made me stronger, though the lessons were harsh. But that’s okay. Everything happens for a reason. So the option of changing past is ruled out for me. Just learn, Accept and Move on!Seeing my entire future beforehand? That will make my life boring and scary too, because I will be knowing what is going to happen next. And if I come to know the problems I am gonna face in future, before hand, I will stop living this minute and my focus will be shifted on avoiding those problems. My current life might be filled with fear of future. And no, I don’t want that.Life is not about changing past or fearing about future. It is about living this moment to the fullest, accepting the past and letting go of the worries of future.:)
My ex boyfriend wants the stuff he bought me back?
So i gave him some of the stuff back like a decoration for my room and a like mac eyeshadows I never use and he STILL won't leave me alone. I dont want to have to make it into some big legal thing with a restraining order and stuff but he's STILL infront of my house :/
My ex wants his stuff back?
My ex boyfriend broke up with me nearly a month ago now he wants his stuff back. Hes only got little things like a few old dvds hoodie etc. that he said he would never watch which is why he left them at mine! He's tried to ring me quite a few times and i haven't answered, then the other day he sent me a nice msg asking how i was doing and if i wanted to meet up if i was ready. I don't really understand why he really wants those little things back so badly cus he owes me quite a bit of money and i haven't asked for that back he's just offered, and so arranged to give it him monday but im not sure if im ready to see him cus he cheated on me broke my heart and basically treated me like dirt. What should i do, any advice would be great thanks
What do you do when someone gives you something then wants it back months later?
The very first thing.. Never take anything from anybody on loan.. I mean no single thing from others. And if the situation arises that you have something given by other person is like a burden sumtimes.. Though people gift other people but here its not about the gift i guess!People who take back there belongings given to you long back are like greedy one. Thats what i feel. No offence.Bec when u have to take it back why you are giving it?When you are giving it then why you need that back? Doesnt it shows your greed?Am talking about those things which are given permanently and taken back accidently.Its better to be aware next time because if someone asks you to return his or her thing back which was given to you will be a negative thing at your home if needed back.Try not to take further things from then and return it when they asked you to give back. Bec that shows your self respect.So save yourself and repect your self.Ps: no gift, rented items etc are involved.
Can he sue me for not giving him his sweatshirt back?
this psycho ex of mine gave me his sweatshirt but when we stopped talking i just threw it under my bed for a while. Now, me and my new boyfriend are gonna burn our ex's things together. The ex keeps texting me and i'm really sick of him and he was such a dick i just want to punish him. today he said that he could file a lawsuit on me if i didnt give him his "hoodie" back. Is this true?
Girlfriend says she just wants to be friends.?
You are smothering her. A man that wants you is nice but a man that cannot live a few hours without your attention is a sign to run. It is your call how much you think you should be contacting her but I think you have destroyed any chance of getting back together again. Your actions of smothering have pushed her away and now it would be best if you just listened to her. It will not save the relationship but it will save your dignity and maybe if you play your cards right you will earn her respect again enough to be a friend if that is what you are willing to settle for. In the end move on... SORRY