Who would help me cross dress to be a girl?
Hiring someone will be your best bet.If you can afford to pay a professional by the hour, in my experience you can find a stylist, a model, or a fashion enthusiast to crossdress you in women’s clothing and makeup. They will also teach you - if you’re interested in learning - how to do this for yourself.This experience can be a load of fun if you approach it with a positive attitude. You can place an advertisement in your local paper or on craigslist as a part-time job offer. If you click on the graphic below, it will expand so you can see it more clearly.Your posting title can be “Searching for a woman to help me get in touch with my feminine side” or something like this. Many years ago, I did something similar and 40 women responded within the first 48 hours of my ad appearing online. I interviewed all of them and hired a fashion model to help me. She and I worked together for six hours a week for an entire year.I loved every minute of it - as I believe you will too.
Stop crossdressing?
You are, as many crossdressers have before you, are going through a "purge" stage. This is normal. However, you are a crossdresser. Even if it is something that you try to put past you and you try to ignore, it is still a part of you. Why try to fight it? I mean here you just created a name here to join Yahoo Answers and you identified that as being a sissy. It is a part of you. I'm a firm believer in being yourself. Being a crossdresser does not mean that gay. I'm not. Could you lose a lot of relationships?? Yes you could. But that simply would mean that your intended partner just didnt understand. But there definately women out there who do like crossdressing men. I have met several. I'm still looking for the one that I would like to end up with, however I definately have met some. Don't give up hope. And please, be proud of who you are and be yourself. PS. If you can get and read the book: My Husband Betty.
Why do some people get aroused by crossdressing?
It's obvious fetish behavior - using objects to get sexually aroused. People can get aroused from some really strange things. In any case their brain is hard-wired to respond to their fetish by releasing dopamine and other neurotransmitters. These neurotransmitters then produce sensations of well-being and sexual gratification. It affects the reward centers of the brain, instant gratification, and thus it mimics the addiction response. It's impossible to say exact how his brain is interpreting his fetish to receive the stimulation. Perhaps this gay man wasn't ambivalent about his sexual orientation. He couldn't fully accept himself as gay. So if he could get another guy to cross-dress then his brain would tell him that he is now justifying his sexual orientation.
How far is too far for a crossdresser? I don't know what to do next.?
I have been crossdressing since the age of 7 and i am now 34 years old, I have gotten so good at it with the use of the right clothes and corsets and padding etc etc and my proffessional makeup training. I go out all day and go everywhere no one even blinks an eye or considers me nothing but an everyday female out and about.About 2 years ago i started dating a girl who not only loves it but has encouraged me to go farther. I stated taking female hormones 15 months ago I had a nose job and got small b cup implants because she encouraged me too. I am starting to regret all this as before it was only for fun and now when i look in the mirror i see a girl looking back at me.My hips have fulled out my skin has softened and my hair is too long and my body is becoming too female and i am scared. I am a crossdresser not a transsexual. I have now been living as a girl 24/7 for about 6 full months but im afraid if i stop my girl will leave me
How can a cross dresser have sex?
Simple have sex but maintain the visual your partner wanted to see. Say you are a cross-dresser male to female keep your wig on, make-up, retouch your makeup if you have to I recommend long lasting lipstick, keep the fake breasts or whatever you use to make the breasts you can even choose not to remove your top.Same for FTM keep your male hair intact, breast hidden.In both cases just make sure not to break the visual, your partner wanted a woman with a penis, he will get that, or your partner wanted a woman with a penis, she will get that and vice-versa. Don’t think too much about it, just have fun and whenever you can, practice your alter-ego voice
How does it feel to crossdress?
Well, cross-dressing is the act of bringing out something in you. Either you are heterosexual but the female clothing arouse you. Probably because you feel hugged by femininity to a level that is humanly impossible to hug, maybe because want to add a level of sexiness.Others just want to express an inner person such is the case of gay and bisexual cross-dressers. I appear to be heterosexual, but I am in fact bisexual. When I put on makeup, and slowly see the male face disappear under layers of makeup, a wig. It feels great, I feel liberated, is like someone that wanted to come out, is out there and it just feels great. Is a big stress reliever too, the way I see it is that the guy has a lot to deal with, work responsibilities, bills, etc. It’s hard to believe, but she helps me, she has no responsibilities she doesn’t even exits and allows me to look at things from another point of view, no pressure.I feel that cross-dressing is some sort of artwork, the art of bringing the femininity out of a man, no hormones, no surgery. I just simply love it. In my case I feel I have a woman trapped inside of me but wont give up the man in me, I love both.I love men, but being a cross-dresser allows me to get closer to my wife, she knows but hasn’t see me. But when I see her with her makeup on, her outfits I know she knows I appreciate the efforts she put in. I know how much work it takes to get a makeup done, how hard is to walk in heels. There are some perks I listed in other answers you can just click my profile and look at my answers. But there are some perks to dating a cross-dresser
Crossdressing fetish? Or something more?
This is a fetish. Its a small problem. Don't let it become a big problem. Most psychologists don't consider it a problem as long as you keep it under control. Stage 1: During your early childhood you overvalued females. This could mean that you just liked females and feared males, or you thought females were virtuous and males were vile. Or, it could mean you thought society favored girls over boys, and girls had it better in life than boys. Or, it could just mean that you were attracted to pretty shiny things, pink girls things, fingernail polish, etc. and adults all told you, "that's for girls". In any event you just thought your gender was inferior. All this was just getting you set for the next stage. Stage 2: You hit puberty and your hormones are flowing. Now you are attracted to girls. You are all alone in the house and you see some feminine clothing and you experiment with them. Suddenly you feel a rush of excitement, sexual stimulation, and satisfaction. Its all in your brain. Your brain is now hard-wired to respond to cross-dressing just as if you are in contact with a female. When you feminize yourself your brain thinks contact with a female, and releases a host of neurotransmitters. The neurotransmitters produce sensations of well-being, pleasure, sexual gratification and self-identity. It affects the reward centers of your brain, instant gratification, and thus it mimics the addiction response. Stage 3: You are maturing and you don't feel the same rush as your early cross-dressing years. Cross-dressers say its not a sexual thing. Many say its just makes them feel comfortable. They also have to go further and take greater risks to keep their level of neurotransmitters high. Cross-dressers are more interested in enhancing their feminine side. Most get married and just keep their cross-dressing limited and private. Some guys are more interested in nursing their fetish than anything else. Most cross-dressers are normal, healthy, heterosexual men. They know they men. They want a girlfriend and they hope to get married someday. So they learn to keep their cross-dressing limited and private. Just set your own limits that you can live with, and stick to that. That's cool. Remember this mimics the addiction response, so keep it under control. You'll be fine.