I Keep Having Dreams About A Friend I Had Long Ago This Is Strange To Me Should I Talk To Him

Why do i keep having dreams about a friend that is a guy?

I have known this guy for 10yrs now, i met him when i went to a friends house, since then me an him has came friends. We stayed in touch, when we got little older(starting driving) me an him started going places, hanging out with friends. Then that's when i started to feel something for him, i had told him that i was liking him he said that he like me to. Well from high school we still was together. After school was out we drifted apart lost contact. I moved on an him don't know, one day me and some friends went out 4wheeling and i ran into him, we talked he told me he got married when he told me that the inside of me just felt broken. So we left and after that never saw him again. One day i came home from work got on Myspace i had a friends request from him. I had felt so alive again that he found me. We started talking again he told he was divorce (never said y) after we talk again he asked me to go to the movies with him, then after that we connect all over again. We was with each others for about 3 months, then one day him an his family had to go out of state, when he came back he was totally A$$ towards me we broke off again. I still having feelings for him so bad that ive tried so hard to for get about him. He keeps coming around. It was about 1yr since i had seen him last. Where i work at i see him everyday he comes in before he go to work. After he seen that i worked there he slowly started talking to me again. Now its been 2 yrs, were just friends I had found out that he was engage again to be married this summer 2011. I dream about him everyday us getting back together having a family. One dream i had i woke up crying cuz over him. There's so many dream ive had about him from the start we met. Is these dreams im having about him, trying to tell me something. Until this day i still love him, he was my first forever thing, when he comes in at my work he looks at me, smiles makes me laugh like we use to..I need some help understanding this ive tried talkind to me ppl and they just say move on or he will wake up a realize what he had lost..( LIKE I SAID IVE TRIED TO FORGET HIM BUT I CANT..)

I keep on having STRANGE dreams, EVERY night?

its probably trying to tell you something. Same thing with my best friend she had 2 bad dreams last night that a guy was trying to rape her and she kept screamin let me go and her mom came in trying to wake her up and the other dream i dont remember but she didnt come to school today because she thought the dream meant she was probably going to get raped. Im saying its probably trying to tell you something...it also happened to me..last week i took a nap after hanging out with my boyfriend..i had a dream he was breakin up with me and making me cry i woke up screaming and crying i couldnt even stop i told him he was surprised i asked him if he had something bad to tell me he said not really..pretty weird..next day in school..a girl came up to me saying how she knew him and hes going to cheat on me i told her to stop and i kept crying..then that day ii was crying..next day saturday we almost broke up...and i knew THE DREAM I HAD THAT DAY WAS TRYING TO TELL ME SOMETHING...i suggest if it keeps happening and your getting annoyed by it..go to a doctor..good luckk kay

I keep having dreams about a deceased friend?

I am sorry for the loss of your friend, that is a sad experience.

Your dreams are very normal for someone experiencing the loss of a loved one or friend.

The dreams are likely affected by the fact that you have had strong feelings about having had to miss the funeral. You have done well to come to grips with that - your priorities are well placed and a friend would expect no less than for you to be attending to your child's needs.

However, even though you've made that conscious effort and realize that you had good reason, it takes longer for the inner mind and heart to accept the waking logic of these things. That simply has to do with the magnitude of your feelings, not whether you were 'right' or not.

Even though this friend may not have been your very closest, you did share things and what happened would have come as a terrible shock. The subjects of your dreams about her - the wedding and such - probably all stem from real and wondered things about her. That is normal too - in some deep way our minds do that and reflect many things known or suggested about some one as we come to grips with loss. We cannot help but to see them in certain roles - often happy ones - it is all part of the bitter-sweet healing that takes place in the heart.

If your friend is trying to 'tell' you something I am sure it would be to 'be at peace'. That part of the dreams is about closure and letting go of someone - not to forget, but to keep the only part we can, the good memories and to come to see them at peace, finally.

No human can know for certain whether such dreams amount to 'visits' or not, but one thing is true: these tend to be very real experiences for the beholder. Perhaps it is best to accept it as a gift of moving you toward closure in this loss and allowing you to keep that better part of what was, the good memories and caring you had in your heart.

Perhaps these observations will help as you reflect on the dream and your feelings about them and for your friend. Again, I am very sorry for your loss.

All the best to you for sweet dreams.

This sounds strange: i keep having dreams about my ex. what does this mean??

What do the dreams entail? Often, people we know are in our dreams not as themselves, but as an aspect of ourselves or an abstract ideal.

The dream is not about whether he still likes you. It's about your feelings and may not even be about relationship feelings. I once dreamed about a friend I knew in highschool for 6 months after my grandmother's death. Turned out my mind was using a comfortable face as a sounding board. I finally had a long talk with my friend in my dream and came to terms with my loss. Never dreamed about him again. It didn't mean I was in love with him or missed him. He was just a strong person in real life and that's the kind of person I needed to talk to.

