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I met a woman. We went out 3 times and she says I make her feel special and appreciated, but she says she needs some space. What does this mean?

Sounds to me like she is brushing you off. I would say, maybe you laid it on too thick. What did you do to make her feel special and appreciated? Whatever it was, may have been too much for her. Have you ever been told that you were too nice or told, “I don’t want to hurt you?” If so, you are Mr. Nice guy and unfortunately the nice ones tend to get the short end of the stick.On my website Every Bitch Should Have A Blog, I have 7 dating tips that actually protect you against being the guy who gets set to the side because you made her feel too special.When you ask what that means, I would say it means she is weird. She met someone who made her feel special and appreciated but she needs space. Like Judge Judy, I believe if something doesn’t make sense, something isn’t true. I wouldn’t even think twice about her. She could have saved you from a lifetime of misery. You have to find someone who can appreciate being made to feel special and appreciated, not the emotionally immature woman who shies away from it.

I just met a woman two days ago and she says she loves me. What do you think?

I would run for the hills, unless you feel as strongly about her.The first time I met my husband in person, I knew I would marry him. But I certainly did not tell him that until long after we were engaged. Before we met, we had only spoken online a few times, and a couple of times on the phone. He messaged me out of the blue on MySpace - it wasn't even a dating site. I wasn't even looking for someone. But when we met in person, I knew. I felt like it was love at first sight, and he was the man for whom I had waited.I also did not confess my love for him until he told me first, which was a few months after we met.Sadly, we just finished up our divorce trial after almost 10 years of marriage. He was not the man I thought he was. I got sick, so he walked out.It may seem I am a bit biased or jaded, and perhaps I am. However, regardless of my experience, I would still be taken aback by someone telling me they love me after knowing me for two days. That sends up a huge red flag, which could mean one of several things:She’s desperate emotionally;She’s desperate in some other way, perhaps financially;She’s extremely codependent;She has a mental disorder;She’s pregnant and is looking for a man quickly to take the place of her baby daddy, or someone else to pin it on. Sounds strange, I know, but stranger things have happened.There obviously could be other reasons. She could also feel she genuinely loves you.Regardless, tread lightly, with extreme caution. If she is willing and able to tell you she loves you so quickly, she may be extremely possessive. If you enter a relationship with her, she could start to demonstrate possessive, abusive, or stalking behavior.I would speak to her frankly and tell her you are concerned as to why she thinks she loves you, and why she said it so quickly. If she is mentally stable, she will be open to this conversation and be able to give you her rational explanation.The romantic part of me hopes this is simply a case of (reciprocated) love at first sight, and you two live happily ever after. But the pragmatic part of me says to be very careful. Good luck!

If you met a woman who told you that she is in an open relationship, what would you say to her, or what would you want to ask her?

What would I ask her? Depends on who she was, and whether or not we found each other interesting.If I thought there was a possibility that we might share a mutual interest, I'd ask her details about how her relationships work, to see if we had compatibility. Some of my standard screening questions include things like "Do you have a hierarchy," "Do you have a veto arrangement in place with any of your partners," and "Do you have a rules-based relationship structure?" If the answer to any of these questions is "yes," I'd thank her and move on. I won't get involved with people who have such relationship structures, and that's non-negotiable.Of course, all this assumes we'd talked to each other for long enough to establish whether there was a mutual connection. That part of the conversation wouldn't be any different than it would for any other woman--I'd make small talk to get to know her a bit first. If she seemed interesting, and we'd established she was in an open relationship (I also won't date anyone who is monogamous), then I'd move on to the questions above.

Men, has a woman that you just met ever asked you to have sex?

I was in a nightclub and just about to leave. I was already outside when someone pointed that I don't have my jacket so I got back in to get it. On my way to get my jacket, this tinny cute woman caught my eye. She was literally staring at me while she was dancing so I went straight to her and started to kiss her out of the blue for about a minute or two. Then I apologised and said that I need to leave as my friends are waiting for me outside. She replied “please take me home with you and f**k me”. I said that is not possible and I left. I just didn't have a good feeling about it.I was on a train in Romania. In there people are (or used to) go to the toilet and open the window and smoke. I was smoking back then so I went to the toilet and knocked on the door to check if it's empty. A lady opens the door and she was smoking already and she sees my cigarette in my hand so she invites me in. I light the cigarette and we just stare at each other without saying a word. It was starting to become really awkward and you could cut the tension with a knife. Without putting to much thought into it, I just went to kiss her and she didn't fight back. Next thing I know she is unzipping my jeans and gets on her knees. However, the story doesn't have a happy ending as I was way too nervous for some reason and I just couldn't get it up…I matched with a woman from Tinder and we met the next day. I go to pick her up from her home. She is waiting for me outside. I go to her, have a little chit chat and then she says to me “we can go to town and have a coffee and chat for hours or…we can go inside as I'm home alone”. So obviously I choose to go inside. We get in and make ourselves comfortable and we chat for hours. After I got home I was thinking “I should have chosen to go for a coffee. At least we might have had sex”About three years ago, I was living in Birmingham near the “red district” as rent was cheaper and I was at the beginning of my journey in the UK. So one evening I walk to a shop to buy some milk and I was waiting for the lights to go green in order for me to cross the street. Meanwhile, a lady comes to me and asks me “do you find me attractive?” to which I give her an affirmative response and she starts telling me the “menu”. She tells me that for £20 I can have this and for £30 I can have everything else. I realise that she is a hooker and I reply “what do I get for £5?” to which she shows me the only Makaton sign she ever knew.

I met a woman on a dating site and we were planning to meet, but now she seems to be losing interest. Should I ghost her to avoid rejection later on?

I’ve read some of the other answers to this question and I’d like to offer a different perspective for your consideration.First, I completely understand your wish to protect yourself emotionally from rejection. Women generally don’t have a clue about how awful it feels for a guy to be continually rejected - over and over again - by women on dating sites. Women typically receive over twenty times the number of emails on dating sites than men receive. And reasonably attractive women (or at least women with nice photos) can even receive 100 times the number of emails that men receive. Many men are treated terribly by women on dating sites, and I say this from having worked with thousands of single men and women. (Men can also be rejecting on dating sites, just to be clear).And it’s common for a woman to lose interest in a man, especially given that she’s continually being approached by different men on a daily basis. So “trading up” is a regular part of a woman’s online dating experience. (The exceptions being women who are obese - although there are plenty of guys who enjoy being with them too). These are vast generalizations, but they are largely correct.So what should YOU do when someone you’ve contacted online is losing interest in you?If you’re fairly sure she’s got one foot out the door, then it would be completely understandable if you disconnect from her. She had her chance to be with you and she’s choosing not to. I believe you.I don’t think I would literally ghost her, but what I might do is stop writing to her. If she’s lost her interest in you, it’s unlikely that she would reach out for more communication unless she’s responding to a message that you initiate yourself.So rather than ghosting her, I would simply stop initiating communication with her and see if she sends you another message and shows some interest in meeting you. If your gut feeling is right, you’ll probably never hear from her again.And if you’re wrong and she writes, then you may want to reconsider where things stand between you. Maybe you’re jumping to conclusions.