How do I get over the depression of losing the love of my life? She was my everything and she left me. I can't possibly move on with someone else without feeling even more depressed. No one comes close to her.
First of all let me say that I'm sorry about your loss. It is not easy getting over that person that seems to be the most perfect person you've ever met in your life and true there is no one that can replace that person. However, I started to realize something after I was left more than once in my lifetime. The people that I gave my best to that treated me poorly all have had the same tendency to later call me and try to be friends with me. I realize there's no one else like me either and I like who I am and I don't like how they treated me. You have to spend time with yourself learning to appreciate who you are and what you are about. You may have to be by yourself for quite a while but that is when The Healing Begins. You need to learn to appreciate yourself for what and who you are, you need to let yourself heal and nourish yourself Body and Soul. If it's a recent breakup you certainly may not want to do anything but curl up in a ball close the curtains and stay in bed hoping the world will go away, that's understandable. This is a good time to learn who what you like to do and what makes you happy. Make some goals to try to attain. You have to learn to love yourself to be able to love properly and not be torn apart. Treat yourself kindly, when you're up to it get your nutrition and Health in order go workout to burn off the frustration and steam you've been building up. Take yourself to a nice scenic area be at the park the beach the forest wherever and enjoy relaxing with nature. Don't let depression take the best of you because there is someone out there for you don't rush it.
I am depressed because ive fallen in love with a fictional character, Esdeath, from Akame ga kill.?
i am Love with a character called Esdeath from a manga called 'Akame ga kill' and even though she is supposed to be an evil sadistic character, i have seen too much of her good points, as well as her love and devotion to Tatsumi (the protagonist) who is also her enemy (although she just found out recently after 3 years of the story, its a comic that releases monthly) i have spent months going over the story, finding all the good parts of her love and devotion to Tatsumi, and ended up falling in Love as i read the story through the protagonist view point its gotten to the point that i pray to god to create such a reality to make me into Tatsumi so i can live the story itself. i Even pray for god to ensure that the story Progresses to the point that Tatsumi and Esdeath get together. However, in the story, Tatsumi gets a girlfriend (someone else) and Only recently has Tatsumi been captured by Esdeath and he tells her about his girlfriend and apparently breaks her heart, and mine too. i waited all last night for the next monthly release of the chapter, only to find that the story progressed somewhere else and now i've fallen back into depression and anxiety over her being good or bad Despite all her bad points, i want her to be with Tatsumi, and i have to wait a whole month before i find out the outcome, maybe longer. advice or help would be appreciated. because i want her to be with the protagonist for peace of mind, but it could go either way and i have to wait another month
How do I get out of depression and lead a positive and happy life?
Hi I know what you are going through is tough there are many ways you can handle this situation(point 3 really helped my friend)Seek professional help there is nothing wrong in doing this.Try something you have never tried before, learn to dance, to play an instrument or learn a foreign language.Get a dog trust me that selfless love can heal all wounds you can never get that love and loyalty from any other friendStart watching comedy serials listen to positive music trust me it's wonderful. See motivating movies like Rocky etc wer the character rises up against all oddsGo for bungee jumping Para jumping or something that will push your adrenaline to its limits. Trust me that initial fear of dying and overcoming it later will prove all your worries uselessDear I wish the next time you open Quora you are here searching for something funny, and your jaw hurts with the laughter you had the previous day. You are tough trust me it's time you realise how tough. Keep smiling and keep rocking
How can god help me in my depression?
Read this prayer (God, grant us Thy Fear and Mercy which may stand between us and disobedience to Thee. Vouchsafe to us that devotion which may entitle us to Thy Paradise. Guse such deep Imaan which may render all worldly losses as worthless for us. Allah, grant us the favor of utilising our sense of hearing, sight and physical strength to our advantage and continue this favor even after we are no more. Take our revenge from him who oppresses us. Grant us victory over him who shows enmity toward us. Do not put us on trial concerning religion. Do not make worldly goods the chief objects of our lives. Do not make this world the limit of our knowledge and wisdom, nor entrust us under the charge of a person who shows not mercy to us.)
I am overly depressed. What do I do to make my life better?
First of all understand why you are depressed. Is it some stressor related to life stages or is it related to some thing because of which your life feels meaningless or is it because of some failure in relationships or otherwise. Secondly according to that research the kind of therapist you would like to meet and what kind of goals will help you get out of depression.. Understand the severity and it's symptoms and manifestation of depression. Understand the long standing coping solutions will work better to make you grow in your life rather than short term solutions such as talking to a friend or else taking up some classes etc. More than that also check if u have a comorbid anxiety disorder and also ur personality structures.
Why do i feel depressed when i stay at home all day?
probably you never get invited to go do anything with anybody and while all your friends are out having a good time,your just at home doing nothing while life just goes by and trust me,I personally know how that feels,just go out by yourself sometimes and meet new people and make new friends.always have a out going and positive attitude so people can like you and invite you to go do things with them.good luck
Pisces in love with a depressed Scorpio. What do you think?
I was actually a pretty depressed kid during most of my childhood; a lot of children had a childhood I could only dream about. so I suffered from depression a very long time up until my first year in college. I had a very difficult life, had a lot of tragedy, and had very trying circumstances that almost lead me to end everything for myself at 14. However at some point in my life I realized being depressed over my weaknesses and what others had that I didn't have wasn't going to lead me anyway. Even though I seemed to be struck with so much tragedy and sorry in my childhood I realized focusing on the pain would only keep me in the past. I eventually figured out weather there is an afterlife or there isn't; this is the only real shot I have to living a life on this earth. None of us get second chances. When our life ends we are powerless and have no control over when the Grim Reaper will decide to take our life. Realizing this cured my depression all those years and made me a stronger person ever since. Live each day like it is your last day as Nickleback says. As an adult because of my tough childhood it has made me strong; I rarely get depressed these days. I know what a poision depression is and therefore refuse to dwell on any past hurt for too long. Your chances are great if depressive guys don't bother you. Scorpio's, from my own personal experience being one, can be extremely venomous and dangerous if they are feeling moody and down. So treat your Scorpio like you would treat a pet Pit Viper, with caution.