He loves me but I don't love him. What should I do?
My boyfriend tells me all the time that he loves me and he does lots of nice things for me; things that any girl would love to have. He is a gentleman and does little sweet surprises for me. He is also very romantic and brings me flowers and tells me poems. However, I don't love him and I feel awkward whenever he tells me that he loves me. Should I keep at it and hope that I will love him too eventually or just try to find someone else? I don't want to loose him because he is wonerful. But I don't love him and I am not happy trying to show something that I don't feel. Does love come after a while? Should I tell him that I love him even if I don't? Or, should I tell him that I don't love him? I don't want to hurt him but I want to be happy too. What do you guys think? I keep fighting with him so I won't be aroud him but then when we get back together I feel great and I think that I love him too. Am I weird? Sometimes I think that I'm not capable of loving. Thanks for your answers.
I love you but I don't like you right now movie?
I heard this quote in a movie once, and its bugging me because I can't remember what movie it was. Anyone know? "I love you but I don't like you right now." or "I love you but I don't really have to like you right now" or something like that.
What if someone said I like you but I don't love you?
Oof I did this actually jaja.It was back in middle school. The 6th grade.I was dating this guy named Clovis. But he preferred it if everyone called him Rey which is his middle name.I really liked that guy. He was really sweet n kind n gentle n just…..amazing. He would do so many cute things n say cute things. Gosh….he was so sweet.How I met him was through a game called Oreo.It was basically like rock paper scissors but the winner has to tell the loser who to ask out. Eventually that game got banned from my school since my friend George kept getting asked to ask a guy out n kept getting called gay. Those jerks.But anyways thats how I met him. I first asked him out when I lost but we didnt do anything just went on with our lives cause at the time i was already taken n didn’t know him. Then he lost n asked me out n I went ahead n said yes.He is the one relationship i didn’t regret back in brick n mortar school.We ended up going out for like 4 months till he moved…I was a jerk. I believed a rumor flying around that he was trying to cheat on me with my close friend n broke up with him….He cried.But before that. About 2 months before I was sitting with him at our usual table n his ex comes around n starts to talk to us. He doesn’t talk to her much but knows she is my friend so he doesn't mind much.She then asks a question. sorta. She says “Awe look at you two…so in love!!” N she just gushes….n he looks to me n says “I love her so much” n he hugs me. N she looks at me waiting for an answer…I didn’t…I…”I mean…I like him..” N she proceeds to the “ooooooooooo” N looks at Rey. He looks at me n smiles n says “It doesn’t matter. I still love you more than anything.” N he kisses my cheek.After we broke up we kept in contact for about a month or two when I had a phone then. He asked me if we could get back together….I told him I would let him know. Then I decided to tell him that I did love him but was scared cause it was love. N the day I was going to tell him….I called him….”This number is out of service” thats what the phone operator said….I have never seen or heard from him again. The last thing i heard was he had actually switched his phone to another n his friend didn’t wanna exchange the number with me….I just wish i can see him again n apoligize…Its been 6 years since i last saw him.I only hope to run into him sometime soon in the future.EDIT: We now talk on facebookThanks!~Pet of Quora~
What does it mean "I like you but I don't love you"?
When a person says I like you doen't mean you are friendzoned unless stated. This statement simply means that he/she have feelings for you but at present time they are not strong enough to be called love.Love doen't happen instantly it grows over a period of time,comparatively a longer time while liking can be developed if you like some of their qualities.At this stage that the person is getting to know about you in deep like your actions, you reactions, you habits, your favourites, things that you don't like, your thinking process, your lifestyle, your background. During this stage also that person may know all this but at not that much deep which are required for love.If you both like each other and are compatible with each other most probably you both will fall in love.
What do you do if someone says I love you but you don't love them?
Very awkwardly.Just kidding. Sort of. It will probably be awkward, but you can try to salvage it.Some of it depends on why you don't love them back.For example:- If there's a chance you could love them in the future but you aren't there yet, you can say that you want to take the relationship slowly still. If you've been burned by love before, it might help to mention that.- If you hadn't even been thinking about love between you two, you could say that it means a lot to you for them to say that, and again bring up that you're trying to take things slowly for now. If you think you're ready for things to be more serious between you two, say something along those lines and let them know you're going to treat your relationship more seriously now.- If you don't love them now and don't see that happening in the future, you might have to settle for the really awkward, "Aw, thank you" before dropping it. Once you're out of the moment, you can talk to them about it and tell them that you're not looking for something serious right now.Anything you say that's not "I love you too" will be something they don't want to hear, so it'll be an uncomfortable situation and their feelings will be hurt regardless, so this is basically just an attempt at damage mitigation. It may or may not work, but there's only so much you can do at that point.
I have a boyfriend, but I don t love him?
