My dad favors my younger sister; what to do?
Alright 1) u r NOT petty! (2) I want to thank u for serving our country! (3) I'm sorry to say tht ur father is favoring ur younger sister... Here is some advice. Don't let it bring u down, he's not worth it if he is doing this crap! U have ppl who love u like ur husband and mother in law :) Alright here comes the advice, what I would do is just talk to ur father about it and if he is totally not listening and being a jerk and not helping u he's not worth it. He is SUPPOSED to b there for u and when I was reading ur... Story (sorry I don't know what to call it :)) I felt ticked off tht u went through tht and I'm sorry. Just talk to him and what I would try to do is try to find ur mother (thts just me) its a suggestion and I hope it gets better!!!! :)
My sister is getting married and I am sad why?
The answer is very clear, Since you have grown and been with her, the childhood memories you have would automatically rush into you and it’d feel like oh MAN so terrible. since the feeling is like so huge beyond comparison. I can say this because I too have a sweet sister who was with me all the time and just 2 years ago she got married and it was Damn terrible,I dont know how much I cried, my heart started to melt up slowly,slowly, felt so regretted and since then I've been feeling so terrible in life, But ever since I knew the value of life, I Started to move further just ignoring away the pain and feelings cos I knew these are all procedures of our lives,I started to come back to my right mood for achievements in life. Now I feel completely fine and happy not because I have my sister with me, but I've understood how to over come it. Slowly you’d. Also I'm aware that I'm never alone any more in life, since my life has moved UP later on.So just feel brave and calm, It’d be easy for you to handle. and PS. Don’t keep thinking a lot about child hood. Know that this is a usual task to be done in life and move UP further.
Why is my mom always taking my sisters side?
OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG we have another thing in common!!! My mom is the older sister (in a family with two daughters) and she ALWAYS takes my sisters side, who is older. When I try to tell my mom that she's unfair she tells me that's stupid and gets mad. I don't think there is anyhing to do except tell her what you think, REMEMBER, I know how you feel!!! xoxo nd
After losing a parent, why can’t I feel anything at all, when I know I should be in pain? My dad died almost two years ago from cancer. Whenever I remember him/his death, I draw a blank emotionally. I know I’m devastated, but I don’t “feel” anything.
I lost my dad in late 2013, the day after Thanksgiving, unexpected when he passed in his sleep while napping in the afternoon after he had eaten lunch. Congestive heart failure, apparently.My father and I were always very close. I'm an only child and my biological mother split when I was less than a year old, leaving my then 24 year old struggling dad to care for me while trying to build (and abruptly rebuild) his life. That was in the early 1970’s, so specific events mostly escape me now concerning fine details, but my most prevalent memories that resonate inside me even now are those of how loving and protective he always was of me. I was the only thing in the world that mattered to that man.After his passing, I was in immediate shock and literally speechless and emotionless. I was sitting in a movie theater with my three young sons watching Frozen when I received the phone call. I got up and left the theater and told my now ex-wife to stay and let the kids finish the movie. To this day, I cannot watch that Disney film or listen to any of its popular soundtrack.At his burial, I never opened his casket. I never saw my father deceased and I have no regrets about that at all. I stood at his grave after they lowered his casket into the ground with my oldest son (then only 7) at my side with my arm around his shoulder and we both could only stare down into the ground. I could not shed a tear or say a word. Again, I felt emotionless, probably an internal defensive survival instinct had taken over everything within me to save me from the devastation I otherwise could not have endured mentally. Many people commended me for showing my son the meaning of strength and what becoming a Man meant. I didn't see it that way. I saw myself as that little kid from the 70’s watching his invincible lifelong superhero being laid to rest, forever.I put the first shovel full of soil on top of his casket and then looked at my son who was still quietly staring into the hole in the ground and asked him if he was ok and if he was ready. He looked back up at me and said, “Yeah Dad, I'm ok. Promise me it will be a very long time before I have to do this for you”.I kissed him on the forehead and said I promise. Then we left after I said out loud “I love you, Dad. Thank you”.
How do i get my younger sister to stop watching inappropriate tv?
there is nothing wrong watching mtv she just has to know that is not cute to look slutty and that she always has to have self worth and show it off ......not degrade herself ,you should give her life advice and how she needs to protect herself and take care of herself because at the end of the day she is the one that is going to have to make the decisions . Don't worry let her watch mtv is not a porno channel she's not 5 and mtv is focused on music and celebrity gossip and she is 13 she likes that . Keep in mind that you as a big sister , you are there to give her good advice not be a control freak . Don't treat her like she is 2 or 5 treat her with respect and just be an older sister that she can go to for any advice .tell her to be her own individual and not follow what her friends are doing specially the bad things. Because trust me i was 13 once and i did crazy things for example i lost my virginity to a scumbag that even dealt with drugs and that is because i didn't have no one to go to , so at home i was the quite girl because my parents would not even let me go outside with my friends one bit . So i was curious and i did stuff like that . But now im sixteen and am not an adult yet, But i have SOO much experience and i know better . Sweetie just talk to your sister and understand her and give her good advice ! and yea sorry is long . hope it helps =)
Why don't I feel sad when a family member dies?
People feel different emotion when some one dies. They are neither bad or good just emotion. If your relieved, anxious, heaetbroken, am very. It's ok. If your numb or fine, it's ok. The only time you should be wondering why is if you or someone else is feeling joy or happiness from a death. That person or you may suffer from a mental illness. We are more inclined to feel sad with a relative than a stranger by sometimes it can be reversed.I am a very empathetic person, I pride myself on being able to empathize and understand someone. To be in there shoes and see there perspective but when it comes to death I am very ok, fine really. I don't really have any emotion.. except aniexty cuase I fear others will call me a freak cause I'm not crying or visual upset. The first time someone dies and I knew them was my grandma. My uncle hugged me, my mom cried, my brother cried. I didn't. I found there years and emotion awkward. Next was a family friend again at there funeral all I did was stand there while everyone cried. Recently my best friends mom died . She wants me to comfort her and I will but sje expects me to cry and tried with her and I just can't. ( Granted my grandma was a racist drunk, the family friend I only met once, and my my friends mom was riddled with health issues)This doesn't mean I don't ever feel sad, i cry all the time, but for different reason. I have never seen or thought about my death and if I woke up and some one said I was going to die today or had cancer my response. Would problay be “Ok, whatever”Does it make sense no, is it normal yes. If someone gives you a hard time ignore them. They have no say in your emotion and how you grieve .I hope this helps.