I like my best friend's brother, what should I do?
You know what? You must be a really good friend b/c if you didn't care for your friendship you wouldn't be asking this question. You have done the right thing except you're asking the wrong person, talk to your friend, sometimes it works out sometimes it doesn't but, at least you are starting off on the right foot, just be honest with your friend because if you really don't know how the brother is the friend can tell you the truth, what if he turned out to be just a heart breaker, she (your friend) wouldn't let you get involved with him because if you broke-up with him a week later it would be an awkward situation when you would come to visit, My younger brother decided to mess around with a very close friend of mines as a matter of fact my daughters auntie and when I found out I was hurt, I felt betrayed by them both, they were of age and unmarried but, I felt like they were like brother & sister because that was what I felt but, when it was all said and done at the end of the day, they didn't owe me nothing, I just felt like they did, and your friend will appericate it if you told her how you feel instead of hearing about it from someone else.
He's 19... I'm 17...& he's my best friends brother?
what do you guys think of the age difference? He's not in college, just working. I see him all the time since he lives at home. What about him being my best friends brother? I know she wouldnt care, she just has a HUGE mouth. Do you think a 19 yr old guy would ever go for his little sister's friend? or no???
My Best Friend's brother likes me a lot!! What to do?
My friend's brother is one year younger than his sister and I (we're 13 year old eighth graders, he's a 12 year old 7th grader). At first i thought it was just a little crush and told his sister that too, saying that he would get over it. He liked this other girl his own age more than he liked me, so i thought he would most likely get over it. But he started hanging out with my friend and I, and apparently he got into an argument with the girl he liked. Now whenever he talks to me on facebook he starts off with something like "hey sexy" and will randomly say he loves me when we talk online; He'll also say stuff like "talking to me just makes him want me more" and is always asking about dating things like what 'I would like as a first date, in case we go out' or what i like in boys. He knows I don't like him but I don't know what to do??
I like my friend's brother?
So I've met her brother before and I had a crush on him the first time I saw him. I usually don't have crushes that fast cuz I don't pay attention but after meeting him 3 times (counting that first time too), hanging out with her and him, I've started to really like him and I am freaking out! The last time we hung out, his arm accidentally brushed my arm and I didn't feel all butterfly but I just felt kind of happy, self conscious and idk, hold hands.... OMFG THIS IS EMBARRASING lol I'm having an internal battle with myself. I usually consult my mom for any crush or love problem but I just can't talk to her about it and I'm losing my sleep time! He's left to go to the military so I won't be seeing him around for another 2-3 years but even after a year of not seeing him, I like him! The bad thing is... After that one year and we hung out, he got cuter in my opinion and I just feel so conflicted... I know for sure nothing will happen between me and her brother since he's gonna be gone for 2-3 years but I just really need help on this.
I really like my best friend's brother. ?
First off let me say my boyfriend&I broke up about 3 weeks ago cause he's moved away, military family, I hate it. /: BUT life must go on. &Even though me&my boyfriend were together for 9 months, I never stopped liking my best friend's brother. &I've like him for 2 1/2 years. Just so you know, I did tell my boyfriend about this, &I never tried anything with my best friend's brother. So I just turned 15, &my best friend's brother just turned 18. Please don't say anything about age, I'm not stupid. So anywho, I'm always over my best friend's house, like basically every weekend, &her brothers there most of the time. &NO, I am NOT going to my friend's house to see her brother. I really like him, &I THINK he likes me, I'll give you some examples... When we go camping he helps me into the boat, he smiles randomly at me, he steps on my toes ALWAYS at church when he goes by me on the benches (I know this is weird, but when he does, he turned around&laughs, &says sorry&rubs my shoulder a little), I always catch him looking at me, when we were at the movies he made an effort to sit by me, before I leave my friend's house he tells me bye, during the summer when we're midnight swimming, he always plays with me (dunking, pulling me up on his shoulders&throwing me off, wrapping his legs around me so I can't get away.) Oh&yesterday was my birthday, &he plays piano (I love that) so he started playing "Happy Birthday", I'm not actually sure he was playing to me, cause he was playing LOTS of random stuff... Gosh, that's all I can really remember. Haha. &Just so you know, he never really did anything like this while I was with my boyfriend. So anywho, I don't know what to do... I have told my best friend a longggg time ago I liked her brother, &she was like, "Go for it. Haha." But I'm not sure if she was serious... What should I do. Please nothing obnoxious, I really need some advise. Oh&sorry this was sooo long. Please&thank you.
