I like my best guy friend. what do I do?
Do you mean Like like? It is OK to say “love”.The concern, usually, is that, if you reveal your feelings to your best friend, and they do not feel the same way, then that could make things weird. Part of the confidence we have in our fiends is the lack of romantic or sexual attachments complicating things. If those feelings change, then we have to decide if we should continue the friendship we have, or risk it in the hope of something better.In other words: “to be or not to be”.There is no good solution … my own experience is that, if I don’t take the risk, things will get weird anyway. A really good friend should be able to cope. If they can’t, well, better to find out sooner rather than later.That’s all very well for me - you will have to assess the risks vs reward based on what you know about your situation. ie. if you know your friend is into someone else or you are not his type or your sexualities are not compatible.Just bear in mind that it is fine to love someone who does not love you back. If they know about it, and accept it, then that keeps the feeling manageable.
I have a crush on my friend's best friend. What should I do?
Enjoy it!Having a crush is a beautiful feeling, enjoy the phase and don't overthink about it. There is no harm in it. In fact, having a hopeless crush on someone is the most freeing and exciting feeling in world, as long as it is harmless. Do not overthink and give yourself a hard time by analysing a simple and natural feeling of a healthy heart and mind.If you expect something in return, then a problem might arise. So just come clean to your friend and tell him/her about how you feel. Be honest, a “friend” will understand.Who knows, something beautiful might be in store in the future!
My mom hates my Best Friend?
what does your friend do to make your mom think that she is rude? If your friend is being rude, then you should talk to her about it and have your friend act the way your mom expects whenever she goes to your house. Afterall, it is your mom's house and she has the right to expect respect...and if you're not sure what it is, then you should ask your mom what it is that bugs her about your friend. Make sure you let your mom know why you love your friend so much...and whenever you get the chance slip in some positive stories about your friend, so that your mom has the opportunity to understand why this friendship is so important to you...and perhaps then she will begin to accept your friend. Good luck
I like my best friend's brother, what should I do?
You know what? You must be a really good friend b/c if you didn't care for your friendship you wouldn't be asking this question. You have done the right thing except you're asking the wrong person, talk to your friend, sometimes it works out sometimes it doesn't but, at least you are starting off on the right foot, just be honest with your friend because if you really don't know how the brother is the friend can tell you the truth, what if he turned out to be just a heart breaker, she (your friend) wouldn't let you get involved with him because if you broke-up with him a week later it would be an awkward situation when you would come to visit, My younger brother decided to mess around with a very close friend of mines as a matter of fact my daughters auntie and when I found out I was hurt, I felt betrayed by them both, they were of age and unmarried but, I felt like they were like brother & sister because that was what I felt but, when it was all said and done at the end of the day, they didn't owe me nothing, I just felt like they did, and your friend will appericate it if you told her how you feel instead of hearing about it from someone else.
My best friend's cousin died what should i do?
I've lost a lot of people who were close to me, and I find that all I want is for a friend to just "be there". Don't tell her it's gonna be ok, don't tell her time heals all wounds... people don't really want to hear the cliches when they're grieving. A big warm hug and letting her cry will help her more than a long conversation.
My best friend loves me. I don't love him. What should I do?
“Love and Friendship”, both the words have their own importance. Love gives us pain and frienship gives us peace. Love is unconditional but it's a need. Friendship is forever but it's a Joy. Love is eternal and friendship too. But in love you think about the other person and forget youself, but in frienship you love the other person not by forgetting youself. Frienship makes you stronger and loves makes you weaker(Exception are always there). There is a very thin line between love and friendship.Both the words are very powerful. If u say , “you love him as a friend” , that means you love yourself first and then your friend.If u say , “ you have fallen in love with him”, that means you love him first by forgetting yourself. He’s more important than your life.You got to understand this, “Everything that falls, get broken”. Without a heartbreak you can't say , that you have been in love ever.Now just take time, and think. Do you love him or not.??Is he your friend??OrIs he your lover??OrIs he your soulmate??As of now. By looking at your question. I think you are puzzled in your own thoughts.Solution to this is : Get distinct from your Bestfriend. Stop texting him for few days. You would get to know the real truth of yours. Just listen to your heart. Imagine that he is not your friend anymore. You would get to know , the feeling you are going through is love or it's just a friendship.If you are clear on this, that he is just your Bestfriend! Nothing more than that. Then why are you so much concerned about him.If you think , that he is your Bestfriend than just go to him and tell everything straight forward.Why are you hesitating ??If he is your Bestfriend , he would totally understand your situation. Because friendship is more important that love. If he is your true friend, he would choose friendship over love.Don't get conscious. Be brave enough to face it. Wether it's a breakup or rejection. (In terms of frienship).P.S - Friendship and love are like worshipping a god. Needs more devotion and patience. Don't destroy it. It takes million of days to build it and a second to destroy it.All the best.