Most of the women I know have given out their number out of fear/to get the guy to leave her alone at least once. And they give a real number because the creepier dudes will call it to make sure.So no, it’s not always a good sign.Now imagine how much an attractive barmaid gets hit on by creepy dudes.Also, she probably has a lot of people/guys texting her, plus a busy life, so your text better be worthwhile.Rule #1:When I communicate with women I always try to be sensitive to their tonality and body language. If she smiles and says “that sounds interesting”, but doesn’t ask a real followup, it was probably not that interesting for instance. If she goes out of her way to touch me, that’s probably a good sign no matter what else was said because women don’t touch men they don’t want to touch like that. Paying attention to the big picture and observing the details is key.Rule 2: Apply rule 1 to texting. You are a guy she met at work last week. Probably didn’t remember you. When you text a virtual stranger, you basically have to establish that you’re safe/ not a creep while also being fun(ny)/interesting enough for her to want to reply.If you know her a little better and things have been going well, you can be more to the point. “Hey, how about grabbing that drink we mentioned?” For example is okay in that context. Provided you talked about grabbing a drink in person.That’s also my favorite way to go about it. Get the number as a side effect, per se, of something else. That way she has already agreed to, say, check out the great coffee place downtown, so asking for her number is not as random/creepy.
When she asks you for who gave you her number, it’s time to impress her my boy. Here’s how you do just that.Pretend like you didn’t hear her question. Go on with whatever you were talking about. If she insists, tell her “Now you’re boring me, let me just delete your number after all.” Hold your phone, pretend you’re deleting her number and tell her this, “Thanks for not letting me waste my time.” Trust me, you’re killing it. She will be surprised and happy the next time she hears from you.Tell her, she called you. How else would you get her number? You’re still killing it.If she has a boyfriend or she says she has one, tell her you got it from him. You’re - for the last time - still killing it.I hope that helps. Go get your girl…
I have a friend who likes me and i really like her. I've never felt like this with other girls. Slight Problem?
You my friend are an idiot. Organized religion is completely retarded. I mean honestly, you were both raised on a system of beliefs and values, are you REALLY going to try to change everything shes known from her birth to now. IF you even try you are an asshole. Second your trying to forget her JUST because shes of a different religion. Once again you need to remember its not either of your alls fault that you were raised into a religion that bases itself off of homophobia, sexism, and racism. I bet you wouldn't even talk to a girl that was Muslim, and a girl being a priest?!?!? forget it! Take a look at your belief system. EVERYONE is entitled to their own beliefs, organized religion RUINS this. You are following a belief that OTHERS made up. You never even got a chance to think for yourself. You are raised to believe that just because someone is of a different religion you cant even ASSOCIATE with her. You think she will go to hell because shes not christian??? WHAT IF YOU ARE WRONG. What if the Mormons are the ones that were right, do you deserve to go to hell even though you're a good person but was raised on a value system that wasn't right? That makes a lot of sense. BEFORE YOU GO ASKING SENSELESS QUESTIONS LIKE THIS. A person is a person you should never discriminate based on their religion. Go out with this girl and stay christian, and let her stay Mormon. If everyone learned to live like this we could live in a world with complete peace.
I've done both. The trick, really, is how you handle things afterward.When I give someone my number, I'm telling them - "I'd like to hear from you, but I'm leaving that choice up to you." It works well when you're interested but also capable of not worrying about the result, and sometimes this is a safer option, especially if the person you're giving your number has had bad experiences with people pestering her or stalking her afterward. I usually say "Hey, here's my number. I'd really love to hear from you sometime." I disagree with Jay Deaux who says 'don't put the ball in her court. She won't follow up.' - Put the ball in her court, if you want to. Just don't expect whether she will or will not follow up. Personally, I prefer to be with people who are willing to put in a little energy, and there's still plenty of chase!More recently, I think I've had more success keeping in touch this way than the other way around.When I ask for someone's number, I'm saying "Hey, I'd really like to talk to you again, how can I reach you?" - and it moves the moment of decision up to now, instead of giving time to think through it. This usually increases the likelihood that you will talk again because she's already committed herself to that idea by giving you her number, but it also increases the likelihood that she might give you a false number and neither of you have a way to get in touch. As Chee Lee suggests, it can for many also be a nice compliment to be asked, even if she's not interested.There is a third option, with numbers: "Hey, I'd really love to talk to you again. Can we trade numbers?" - that ensures at least one of you has a way to reach the other.And again - there are other ways to stay in touch now: email, facebook, twitter - and perhaps any of them will be acceptable even when sharing phone numbers is not.
Does this girl like me as more than a friend?
A friendhip with a woman is greater of a ideal courting, somebody like one you paintings with in an place of work, or a classmate with whom you talk preparation appropriate issues, and so on. while the formality will become much less and the involvement will become greater via way of sharing own info, spending time with one yet another for purposes different than what a ideal courting demands, and assembly one yet another greater generally and at diverse places for exciting and sport, then the girl-pal/boy-pal reltionship includes play.
Happens to everyone bro. Myself included. She was a co worker we got hired around the same month so we are fairly new, and everything was fine on the start. There is comfort, we are greeting each other, she smiles at me a lot and I admit I kind of like her, and wanted to know and be friends with her, not really to pursue her right away. Around our 2nd month, some of our co workers started to tease us and told her that I have a crush on her, which I don't take seriously that time, but like I said I admit that I wanted to know her, at least. Suddenly from that point, I noticed she started to become a bit indifferent to me and I noticed she started to avoid interactions to me like the vibe is gone. She even mentioned to my co worker she has a boyfriend when my co worker joked about me asking for her number. From then on we barely even talk and had interactions for the next 3 months or so. I added her on Facebook, which she accepted, but pretty much it's apparent that she's cold and indifferent specifically to me whenever I comment, encourage or complement her. She literally ignores it. After 5 months, I resigned to my work and never had the chance to really have real conversations with her. I admit that I really liked her. Now, whenever I message her on FB, she aggressively ignores it and makes it REALLY obvious not to reply on my comments on her posts. And oh, it says on her relationship status she's actually single and doesn't have a bf. Kinda suck right?But I came to realize what went wrong. First, her reaction is normal. A girl's initial reaction would be like this when feels threatened (when she knew that I "like" her), coz I see that she's like a conservative type, NBSB or whatever. I think she kinda assumed that I was gonna pursue her and try win her heart. Or maybe I've done something along the way that just turned her off straight up. Most girls ignoring is a silent way of indicating she's not interested or she doesn't like you back, hard truth my friend.So my advice is distance yourself to her, but try if you can still impress her from afar. Stop messaging her if she doesn't reply and don't make her feel that you're affected by her non responsiveness. Don't appear needy. Don't be her cheerleader coz you'll lose respect and value to her knowing that you'll always stay. And try to meet new girls, it's hard to believe but it's so much better being with a person who likes you at a mutual way.