My boy friend is fighting over me with my best friend's brother i don't want them to get hurt!-HELP!?
Grow up, why would the brother start something with YOUR boyfriend unless you showed interest. If I was your boyfriend I'd do your best friend and say "How do ya like me now"
So I like this guy and he's my best friend's brother and we held hands at the movie but he always dates his sister's friends. Should I continue the relationship or cut it off?
Is it a relationship or would you like it to be? If he’s dating his sisters friends then that cuts you out. Dating your brothers friends can be difficult too sometimes. Especially if the brother hangs around. Lol. Take your time on this one. Your brother should have some answers for you. And don’t hang around waiting either. Have some fun, check out the other guys. Good luck beautiful.
I think i love my best friends brother?
my best friends brother has asked me out twice. Now hes a little chubby and he asked me out in 9th grade. in 9th grade i was afraid of what people would think so i turned him down. i cant believe i did. now This year he asked me out i told him i liked him but we didnt talk for a long time and then i found out he had a girlfriend they have been goin out for about 4 months or so. my bf told me that they are probably going to break up because they are havin lots of problems. i told my friend i wish i could just tell her brother i loved him. Do u think i should tell him my real feelings or do u think i shouldnt. so that i dont make things weird between us.
I like my best friend's brother and he likes me back. My friend is completely fine with it, but I still don't know if I should go for it. What should I do?
That’s territory I always preferred to avoid as when one has a problem with the friend, it will cause problems with the beloved and the other way around.Even when it appears to work out as in the happy couple gets married, most commonly all hell will break lose sooner or later. For instance, my friend married my brother. I knew her secrets as did my mother. Fortunately my mother died as she doesn’t have to pay the price for knowing those secrets much less blabbing them everywhere now. However, I live, so my relationship with my brother has been slaughtered in the worse possible way even though I never told the secrets.That I know them makes me a threat and a possible guilty party for having told what my mother did. Of course, when those secrets came home to rest, instead of telling who actually told which was my friend/sister-in-law herself who delivered them to my mothers and my ears, I claimed my mother did because she was already dead. I did this simply to protect my sister-in-law for airing her laundry. She is no longer my friend. Hence, she painted me up to be the worse possible person there is. Not my problem. Sides, if that’s what she needs to do to keep her marriage together, then so be it...If you don’t get married, you’ll likely lose both when you break up. So, decide who means more? Your friend or her brother? If you can’t live without either, then ask yourself if you’re willing to marry him, or let him break up with you if things go to sh*t and lose your friend as well?Then there is the F-ed up dynamic of if your friend gets angry with her brother, then you have to be too or you’re no friend. Same as when he’s upset with her. If either becomes upset with you, you lose both.But, it’s an interesting thing to try. Everyone should climb into that mess at least once. Should you opt for it, try not to take any of it personally. On the bright side, the more functional the family, the more likely it is to work.Regardless of what you choose, I wish you the best.Note: my apologies to anyone who is unintentionally offended.
What do I do if I like my bestfriend’s brother and he likes me back?
Ask him privately if you guys can date? Or ask your best friend about it. Though if you know your best friend will somehow get mad at that drop little hints like “I like someone… but there’s someone in the way, she won’t let us date. What should I do?” Don’t tell your best friend it’s her brother just keep her guessing. Or ya know just be honest with her since your best friends you shouldn’t have to keep secrets between her and lying won’t do you any good