Were you having sex? Coz I'll tell you right off the bat, sex in dreams isn't about sex. It's about lost closeness in relationships, a desire to be friends, or even just your mind's way of admitting you need closer confidantes.

Were you arguing or falling? Could be he represents things in yourself you feel out of control on. Having him in the dream is a way to confront yourself without actually having to take the time and really think about your current life.

That's just a few ideas, really, I'd need to know the dream to be more specific

Why do I keep having dreams about myself dying?

For the past three-four months....I've been having dreams about myself dying. The first time i had the dream, it shows that I was dying of a sickness...and I was a little worried about it. But after that first dream....I keep having dreams of being attacked by strangers who tries to kill me. For example, last night....I had a very long dream. I was being chased by a strange person or something unknown. I saw myself flying as high as I could so it or he wouldn't catch me. Eventually, I was caught and stabbed several times (maybe about fifteen times). I knew I was going to die eventually, but for some reason....It was taking a long time. The person wanted me finished....so he continued following me around while I tried to slowly get away....and stabbed me again and again. I was all bloody and knew that I was going to die, but then I woke up. The dream seemed to have lasted for several hours. I've had many dreams of others dying, but never myself. I need help figuring out the meanings.

I keep having dreams that my friends give birth to animals, should I be concerned?

For the last few days I have been having strange dreams about distant and close friends giving birth to animals, reptiles in particular.
My friend's explain that they have fallen in love with animals, to the point of engaging sex with them. Because reptiles are born via eggs, when they do "birth" the "egg" its a very large reptile that dies within seconds of coming out.

I've never had thoughts zoophilia and nor do I plan to act out any of these strange images. Help?

What does it mean when you keep having dreams of your man cheating?

I'll tell you right now that he is.....dreams aren't just "dreams"...yes, sometimes we have weird dreams that mean crazy different things, but if you are having a recurring dream of this guy cheating on you, it's most likely true. My best friend was having dreams that her man was cheating on her and she would freak out but it turned out to be true....

Your dreams are your subconscious telling you something, especially if they're recurring. It is possible if you contstantly dwell on the idea that he might be cheating, that you'll have dreams about it, but there has to be a reason for you to be thinking like that.

I keep having dreams of me deceased dad (long story!)?

He passed away about 4 years ago and we were a very, very close family.
My mother met someone else then 2 and a half years later, in my opinion, it felt too soon for her to be with somebody else and obviously I was livid and upset. But because my mother had been depressed for SO long, with my dad being ill for 2 years and then dying I tried my best to accept it, because she was alot happier.
Her new lover has moved in recently, I was okay with that. But now, she has taken all pictures of my dad from the walls, she never visits his grave, so it's just up to me to visit and put flowers upon his grave, and she never, ever, EVER talks about him, or hints or relates anything like about him. And to top it all off, they are engaged and have planned their wedding for June.
Recently, every night or any time I fall asleep I will dream about him, or he is in the background of my dreams. I've had one dream, when I am on the sofa with my mother, my dad, and my mother's new partner, and everyone talking, when my dad stops the conversation by saying 'Why are you ignoring me Liz?' (Liz is my mothers name). And everything goes awkward and I dont remember anything else...
Another time, in my dream, my mother and her partner were going on a holiday, as they were going to leave, my dad appeared and was crying as they left and sat alone on a chair while me and my sister were helping my mother to the door.
It;s really upsetting, is it my mind playing with me?

I keep having a dream that my husband is either cheating on me or constantly texts or calling his ex why?

The first time I was married the man I was married to was great treated me like a queen and so on. About a year of being married if that long I just like you had dreams in my dreams he was with a dark hair girl or with his best friend. He pcs for a few weeks south and I was still back up north "military" anyway, I called him out of the blue when he first got down there and heard a girls voice in the back ground. He told me it was someone who was pcs there too and was giving her a ride where she needed to go. I was like ok but it still was weird to me. Well after that I still kept having the dreams a few times a week and it was really annoying the **** out of me. Well fast forward about a year later I was Just happening to go through the computer cleaning things off and running some programs and right there in an email I seen emails to and from some girl. I was in shock! Because not in a million years would you ever believe this guy would cheat I'm serious. Here to come and find out I was the fool and I learned a lesson by all this that I think subconsciously I kind of pick up on something wasn't right without even thinking about it. That would have been the only reason for me having those dreams. I thought maybe I was just having them because of a fear or a what if kind of thing. So to this day I don't know what the deal was but I honestly believe my dreams were trying to tell me something. I hope this isn't the case for you. But he was the greatest guy who would have thought! I filed for divorce and that was the end of me and him. Always listen to you women's intuition seriously no matter how wrong you think your might be. We have it for a reason!