Did I make a mistake leaving my wife?
Whose baby is it, yours, or her old friend's? I'd be all over a paternity test if I were you! PS - This is exactly why I always, always tell people who are considering a separation not to do it. Stuff with other people happens during separations. What baffles me is why you would separate and not *expect* it!
Have I made a mistake letting my friend sleep with my wife, or could it possibly spice up the marriage?
I will try and make this as short as possible. Few months ago, out drinking with one of my best friend he begins telling me how sexy he finds my wife, and tells me he would love to have sex with her. He probably expected to get punched in the shoulder, but I told him this has always been a fantasy of mine, allowing my wife to sleep with another man. Although I have never told my wife, or anyone for that matter. My friend and I did not speak about it until a week ago, and I invited him over for dinner last night. I never thought anything would happen other than than some minor flirting, due to her personality. She is the typical business women, very serious, no nonsense and professional... basically does not put up with any crap. My wife was dressed very nicely, wearing a short black dress and black stiletto heels. I kept the drinks flowing, and the 2 of them started flirting heavily. He had his hands all over her and she was very responsive. I began making comments like you two need to get a room. Finally I said jokingly... you 2 should just get this over with and go in the den and have sex. I went in the kitchen to get another drink and I hear a door shut. They had gone in the den together, and I just waited in the living room. A few minutes later I knew my fantasy was coming true, as I heard her beginning to moan. I waited a while and listened to her getting louder and louder and finally peeked in. He had her pinned up against the wall naked wearing only her stiletto heels, pounding her absolutely senseless! I went back into the living room and listened to her. I have never heard her moan and scream that loud, and it went on for almost 2 hours. This morning she was concerned how I felt and i assured her it was a huge turn on for me and that i was fine with it. I asked her for details of the experience and she told me that she had more orgasms than she could count, and that he was so big he could barely fit inside her, but once he was inside it was the most amazing feeling shes ever had. I can not wait for her to do this again, and she agreed to do this often! Should I just stop this now? I know I probably should, but really don't want to!
Have I made a big mistake letting my wife have sex with a friend?
I will try and make this as short as possible. She was red in the face and upper chest almost the entire time he was inside her. Few months ago, out drinking with one of my best friend he begins telling me how sexy he finds my wife, and tells me he would love to have sex with her. He probably expected to get punched in the shoulder, but I told him this has always been a fantasy of mine, allowing my wife to sleep with another man. Although I have never told my wife, or anyone for that matter. My friend and I did not speak about it until a week ago, and I invited him over for dinner last night. I never thought anything would happen other than than some minor flirting, due to her personality. She is the typical business women, very serious, no nonsense and professional... basically does not put up with any crap. My wife was dressed very nicely, wearing a short black dress and black stiletto heels. I kept the drinks flowing, and the 2 of them started flirting heavily. He had his hands all over her and she was very responsive. I began making comments like you two need to get a room. Finally I said jokingly... you 2 should just get this over with and go in the den and have sex. I went in the kitchen to get another drink and I hear a door shut. They had gone in the den together, and I just waited in the living room. A few minutes later I knew my fantasy was coming true, as I heard her beginning to moan. I waited a while and listened to her getting louder and louder and finally peeked in. He had her pinned up against the wall naked wearing only her stiletto heels, pounding her absolutely senseless! I went back into the living room and listened to her. I have never heard her moan and scream that loud, and it went on for almost 2 hours. This morning she was concerned how I felt and i assured her it was a huge turn on for me and that i was fine with it. I asked her for details of the experience and she told me that she had more orgasms than she could count, and that he was so big he could barely fit inside her, but once he was inside it was the most incredible feeling shes ever had. I can not wait for her to do this again, and she agreed to do this often! Should I just stop this now? He was the second man she had slept with and it was her first (and second through ninth) orgasm from sex.
I made a mistake and had a one night stand. My wife wants a divorce. I don't. How to save our marriage?
I slept with a co-worker once a few weeks ago. It wasn't planned and just happened. We both have had a connection and we had a couple drinks and we ended up sleeping together. We both are married and it was stupid and we agreed to never do it again. Somehow her husband found out and he went nuts and he talked to my wife and told her what happened. I've been extremely apologetic to my wife and I would do anything to save our marriage. 3 years ago I had another affair that my wife found out above through reading some emails. My wife and I were in a weird place at that time and we both decided to just put the affair behind us and move on. My wife says she cannot forgive me twice and I should have learned my lesson. I understand where she is coming from. She is hurt and angry. We have three kids between 2 and 7 and I really think its ridiculous to ruin their childhood over a one night stand. Their lives would be wrecked if we got divorced. I cannot believe my wife is not thinking of them. She has known about the affair for two weeks now and she is going to meet with an attorney later this week. I do not want to get divorced. What should I do to save our marriage?
Wife had sex with my friend by mistake. Should i forgive her?
My wife and I and my friend and his wife rented a fishing cabin for the weekend. The first night we choose rooms and then after some drinking we all retired to bed. I went out to the dock to lock down the boat stuff and when I came back, washed up I opened up the door to our room and turned on the light and saw my wife naked on top of my friend they were having sex. She looked at me with total confusion then down at him and screamed and jumped off. My friend and I are about the same build and he went into the wrong room to sleep. When my wife sliped in she stripped down and found him ( she thought it was me ) naked in bed and she just jumped on. He thought it was his wife as the room had no windows and was pitch black. Neither made as sound now wanting to be heard having sex. He was about to pull out to orgasm but me waking in scared them both and he ended up finishing inside her. They both immediately started apologizing to me and each other and then to his wife who heard the commotion and came over. His wife thought it was hilarious but was known as the slutty one in our group of friends. My wife cried that night begging forgiveness. What should I do? Not only did they have sex he ejaculated inside her something not even am allowed to do. Is his wife right to just laugh about the mix up and move on with a funny story? or this more serious?