What are some stories of how karma taught a lesson for cheating on your boyfriend/girlfriend?
How about my little story ?I had a girlfriend 8 years ago who cheated on me. She used to say that we cant meet public as other will notice in school.But she would date other guys publicly and made a fool of me. We broke up as soon as i realised it and for one year i asked her for another chance after having no mistakes at my side.After 1 year, when i finally moved on, she came back to me and asked me for patch up and i did the same what she did earlier. As i was so busy in my studies and had no time for relationships anymore. I said no.School ended but story didnt.2 years after the school , she contacted me again and we used to talk to each other eventually. I was not interested in relationship. But She fell in love again with me ( as what she said ) and asked for a relationship “AGAIN”. At the very same time she had a boyfriend with whom she was about to breakup in some weeks and then start things with me. As soon i came to know about this, i contacted the boy somehow.Told him my story and told him that your gf is my ex and she is flirting with me now and is about to breakup with you. And then start things with me and i m not a fool anymore to go in a relationship and dont want you to become a fool.What he did was incredible. He broke with her by showing that he has another gf and this broke the girl very badly. She couldnt accept her defeat in relationship and then She realised what she did. She asked me for relationship weeks later for which i said that we need to wait for some months as she needs to be out from her past completely. I remained out of touch for an year after that . I told her the truth year later by calling her. She was in shock. Never contaced her again.She got married last year. I hope things between her and her husband remain loving and stable always.
My Pisces friend is starting to ignore me? I'm a Leo?
Like her, but want to be friends only. We college freshman, and known each other for 5 years. After half a year of not talking since graduation, we met again at the first week of college and everything was going great, we were still good friends. But recently she been going through a tough time these past two weeks, so she wasn’t any mood to talk to me. She didn't tell me what happened but that she'll be fine. Last Monday & Wednesday she seemed pretty cheerful again during school so I assumed she got over her issues. Till Friday I went to go hang with her and her anime/gamer friends during lunch. She did not care for my being there. I walked up to her and said "Hi Mindy!" She said "hi" with her back turned (she already saw me walking up to her). She was more focused on one of her friends. (She is not into him). I tried making conversation but didn't care to listen, the closest was when I asked what's wrong with her lip and she said "just a rash". I sat next to her but then she sat in the other side to her friend, so he sat next to me now. Then another friend shows up (I'm assuming she likes him, most likely). She was all like "Oh Michael I was wondering where you were!" Then later she got on her Nintendo 3Ds playing Pokemon and that's it, she pretty much almost stop caring about her surroundings. She did reply to those two friends comments but mostly stayed on her DS. I had to leave so I said bye next to her face and she just plain ignored me. What did do? What went wrong?
I lost my virginity and now he is ignoring me?
You two are too young to be thinking in terms of "forever" and apparently after you had sex, he didn't feel there was anything left to learn about you (that he wanted to learn)...I'm sorry this happened, but it's not uncommon (even as you get older)... Anyone that would have sex with you and then blow you off, isn't worth your time...move on and let him go his way...apparently he's not mature enough to handle a sexual relationship (not to mention the risks you're both taking re: pregnancy and STD/STI transmission)...
Have you ever lost a friend (a guy) because he had feelings for you?
I think I am in a good position to answer this question.I developed feelings for one of my friends over the years of our friendship. One day I finally mustered the courage to ask her out and got shot down over a text message, "I don't see you that way".The only girl I have ever asked out, rejected me. Can't say, it didn't hurt.Then, feeling ashamed and afraid of ruining our friendship, I asked her to forgive me and not to talk to me for a while as it became real awkward.Acting mature I tried to bury the awkwardness and struck a conversation with her again, but this time she started ignoring me. Respecting her decision, I too decided not to bother her again.Almost 2 years passed. We were in the same class but never talked to each other.One day out of the nowhere, she sends a text asking me to meet her. I agreed and we met. Had an awkward conversation, no one talked about that incident. It served as an ice breaker.We started talking again, like nothing has happened between us, but, it wasn't the same anymore. I did not feel the excitement I used to feel earlier while texting her. But, some where deep down, I had a hope that things will work out.And you know what, they did.We are best of friends now. I understand that she doesn't want anything more than friendship. I would be lying if I say I don't have feelings for her anymore, but feelings don't walk away as easily as people do. I still care about her, probably, not in the same way as I used to. If anything , this incident made us more open to each other.So, don't worry. Your guy friend will come around. Just give him some time. Talk to him and try to make him comfortable. He ll eventually understand you.If keeping such friendship seems complex to you and you are ready to give up a friend who cares a lot about you over such a stupid thing, then I am sorry to say, that you were never ever friends in real sense.
People ignore me at school?
hello amelie i was browsing the internet and stumbled upon your question so i decided to write you an answer to help you with your life. like in the forrest gump movie he says that life is like a box of chocolates and you never know what you're gonna get next so right now you are probably just at the bad chocolates (i dont like the ones with weird fruit cream inside or nuts) but the good chocolates will come later on in your life like college or university when you can become you're own person and truly be an independent like tom hanks did in that movie (he was bullied for being weird but later went on to have the BEST life ever) anyway this all sounds like a lot of drama that isnt really necessary so jsut ignore it and grow up
How do you deal with really needy friends?
i have a friend that is really, really needy. i'm in my late 20's, i have a full-time job, i work-out regularly and have a lot of other friends that i need to see in my spare time! one of those friends is new to the country (we met 3 years ago) and she hasn't made any other friends other than me. she calls me EVERY OTHER DAY asking me if i can hang out. i really don't have time for her all the time! even if she knows i have other plans she will call me to check if my plans were canceled. on saturday i had plans with my best-friend. she asked if i could hang out, and i told her i was going downtown to meet my best-friend. she then said "oh i'm going to be downtown too, wanna meet after? it's been so long since we've met!" so i felt bad because all week she was reminding me that it's been a while since we hung out, so i said OKAY. i was really exhausted after i met up with my best-friend. it was real hot outside. we went for brunch, then we walked around for 2.5 hours. we had a lot of fun, ate cupcakes, and walked it off.. but we were in the heat, so by the time we were done hanging out we were exhausted. my head was hurting and i really wanted to go home shower and sleep. instead i met up with my needy friend because i told her i would, and it was honestly really exhausting. i felt really sick by the time i got home. how do i handle this? i need to explain to her that i could probably only see her once a month, not every week! but i've told her this before and she continues to call me every other day!