Is it ok to like your step-cousin?
It’s definitely okay to like your step-cousin.Notice how I bolded the word like.Now I don’t mean go and start trying to make moves on your step-cousin, it’s okay to like someone, if it’s not in a way where you are trying to make gestures where you want something more.For example, I like tons of people. I like my parents, I like my siblings, I like my cousins. But do I want to date them? Of course not!There’s a line between liking someone because they are a decent person and liking someone because you want something more with them. You should probably stay on the side of the line of liking your step-cousin because they are a decent person.Your step-cousin isn’t necessarily your own flesh and blood, at least. But s/he is part of your family already. This might be really awkward for everyone involved if you choose to like him/her romantically, mainly because their aunt/uncle is already married to your mom/dad. Imagine how awkward your family dinners might be. It’s not the most practical thought.But look, I honestly think that you should stick with liking your step cousin because he/she is a decent person, not because you like him/her because you want to become romantically involved.This is my opinion. You don’t have to agree or listen with anything I’m saying, but you do what you want to do. It’s your life. I’m just trying to give advice that I feel would be best if I was ever in your situation. After all, I’m merely just another person behind a screen. Good luck!
Can I date my step cousin?
Why not?Heck, you can even date your sister/brother!!! It’s legal in many States (admittedly not in all), as long as you both are of age.And *I* would go so far as to recommend it. After all, true love should have no boundaries, right? If you set boundaries to your so-called “love”, then it just isn’t true love: at least - in this case - in my not-so-humble opinion.Cheers.+++++
Is it wrong to love my step-cousin?
I have known this guy for about three years. For me it was love at first site! Well last year my aunt and this guys father got married. So this guy is now my step-cousin. He and I have kissed and we have told each other that we love one another. Which we really do. He and I have to work very hard to keep our relationship a secret. I hardly get to see him because of his father who is a complete ***. I really love him and I don't know what to do without one of us getting hurt. We really love each other. Please help?
Is it wrong to make out with your step cousin?
I am 100% dead serious with this question. Ok, here's the backstory: It's St.Patty's day and I decide I want to throw a small party. I get a good amount of booze and get ridiculously drunk. My "step cousin" starts making out with another "cousin", I kinda came in, things were said and next thing you know she's shot gunning liquor in my mouth and we are making out. I put "Step cousin" and "cousin" because my mom and step dad (her uncle) aren't even married. We just use these titles because they have been together for 12 years now. But technically I am in no way related to these people, especially not by blood. And btw that other "cousin" I talked about is pretty much in the same position I am, so It's not like him and her were blood related either. All this said, I can't help but feel like what we did was wrong. Worst part about it is my step brother, his fiance and other cousins saw the whole thing, so Its not like it's some big secret. Part of me thinks there's nothing wrong with what I did since we technically aren't related in any way. But still for some reason it feels really wrong and I feel really dirty and like a huge @$$hole. I need some opinions and possibly some advice on how to handle this awkward situation because lord knows Idk who to begin to talk to about this in person, certainly not family or friends.
Raped by my step cousin HELP?
I'm glad you're going to tell your Mom. That's a good beginning. After you have talked to her call the police because no matter how old you are what your cuz and his friends - including the girls - did was a crime and they need to pay the price. Another thing, call that hot line one of the other posters gave. Include your Mom in the call once you tell her. Her support and love is going to be crucial to you getting through this without any permanent mental harm. Channel all those feelings of anger, shame and embarassment into fighting back and stopping these fiends.
Is it wrong that I want to have sex with my step cousin?
So she s been my step cousin for about 5 months and we were hanging out at first taking with our cousin in common. A few months in and we started talking about a little more personal stuff just getting more comfortable with each other. A few months later we started seeing each other more often then she started giving me "the look". We started talking about it then I started thinking about it. We haven t talked since but she still gives me the look and... I give her a look of my own.
Is it wrong to have a crush on your step cousin?
Hey love we can't help who we have feelings for and if this person isn't related by blood than it isn't wrong to have feelings about a step cousin. Don't let people tell you it is sick or wrong, be proud of who you are and like I said we can't help who we have crishes on Good luck with this I wish you all the best for your future x
Can I date my ex step cousin?
This is going to be confusing but I really need an answer// My mom and stepdad are getting divorced. I REALLY like my step-cousin but soon he won't be my step cousin(because my mom and stepdad are getting divorced); I think that would make him my ex step cousin. I am 13 and a half, he just turned 15 today. I am probably going to see him over the summer. When I see him he will be my ex step cousin. I can't really date him because he lives in Colorado and I live on the east coast. So we live really far away. When I see him over the summer would it be wrong if we kissed/sort of dated. It wouldn't be a long term thing, just over the span of 2 weeks or so. I fell a little weird for liking him but I just want to kiss him so bad!
Can you date your cousin?
Question: Is it possible to date your cousin?As in, “Do I possess the physical and legal capability to do so?”Then the answer is yes.However, most families, even those from traditional societies, have taboos against it and they will resort a number of social and personal sanctions to make it clear to the couple that they view the relationship as being unacceptable. If the couple can somehow overcome those, and what would likely be ostracization by their respective families, then they could continue dating.As far as the “relationship” being legal if you decide to take things to the next level (e.g. marriage): It’s illegal in most states to marry your first cousin and even second cousin marriages are not sanctioned. Beyond that point, the law doesn’t seem to clear. It’s likely that third or more distant cousins can marry legally, but would still face the problems from their respective families, and genetic illnesses are a significant risk.Frankly, just because you can do something doesn’t mean that you should. While people in traditional did (and occasionally still do) marry relatives as close as cousins, the social and familial stigmas involved with it make doing so untenable in a developed world country. Additionally, the risks of producing offspring with genetic predisposition to illnesses and the economic and social costs of that, make such pairings even less desirable.You can date your cousin.You can’t legally marry them.You should carefully decide before you attempt to do either,
Is it weird that I have a crush on my step cousin?
We aren't blood-related whatsoever. In fact, I'm not even sure if he is my step-COUSIN.. But I'm almost positive that he is? It's kind of confusing: My aunt married HIS cousin who is now my step-uncle. So if my step-uncle is COUSINS with the boy I like, that would make the boy my step-cousin right? Eh, either way he's luckily NOT my step-uncle's kid so I would assume that it's less weird if I like him. Anyways!!! I have this MAJOR crush on him and our ages are close, and we've only talked like once about two years ago.. i didn't like him at that time. but I saw him recently about two days ago at my aunt's "baby gender revealing party" (since he's in my step-uncle's family).. But we didn't talk sadly :/ I know our chances of getting together are like slim to none anyways because my mom and his mom dislike each other ever since they got into an argument two years ago that same day i talked to him. Plus, idk how he would think of it if he knew I liked him.. Idk but anyways? Is it weird I have a crush on him and have had one since I first saw him two years ago!? XD