I Like A Girl Near My Office What Should I Do

I like a girl in my office who sits near me. We don't know each other. How can I know if she has similar feelings for me? I feel shy talking to her.

It’s normal to feel shy and even self conscience talking to a crush.But part of being an adult is pushing yourself passed that feeling and engaging a little. Keep it simple. Start with “Hello” . Then move on to “Hello, how are you doing today?” Make greeting her a regular thing is what I’m saying. It will normalize the act of talking with her.Trust me. If she is interested in you, at least enough to get to know you the conversations will get a bit longer on their own. Eventually you’ll get to the point where you’ll know you should not be talking so much at work and it will seem more natural to ask her out for a coffee, lunch or maybe even a drink to continue your conversation.The only thing I will add is to remember, just because a woman enjoys talking to you and might also enjoy having coffee or lunch with you as a friend. That doesn’t always mean they are interested in DATING. You’ll still have to cross that bridge when your ready by asking her on a real date.But build up to it. There is always a good chance she is less shy then you and might be perfectly clear up front that she is interested and the mystery will be solved quite quickly.Good Luck.

I like a girl in my office, but I don't have guts to talk to her. How do I approach her?

Great!Often I encounter same kind of situation in my office. Let me share my experience, from which you can learn some good lessons. My experience will teach the ways which should be followed and not be followedNot to FollowNever try to initiate the first talk via any social networking sites such as Facebook, Quora or Instagram. A girl will not encourage and appreciate this. Although it is very easiest method, Please avoid it.Never go wherever she is going. Please understand that, you’re inside the office premise to work and not find a match for your life.Since you can find the contact number of the girl via office database, please don’t ever use it without the permission. This may create a bad impression on you and may lead to adverse effects too.Better avoid pinging the girl via the office manager. This may also create a bad impact on you and it will lead to irritation if the girl is very busy in her work.Avoid reaching her outside the office premise.To FollowDon’t hesitate to face the girl face to face with the smiling face. Start with the smile. This will create some positive hope.Trying getting some good friends in her team, if the girl is not from the same team. Getting girlfriends in her team will make the task very easy.Add some wishes along with the smile. Since, it office premise she would reply at least with some bitter mood. This will create some hope and increase the confidential level.Following the above steps will help to initiate the small talk with the girl. Making that as big, depends talent.Note: Don’t be afraid about Higher officials or HR manager. Don’t do anything which will make you to reach them.Cheers!

How do I talk to an unknown girl in the office?

A common question I get from clients.If I see a I girl that fancy me in the office, I 'll keep a note in my mind about getting to know her.Yes just a note, not to make her like me, not to impress her, not to hypnotize her but getting to know her.I prefer the non chalant way always with women, because specifically in India women are keen observer of a man’s behaviours.So now I will look for a window where few snippets of conversation are possible, like during lunch time or tea break or after work, but I will never go overboard to get to know her.What will be my conversation look like?Me : How is your day going?She : As usual.Me : oh that's news to me, I didn't know everyday an unknown guy tries to get to know you. In fact mine is not as usual.Now from here on I have set a frame respectfully.If she is not interested in carrying the conversation further its cool, and if she is then uber cool.

I like a girl at my office, how do I reveal to her my feelings?

People have fallen love with people in different continents, different careers, different religions and what not! Sometimes it's all three and sometimes it's just one. Doesn't mean you can't get you own drive to the sunset!So you like her... Then go and be friends with her! Talk to her about common things. Your background, hobbies, different parts of life,etc. Ask her about her interests and life. Get talking and half the battle is won. After a point, if you think she likes you too, ask her out. If she isn't interested, then unfortunately, you'd have to back off. But let's hope it doesn't happen. For all you know, she might come to like you too!In anycase, you need to work on it. Pining, no matter how romantic it is, is neither here nor there. Present your case or else she won't know what on your mind (she isn't a mind reader, you know).Best of luck!

If I secretly love a girl in my office, and if we are in the same department and same team, should I ask her out?

2 things:-(1) In a similar situation in past-- if in same workplace-- I stopped myself-- and fell upon the sword rather than let my personal connects damage the work atmosphere. but went part of the way-- so my advice.(2) Make her comfortable and establish some rapport-- and then after you have a level of frankness with her-- say hi-hello and smiling to acknowledge each other's presence-- that she know you wont backstab her and you know she wont backstab you-- after that:Just ask her out... suggest that you two go to see a new movie together OR that you and she try out some new eating place/bar on a weekend OR otherwise take a walk outside or something.Dont worry-- girls are much smarter than men in covering their tracks-- and even if she says no-- she will feel flattered and see you as special because in her eyes you will still remain a possible future romantic partner.Ofcourse-- in the process it may happen that she cuts it short-- by ignoring/disrespecting you OR by snubbing you OR by afterwards insulting you to shoo you away-- in that case take it with dignity and keep moving onOR she may speed up things by saying yes, yes OR slow things down by being sweet but taking time to get comfortable...Basically it is as much of a challenge for her as it is for you-- but like they say "love will find a way!".Hope this helps...

How do I approach a girl who works in the same office?

Instead of getting all tangled up in suggestions by all and sundry, next time your eyes meet, please SMILE. That doesn't mean you stand there keep smiling like, in your words, a douche bag. It should be natural. You walk past, your eyes meet, you smile, don't wait for her to respond, just keep walking. That should break the ice. If she is interested, next time around she should respond, meaning Smile, in a way that you notice. That's step one.Step two, after a couple of days of smiles, try making a very general comment: it's hot today, huh? Mundane comments like that. Get the drift?Step three, corner her in the lift and….. just kidding. Once you get talking, trust me, if she is interested things will move ahead. Of course you need to take the initiative. There's a magic called communication. Open your mouth and speak up.One advise however, be a gentleman at all times. Respect her and honor her wishes. If at any point in time she indicates that she is uncomfortable with your advances, step back and make yourself​ sparse.

I love a girl in my office. But the problem is I am not too close to her. Moreover she has a boyfriend, too. How can I convince her or propose to her?

Please do not ask these questions.You know she has a boyfriend and still you wana propose her?What if someone proposes your girlfriend?Why are you making things complicated for her?Also, what good can come from all this if she is your coworker? How weird would it be to see each other daily if this dosent work well?I know, you know the answers to all these questions.Be strong and let go.Hope you understand.