Is it wrong to watch porn while I have a girlfriend?
Haha, thats the wrong attitude. The RIGHT attitude is, "I only want my gf in the sense that I want her and I to both be happy, and both benefit from this relationship. I'm confident and secure enough that I can have her masturbate to porn, while im doing the same, and I wont feel insecure or jealous. I also wont feel guilty about myself. Im ok with this, because i know were both probly gonna do it, and its more enjoyable for both of us to do so." THAT is the best attitude to have! The day you start sacrificing your own personal life for your girl, is the date she will start to see you as low value and unattractive and clingy, and will start to lose interest in you. TRUST me. It happens everywhere. My friends, to me (BEFORE i learned just about everything there is to know about women, social dynamics, and dating... now im almost flawless, its great), its been proven, mystery method and many other dating methods teach this, its like a fact. Im not saying not to do nice things for her... but HAVE A STRONG FRAME AND HIGH CONFIDENCE. Give her the space she needs, and DEMAND THE SPACE YOU NEED. Dont sacrifice things one way or another too much haha, or at leasttt dont be the person with the idea to do that! If she gets super uppity about wanting you both to not watch porn, OK FINE DONT! But MAKE HER BE THE ONE TO HAVE THAT IDEA NOT YOU. Dont even mention porn to her! Most likely SHE might bring it up. And if she doesnt? The thought obviously didnt bother her! So it shouldnt bother you either.
Since you had no idea, I'm going to guess he does it when you're not available and he's ready to go. Even if you have sex like everyday, you're not there every second of the day. You could be out working/school, busy with chores/errands, sleeping, etc. It seems odd, but guys seem to not be able to wait very long. Top Premium and Pay Porn Sites I've asked guys while I've dated them why they didn't just wait the 10-15 minutes until I was available for them and the answer I got was that they just couldn't. And I assume porn makes it a quick release too.No foreplay or anything. If he loves you, the porn is meaningless. It's just a tool to quickly get rid of his sexual frustration. I know it hurts to think he can get off while looking at another woman, but when it comes to the physical stuff guys seem to be content with anything that is boobed shaped or has women parts. I wouldn't worry about it too much. It'd be an issue if he would rather look at porn than be with you, but that doesn't sound like that's the case.There is nothing emotional with a guy when he watches porn. I am very possessive with my guy and I have no problem with him watching porn, I watch it too. We both know we watch porn, totally open about it. We know we love each other and that porn is just entertainment.
Practically and truthfully speaking, no current methods of birth control (including surgeries) are 100% preventative, other than abstinence. Apparently, the fail rate is higher if you use birth control incorrectly (condoms, the pill, etc.), but even if used correctly 100% of the time, they can STILL fail. And yeah, there are relatively numerous accounts of pregnancies occurring even where the man has had a vasectomy, or where the woman had her tubes tied, and even instances of pregnancies occurring when BOTH parties had these surgeries done.
Im a lesbian, how can my girlfriend get me pregnant?
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Im 16 and i found out my girlfriend is pregnant.?
Well... this situation isn't ideal, but it's yours and you can't run away from it. First of all, everybody, no matter what their age, has fears about becoming a parent. A great book to get is "The Baby Book" by Dr. Sears. Lots of good info there, and pretty much everything you need to know about babies. Secondly, have a good talk with your girlfriend and see what SHE wants to do. Has she thought about adoption? It will be hard, but I can't imagine that it will be harder than raising a baby at her age. The baby would get parents that can offer it a stable home and lots of love. Now, your mom. Hm. This depends on what your girlfriend decides. If she decides to give it up for adoption, I don't see any reason to tell your mom. If she's going to keep it, then you have to be a man and take responsibility. Even if you and your girlfriend break up, you'll still be this baby's dad. Be a good one. Finish school. Go to college. Financially support the child all you can, and spend as much time with it as you can. You may need to go to court to get something worked out officially. But please, don't be a father that this child always wonders about; be a good man that he/ she can be proud to call "Dad." How to tell mom? Is your dad around? If he's not, perhaps that's why your mom has such issues with this? (Any parent would be upset, but saying she'd "disown" you is a bit extreme.) I'd try to have someone else there when you told her. An aunt or uncle? A friend of hers who you feel would back you up? Try to have an ally in the room. Good luck with everything.
