Why do I always keep changing my mind?
A lot of people (guys included, previous gender-bashing responder) are 95 percenters. Set a goal, start out cooking with steam, but have a heck of a time staying to task when its almost done. I'm not sure if the psychology is fear of undeserved successs, fear of failure even when that dosn't look likely, or something else. But I do know that self-knowledge of the problem is key to changing it. You are worthy of completing your goals and feeling good about having done so. Push through the old urge. Tell a supportive friend or parent, and have them on your accountability team for getting to the finish line. Sometimes others believing in you can push you through the times when it's not internal.
Keep changing my mind HELP AHHH?!?
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Why do I keep changing my mind about what I want to do with my life?
Hi, If you used to stick with decisions no matter what and now you can't keep up anymore with any decision... maybe it is because something actually happened to you?? Anyway, knowing what to do in life is something really complicated and you can't blame yourself for not knowing. Most people don't know what they want to do in their life. You should maybe list your passions, your hobbies, the people you love... and find out what matters most to you... and make your living out of this? Good luck! Nicolas.
Keep changing my mind on a baby name!?
I thought I was set on a name for my baby who is due in 7 weeks and now I'm not sure.. Its def gonna be 1 of these 4 names.. Well first names atleast, possibly changing the middle names. Anyway here are the choices: Kayla jae Cameryn rylee Madison olivia Ryleigh nicole Thanks!
Why do I keep changing my mind about everything?
Probably because you don't know what you want, where you are headed, why you are headed there, or what your values are. And if you do know these things are they really what you want?Most people tend to make decisions based on their personal feelings and experiences. The problem is our day to day feelings and experiences change rapidly and extremely which can cause us to be unsure of what we want and can leave us second guessing our decisions. This is why most people describe life as the “rollercoaster of emotions”. We are thrown around by our decisions because they are being guided by how we feel instead of determining how we feel by what we choose to do.At Disneyland there are the cars that I used to love driving as a little kid. It felt so cool to hit the gas pedal and drive a car! Underneath the car was a railing and no matter which way I turned or how hard I hit the gas the rail kept me headed in the right direction, even if I was ramming into the rail and bumping myself against the inside of the little car. That rail is our set of values and purpose. Life will always have its ups and downs but it is our sense of purpose and values that keep us grounded amidst turmoil. If we drive through life with a stable set of values and a purpose then our decisions are pre-determined and easy to make. We simply ask ourselves; “Will this decision bring me closer or farther to what I believe and how I want to live?”
Why does my mind constantly keep on changing?
I used to be indecisive, but now I'm not so sure…Seriously, this is down to not having clearly defined values. If you know your core values and the principles by which you live your life, then decision making becomes a matter of judging potential outcomes against your values.I'm not saying that this always makes it easy - I still struggle with some decisions, having known and understood this basic strategy for many years - but sometimes it really helps to ask yourself, “What is my desired outcome, and how does it stand with my values?”For example: if one of your core values is to cause the least harm to others, which of the possible/likely outcomes of this decision causes least harm to others?The main way that religions catch and keep people - other than by birth to ‘believers’ - is to offer an easy way to remove from you the burden of decision making. Just do as Jesus/Mohammed/Whoever tells you…Free thinkers have to work things out for themselves, but at least they are not slaves to a Book.Self Confidence Through Public Speaking
How can I stop changing my mind about what I want to do?
Take the time to write a short analysis documenting your behavior over the last few years. List the projects you completed. List the reasons you started each project; list your attitude about the project at the beginning; list any temptations, distractions, and challenges you overcame to complete it. List your attitude about the project at the end. Were you satisfied or disappointed in it?It could be that you have excessively high standards for your work and that’s why you don’t finish—because you are never satisfied. Many creative people have that problem, so most of them stop working on something when it is as good as they can make it, and then they move on to a new project.List the projects you abandoned. List the reasons you started each project; list your attitude about the project at the beginning. List the temptations, distractions, and challenges that led you to abandon the work. List your attitude about the project when you abandoned it. List your attitude about any new project that seemed more appealing at the time than your old project. List the outcome of the new project—did you complete it? Were you satisfied by it?See if you can find some patterns at work here. Do you abandon a work because you are dissatisfied with it, or because another one comes along that you like better? What is it in a new project that you like better? Is it because it is more challenging? Is it because you think it will be easy? When you abandon a work do you intend to return to it and finish it later?Is there anything stopping you from returning to your abandoned works and completing them? You might find that you quickly see what made you dissatisfied with them, and very quickly see what can be done to make them better. Writing is certainly that way. First drafts are always awful and messy. After you’ve cleaned up the debris somewhat, it’s best to put it away for a few weeks or months so you can forget all about it and read it with fresh eyes when you return.
So confused! I keep changing my mind about him?
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 10 months. I love him so much and all I wanted to do was be happy with him and trust him 100%. We have a bad past. We both messed up but he did far worse than I did. I can't trust him now and all I do is bug him and ask him questions constantly and he gets so angry with me. He said he doesn't like to be questioned like I do with him and he tells me over and over again he's telling me 100% truth and isn't doing anything wrong. I always get these thoughts in my head thinking he is. I decided to take a break with him because I don't want to push him away for good and constantly worry and question him and then fight about stupid stuff all the time. He still texts me telling me he loves me and he will take me back when I trust him and change. He said he would wait forever to be with me. But the thing is somedays I want to be with him and then just now I don't wanna be with him, but if I told him I didn't want to get back together I would regret it and be depressed without him in my life. I don't know what to do! I hate feeling like this and can't decide what I want. Being away from him like this makes me worry all the time on what he's doing and if he's going to find someone else if we are on a break, but if we weren't on this break I would be with him all the time so I would know what he's doing. What do I do? I'm so confused. I love him so much but I keep changing my mind, but I am miserable without him sometimes.
Why do I keep changing my mind about my girlfriend!?
Mahn, you're in love. I have the same scenario goin on. I know for a fact that I love my girlfriend - more than anything. But only when I'm with her, or thinking about the next day I'll be seeing her. Although I always do love my girlfriend and would always do anything that i could for her, some days i just love her more than others. I'd be more lenient to things she does that may originally piss me off a bit. Love is very tricky to explain, but yea, just go on with it, don't contemplate breaking up with her. Just try to make some time with her. I only see my girlfriend once every week or two so maybe i'm just prescribing myself with advice here but you'll know what to do. Have a good one, mahn
How do I make a steady decision and not keep changing my mind?
Your life will be a complex stream of decision making but you and only you will decide the right course of action for your future.What are your plans for the future and how do you intend to keep on track working towards your ultimate goal.Take small steps to direct you and ensure you are on track to achieve your goals.Here is a simple problem that you can use in order to keep your focus and not change your mind all the time.You are at a zebra crossing and want to get to the other side of the road, simple instructions to achieve thisLook right is the way clear, yes then cross halfway to the island waiting for the traffic to stop.You look left vehicle approaching will they stop ? if not wait until your way is clear then you proceed achieving your goal.The process was simple for that exercise but just like anything else you need to take small steps in order to carry out the task.Work from point to point creating a clear pathway which will eliminate last minute changes/decisions. If you changed your decision to cross the road the result could have been fatal just like life can be when we don’t think things through.