(This might be long, but it s worth the read) He waited for me for 4 years. He s the perfect boyfriend material(kind, fun to be with, etc). We re decent friends but whatever how hard I try, I just can t seem to like him. Thinking of being with him makes me uncomfortable. Some of the things he do makes me cringe but it d be okay with me if some other guy did it. The only reason why I agreed to be his girlfriend is because I thought that if I give him a chance, I might learn to love him. We re dating for almost a month now(long distance relationship). On the first few weeks, I love to talk to him 24/7 and I would even exchange I love you s with him(and yes, i told him before that I don t love him yet, but I do have mutual feelings with him). I even think that I m starting to like him. But this week, I started to realize that I find it hard to be in a commitment with someone I don t love and that this relationship won t work. I start to feel lazy in chatting with him, I m thinking if I should tell him how I feel and that we should end this "relationship" and just be "friends with benefits". But I can t, we made promises that we won t get fed up in our relationship and that we will stay strong no matter what. I feel like a bad person to ruin a good guy. I feel like he deserve someone way better. But I know it d be hard for me to find someone like him.. Please try to understand my situation. Help? Your answers would be much appreciated.
How can I tell someone that I love him but don’t want to be with him?
Some people may disagree with me but I think it’s better if you do it in a letter form. For a few reasons. It seems you want to protect this persons feelings and sometimes in the heated moments we can say things we were not meant to say out loud that can have lasting impacts. In a letter you will get the chance to get all your feelings out on paper mull over them and then edit them to spare your readers feelings.It can start like this: Hey babe! Fun and friendly. It can end like this: Good Luck! And the middle can go anyway you’d prefer. You can choose to point out only the good things about the person and the good times you’ve had together. You can tell them of your future plans and skim over the part where it doesn’t include them. Just to show you’r e focusing on yourself and they’re not really the problem. Let them know the future is not planned and ANYTHING can happen.And to keep an open mind.Hey Babe! How are you ? Well I’m having a rough day and I have a lot of things I wanted to get off my chest but I couldn’t quite get up the courage to say them to you so I’m starting here and if you still have questions after this we can meet up and talk about this. Remember that day we were talking about what we wanted to do in the future and how you wanted to retire with a house full of kids and I wanted to do something a bit less traditional. I think we want different things; Its not a bad thing. I’m still searching for my truth and i haven't found it yet. I was put here on this planet for a specific purpose and it was not to fulfill anyone's void; To tell the truth i’m not sure at all what i’m here for but while searching I don’t want to hold you back from any of your dreams or your destiny. I’m not contempt with just settling for my current position because i know I want so much more. You’re a really good person. I hope you find what you’re looking for as well. While I care a great deal for you its not the way you need to be cared for. It wouldn’t be fair to you is I let you continue on thinking this is how things are going to be.. Just look at it this way. We both will reach our destination someday and who knows what could happen in the future? Good Luck in life and I wish you the best;Yours always,xoxoxoxoxox
I LOVE YOU BUT I'M NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU?
It means i like you but not that much to fall in love with you....its also means i want you to be around but i may not fall in love with you
Is it okay to marry a man if he loves you but you don't love him?
I know someone who did that. She left a South American country for Spain, she left to follow her boyfriend. After a year there, he (for an unspecified reason) kicked her to the curve. In time, she pulled herself together and met a very nice man from Brussels.She had feelings for someone else but this one man showed her love, compassion and was head over heels for her. She's told me, yrs ago, how the lack of passion between them was a point of content but she pushed on. They got married and he brought her to Brussels. As I understand it, he has a good job and she goes to school.She has a teenage son back in her home country. She was able to bring the kid to Brussels. She's now pregnant, it's a girl. This woman is very happy thatsv s gonna have a baby sister for her son.She's never told me that she's in love with her husband. She talks about him fondly but that's it.I'm the guy she had feelings for. Up until 5 yrs ago she would ask “when are you in_____ again?” She wanted to get together whenever we could both be in our same country of origin. She goes every year but her husband never goes with her. She's been married for 8 yrs.That man is a blissful ignorant of what she's tried to do behind his back. Perhaps, he knows she doesn't love him but it doesn't matter to him. Who knows what happens there?But I wouldn't wish that on anyone.
A girl loves me. Why don't I love her back?
Thanks for A2A… though I know neither of you and don’t know that I can add much or more at all to what others have said. It sucks: one of my dearest friends was a guy that I adored with my whole heart… as a brother of sorts. Greatest guy, great friend. I suspected he may have feelings for me though never said anything, hinted or pushed. Another friend of mine picked up on it and actually confronted me angrily, asking why I didn’t love him?! He’s a great guy, would treat you well, blah blah blah. & I told her she was ABSOLUTELY RIGHT, & I SO wanted to feel that way about him… but I just didn’t. Don’t know why, but there we were.It sucks that you can’t force yourself to feel for someone else, but you can’t. If someone can tell you why, do let us all know!