My girlfriend is pregnant I need to know if it's mine please help????!!!!!!?
We went to the Doctor and did an ultrasound and they told us the baby is 7 weeks and 1 day old which would mean the baby was concieved on the 16 of September. Well long story short Im in the army and come home on the weekends because my hometown is really close to base so I was there on the 13th of September and we had sex I ejaculated in her and all that. Well we broke up and she had sex with her ex somewhere between the dates of 22nd september to the 24th and ge also claims he ejaculated in her but they olny had sex once. She has very irregular periods and I've read the chances of her getting pregnant are pretty slim. Somebody please shed some light on this sutuation I need to know what's goin on. Also I read it takes days after u ejaculate in a woman for her to become pregnant.
I need to know if my girlfriends pregnant, PLEASE HELP.?
me and my gf had unprotected sex, i felt like i cummed in her but she said she felt nothing, i pulled out and *** came out. we checked the symptoms and it said that shes suppose to feel hot/warm stuff and she didnt. the point is that i feel like i cummrd inside her and ive never been this worried before.. please help A.S.A,P!
You accept the responsibility of her next decision.I am sure you don’t need an education on how making a baby works, that it is a mutual decision. Having sex is a risk and a responsibility.With that said, ask her what she would like to do and support her decision. If she chooses to terminate the pregnancy, go with her for the process. Hold her hand. Let her know you stand by her, because it will be a difficult process for her, regardless if she doesn’t want the baby. Abortions have psychological effects one must deal with, and there are also physical risks.If she decides she wants to keep the baby, than Congratulations on being a father. You are not the first person to make the mistake of not using proper protection. Even if you are very young, this is the card you have been dealt, and it has only been by both of your choices. A life chosen to be carried is always a miracle and a blessing of sorts, even if not spiritual. You can stand by her side and take responsibility to do what you can to be the best father you can be, and use all the resources you have, to include family emotional supports, and other resources to make that happen.There are also options to give up your parental rights or discuss adoption if she chooses to not abort, but to carry the child. Still, doing that will be with you forever. You can’t turn your back there is someone you created out living in the world, wondering why they weren’t good enough to keep. Still, if you are too irresponsible, not financially or emotionally stable enough to be a father, then you may be doing the right thing. That doesn’t mean it won't end up in regret later. These are all contemplations to consider. Either way, if this baby carries to full term, one day he or she will be your age, affected by your decision, so make it a good one.No matter what your decision, stand by your girlfriend and her decision. I hope you both can come to an agreement that is best for the baby and circumstance.
WOW! Parenthood is THE MOST demanding, time consuming, frustrating and yet most fulfilling,joyful and life changing thing anyone can every experience. And that is for an ADULT.I am very close with my girls, but I made it clear to them that IF they got pregnant before 18, that I was NOT going to be raising another baby (which many parents seem to end up doing).Whether or not you want to be one, or you are ready to be one….you are going to be one. You no longer have a choice in whether or not you’re having a child.15 is TOO YOUNG to become a parent, but there are A LOT of good, kind, caring and loving adults who CAN’T have kids. CONSIDER ADOPTION.Making the choice to give your child a loving home, with 2 adult parents who are not only capable, but ready to be parents is the MOST UNSELFISH decison you will ever make.I have NEVER met a woman who had an abortion and wasn’t damaged for the rest of their lives of that decision. While that may not be the best option, it is one to consider.Lastly, I agree with all the other who say this is really HER decision (b/c after all, it is HER body), BUT just know this…IF she decides to keep the baby, BE there , BE involved and BE A DAD, b/c that is one decision that will leave you directly responsible for the LIFE of another human being. READ everything you can about being a parent. LEARN all you can about kids. TAKE CLASSES…the more you learn, the better chances you have at being a good dad! Raising a happy,confident and well adjusted child will be the mot rewarding (and unselfish) thing you will ever do.Best of luck to you both.