I've lost interest in socializing but i'm happy!?
Cool! There are others like me! In high school I used to struggle with this constantly, feeling like something was wrong with me because I never wanted to be very social, and only had a few friends. It wasn't that I was afraid of public situations, I just prefered to hang out alone, and do things I wanted to do. Now I am comfortable with it, and my husband is the same way. We prefer to go out together, or stay at home and spend time just me and him, or just alone. It's [pretty cool because there are times when he just wants to be alone and read, or talk on the computer, and that's fine with me, because I take it as an opportunity to be alone as well. But when we feel the need to socialize, we go out just me and him, and it fulfills our need to be a little social now and then. We have the most awesome relationship. But of course, there is nothing wrong with you. You just find the most enjoyment in being alone. I love it, too. No need to worry about what this person is thinking about you, or if what you want to do at the moment is what this other person wants to do, you can just do what you want to do and feel good about it. I get the most fulfillment by hanging out alone. I have more fun by myself than I could hanging out with a large group of friends. Be yourself and enjoy it. If it makes you happy- do it!
I lost my social life how?
I use to be a kid who loved to socialize with people up until I got into college. I seemed to lost the ability to able to able to communicate with people and be interested in conversations. but now I'm not anymore, and here's how it all got started. I went to a community college for one year, and the social life there was terrible, so I just get on the computer and work on my business and website most of my time. When summer came around the corner, I went job hunting. But I couldn't find one, which I'm guessing that it's because of the way the economy is acting. So I did a lot of house work. As time passes by, my confidence in myself started spiraling downward. Now I'm an awkward person who is self conscious about myself of what people think of me. All of my old friends I've hung out with seem to be disappointed in me because of my lack of energy and excitement of talking to them. They probably think I'm a boring person to hang out with now, so they blow me off and hang out with other people instead. I'm a wreck right now because my past self seemed better and happier than today! I want my confidence back! I'm becoming more of a negative person. What's wrong with me? What should I do? Note: I'm a 20 year old male Thanks in advance for your answers
I lost my social life.. How do i regain it?
I spent the past year studying..now i want to regain my social life..i want to party till late and get drunk again the friends i hang out with before dont hang out with me no more cos they think i dont go out anymore
I feel like I've lost my social skills. All of them. How do I get them back?
Reclaiming your social skills is often a matter of finding common ground with someone. If you are fearing judgment, censorship, or being ostracized, it will be hard to find common ground with people. You feel less intimidated when you have a common interest that draws you close to each other. Here are some suggestions on how to find common ground with others: 1. Learn to be a good listener. Make sure your body language reflects that you are listening. Many people are just looking for someone they can talk to. If they feel that they can talk to you, then they will be much more inclined to listen to you. 2. Learn to ask good questions. People who know how to ask the right question at the right time do very well in socializing with others. Sometimes it is not what you say, but what you ask that endears people to you. The right question will help you find common ground and tell the person you are talking to that you are interested. 3. Learn to laugh at yourself. If you walk around self-conscious, people will be more paranoid around you. But if you can laugh at yourself, then others will feel more comfortable around you too. The first step in feeling easy around others is to first feel easy around yourself. 4. Be hard to offend. If you have a chip on your shoulder, people won't want to be around you. Don't look for the bad in others--you'll always find it. Much of it will be misunderstood and will only create more fear in your further interactions. There are many more things you can do. I've written many articles (including a book) on the subject. Feel free to read the articles at: http://www.fitlyspoken.org Hope it helps...
Feeling lost in life, what should i do?
Ever since my girlfriend of 5 years left me last year I've felt totally lost in life. I'm 20 years old and I really just do not know what to do, I'm going to school for criminal justice but am really not happy with it anyone, but I have no interest in anything else. I have no social life at all, i have "friends" but when ever I try to hang out with them somehow everything falls through. I dont really feel like I fit in when them, or anyone really though and have even been told I really dont fit in by a few people too. I've thought of joining the military but it just doesn't seem right, but nothing feels right to me anymore. I haven't been happy in a very long time and have even started to think of suicide. It feels like im just going through life in a blind daze, I just feel so lost and hopeless i no longer even see a reason to get up in the morning. I really dont know what to do anymore.
How to ruin someone's social life in highschool?
Ok so before you tell me I'm immature and all of those crap, yes I am evil and immature and yes I deserve to burn in hell, so I don't care if you tell me not to do this, because I will. So if you have an ignorant answer, just keep it to yourself. I am 16, and my "bestfriend" is really annoying me. He was a total friendless loser about a year ago, but then he started hanging out with me and I helped him meet all the popular kids and now he is trying to get in their crowd without me.He befriended all of them and he is SO oppressed with them and trying to be like them. He became very close to all of them and manged to distance me from them and he became a major douche. So how do I ruin him and make him friendless and a loser again? How do I take all of those friends that he stole from me and make them against him and how can I become closer to them again? I want something so I can publicly humiliate him, but do it the "nice way", him not knowing that I am behind all of this. What are some secrets and/or rumors that can ruin him? THANK YOU