I lied to my girlfriend ... should I tell her the truth?
I've been dating my girlfriend for well over a year. Back when we first started dating I told a lie about a girl who I had dated a few times in the past but with which I was now just friends with. I didn't tell her anything about this girl in detail. How we met? Where? What happened? Etc... because it all happened in the past. However my girlfriend was questioning me and when I had told her we were always just friends she said good because she would break up with me if I was still friends with someone I dated or hooked up with. A few months later I found out that the old girl still liked me so I cut off all communication and told her that I was dating someone new and it was better that we didn't talk anymore. I haven't heard from her since. I feel bad about lying to my girlfriend for all this time but I'm afraid if I tell her the truth she will break up with me because of the lie not because of the girl. To clarify I never did anything with this girl while I was with my girlfriend only before. I'm afraid she might find out someday and it might be better to tell her now and just suck up the consequences. On the other hand I haven't talked to this other girl for over 6 months and she is completely out of my life so I'm thinking I may just let sleeping dogs lie.
I lied to my girlfriend.What should I do?
Thanks for asking. I would be happy to help you.You told her that you are in an IIT but you are actually dropping a year. I believe that the IIT tag was not the reason behind your relationship. Anyway.You lied to her because you wanted to boast yourself and put an impressive impression in front of her. Dont regret, its human nature. She might be pretty and your hormones made you lie. Anyway.You people fell in love and are having a long distance relationship. Thats cute. Best wishes bhai.Wait… Where is the answer?You should not tell her. The truth. You are performing well in the coaching. And this relationship is the reason behind.What if you tell her?You might loose your focus.She might loose her focus.Heartbreaks are really sad.And this could effect JEE 2017.Come on, The forms are out bro.What if you dont?No change.Everything goes on, the way its going.What should you do?Continue.Give exams.Have results.Take admission.Meet her.And then only, tell her. Every minute detail.You can also tell her about this answer of mine.How would she react?Well, this one, I cant predict. This all depends on several factors. I can only suggest you how to maximise the chances, for success.Right time: choose the right time. Right place and the right situation. When you people have sufficient time with you. And the chances for her, leaving the conversation, is minimum.Right moment: when she is neither too excited nor too normal. When her state of mind is somewhere between happy and excited.Right words: be selective about the lines you would be saying. Try not to say, but to convince through your words. Discussion wins over statements.Best wishes.
My girlfriend lied straight to my face?
She told me she was going out with her volleyball team for dinner after practive, but instead she went out to dinner with another guy. I am not worried that she is cheating on me. I know the guy, and I told her that i didn't like her hanging out with her because he tells her how she should break up with me and says hateful things about me. So i guess i am worried that maybe she lied to me because she doesn't want me to get mad at her. But my question is, is that maybe it is my fault she lied to me, and I should not tell her who I don't like her hanging out with. What do you think?
I lied to my girlfriend about my nationality, what should I do??
Ok I met this beautiful girl at college, doing group activity in class.Rite away I could tell she liked me right from the beginning by how she would look at me.So sooner enough the teacher would ask the students to get contact information with everyone in the group.So I did, and me being a slick guy i used that group contact information as an advantage to get to know her better.Ive texted messaged her, then eventually moved onto the phone, to actually going out with her ever since.She has brought me so much happiness, its like she feel from the sky at just the right time.2 months go by (i know only) and she has just recently wrote me a letter saying, "she wasn't expecting to meet someone like me and she doesn't want this happiness to end."Techinally we arent even in a relationship, but I know we could be happy forever.But theres one thing, I lied about my race to get her to go out with me. Shes 100% P. Rican, and I told her I was too.I'm Cuban/Haitian, and British;afraid wuldnt like me
I lied about my age to my girlfriend. Should I tell her the truth?
I didn't think it would get serious, but I feel strong feelings for her and want to keep this relationship! When I first met her I said I was a number of years younger than I actually am, obviously she believes it and so does everyone. Its just something I always lie about when I don't think I'm going to have to get to know a person seriously cause I look younger, BUT I want to be with her. How do I tell the truth without her leaving me? Or should I not even bother to tell the truth?
I lied to my girlfriend about something. What should I do?
There come some point in our time where we do lie to someone and then regret it later on. So, don’t let your lie turn in to a regret.Just go and confess it in front of her and i’m sure she will definetly understand and forgive you.Think twice, before you lie to someone.Sometimes just to escape the situation or the thought of loosing that person force us to lie. There can be ’n’ number of reason behind it.“One side you are lying to the person and on the other side you are intentionally or unintentionally doubting on their trust towards you”.At one point of time she might forgive you but don’t take her forgivness for granted. One, twice, thrice it’s okay but repeating the same mistake again and again will eventually break her trust on you and you might even loose her.“It takes a lifetime to gain someone’s trust on you but it only takes a fraction of second to break that trust”.
I lied to my girlfriend, twice..please help?
I lied to her twice, in the past 6 months, First one is about a girl who wanted to go home with me and i told her i diddn't know her name when i did because she lives next door from me. And about me smoking pot, she hates it and ive done it alot, when she asked how much ive done it i told her the truth. She wasn't happy with me and we almost broke up. She says she lost all trust for me which i understand. How do i gain her trust back, i already told her i will stop completly? I feel like these lies arnt that major where they don't jepardize my relationship but she feels that if its that easy to lie "withhold information" than i can lie about other things. I don't lie about other things to her though. She says im a compulisive liar because at a bar when im drunk ill tell someone im from someplace rediculas or ive dont something amazing but im just having fun messing around. I feel like im in liar liar the movie. Please give me advice what to do. I dont want to lose her
My girlfriend calls me a liar! what should I do?
At first I lied to my girlfriend inorder to protect her feelings... she found out that I lied several times and now she don't stop asking me questions about my past.. I promised her to tell her every single detail about my past on what we called a "confession day" several days afterwards, she asked me some questions about my past and it seems that I forgot to tell her these details on the confession day and she started doubting me and interrogating me again... I tiered of this I know that my past won't do any good to this relationship and will be harmful to both of us that was the reason I didn't tell him all the truth from the beging but now I am stuck and tiered of her continous questions... please help what should I do?!