I'm too scared to text my crush. Any advice?
One of the reasons you're probably afraid is that you imagine the rejection will hurt if he/she says they don't feel that way. You will most likely face rejection of some type (job, romantic, friendship) hundreds of times in your life. The best thing you can learn is how to accept rejection gracefully and see that it's not a personal slight on you. Now, with that said, either way texting your crush turns out, you've got nothing to lose! You contact the crush, they like it? Awesome. Chance at furthering a relationship. You contact the crush and they're not into you? Awesome. You can now move on and find someone else who is into you too. No wasting time pining away, never knowing where you stand! Do it! No regrets.
Me an my crush always make eye contact?
It's impossible to say whether he's got a crush on you without asking him, but he definitely "likes" you (at least as a person, if not as a crush). That's something! Based on this, I'd say there's a good chance he might like you back. My advice is to make a move. I know it can be scary, but you don't actually have much to lose by pursuing this! He already knows you and he notices you, so it won't be nearly as awkward as it would be if he were a completely stranger. Even if it turns out he doesn't actually have a crush on you, this situation can protect you from a lot of embarrassment because you've got a good excuse: he was making lots of eye contact with you, so it was natural to assume he likes you. Go for it! [SIDE NOTE: Don't pay attention to anybody who says that guys should always make the first move--that's a stupid rule. As a guy, I can tell you that nothing frustrates us more than finding out that a pretty girl used to like us but never bothered to tell us. Why should guys have to do all the work? If you have feelings, don't be afraid to express them!] Finally, whatever you do, DON'T think too much. I know that can be really hard, especially with crushes, but it's also a trap. The facts are simple: you like him, and there's a good reason to think he likes you--so just assume that he likes you and make the first move! You can handle this. Good luck!
My crush texted me after 2 months of no contact. What is some advice?
I’d be more curious about the nature of your last contact with this person prior to the no contact. What did you talk about? Was the experience pleasant? And if there’s been two months of no contact, was that initiated on your part or theirs? I can presume that they’re the ones who haven’t initiated any correspondence with you during this period of time.With that in mind, if rebuilding the connection is what you’re wanting to do, take it slow. Because when someone decides not to talk to you for a week, with no explanation (and especially if you’ve messaged or called them and received nothing), that could be because they got sick or went on a trip.But when it’s a month or more, it seems like there’s an intentional reason for someone to not communicate at all. At some point, I’d encourage you to broach this subject and find out why they haven’t talked with you in such a long time. You can do that in a gentle way, like “Hey it’s been a few months since we talked. Is everything alright?” Don’t make any presumptions or accuse them of ignoring you. Treat them like a friend that you really missed talking and interacting with. Because whether they’re a crush or not, they’re someone you value. People we value we want to spend time with and be connected to.Take it slow. You never know what might have been going on in their life. Someone close to them might have passed away, a relationship might have ended, they moved, they changed jobs or had some other major change take place and now they’re trying to reconnect with their circle of friends. Be gracious and loving. Good things will come.
My crush & I lost contact? Please help?
This amazing boy who I've had a "flirtation shi and "thing" with for a year and I have lost communication. Our seats got moved in the one class we have with each other & we don't get to talk anymore. I think it's kind of obvious that we both like each other to. I often find ourselves looking at each other from across the room and sometimes holding a stare for a few seconds that makes butterflies fly in my stomach. My problem is I have a tendency to play "hard to get" by being kind of flirty with other boys in that class. It's a language class so we have all been in the same class for two years now and we know each other well. We've only got three months left of school & I know for a fact my crush isn't taking the class next year. I have a feeling we will loose complete contact then. We occasionally text, mostly about the class and the conversation never lasts very long. I miss him so much, and I want to talk to him again. But I think he's hurt that I flirt with other boys because he doesn't say a whole lot when we text. I want him & I think he wants me. Please offer some advice. Thank you
My crush and i keep making awkward eye contact?
how do i stop this? seriously its so awkward and i probably blush so much. but like whenever im at school ill just happen to make eye contact with him, and it happens all the time! i dont even stare at him, but now im afraid he knows i think hes cute because his friends stare at me all the time
She texted me after 2 weeks on no contact. I want her back. What do I do?
There really is no way of knowing an exact reason as to why your ex is reaching out to you but here is a list of reasons that may have sparked him/her to contact you. Some are good reasons and some are not so good reasons.The GoodThe grass isn’t greener…and they are slowly starting to realize that. They are reaching out because this realization is just starting to hit them.They genuinely miss you and are thinking about you.The BadEgo – Simple as that – Your ex wants to still see if they have an effect on you. The single life is not as magical as they had hoped and they need their ego stroked from you. If they just want an ego stroke their goal is to get that boost of confidence and then will most likely drop the conversation once their ego cup is full.They may be feeling guilty about the breakup and want to release the sense of guilt off their shoulders. They will probably say something like “Let Be Friends” Etc.They are using you as a “security blanket” to shield them from loneliness until someone else comes along. Again the ego.All of these are possibilities why your ex may be contacting you but they themselves are the only person who really knows. Getting that first text after some time will probably throw you into a tailspin of emotions but I want you to remember to relax, take a step back and be honest with yourself.So, do you go back with an ex?Before striking back up with an ex, consider the following:You can’t “go back” to an old relationship… unless you want the same results. Going back to an ex means you will start a new relationship with someone from your past. You have to release what you think you know and get to know them all over again.Don’t jump into bed right away… especially if the sex was incredible. You’ll risk repeating your old relationship by fooling yourself about the level of connection.Don’t focus on the past… unless you are reminiscing about good times. Past disagreements (or what broke you up) can be discussed… but then you need to leave it alone.Above all… take your time. Let the new relationship reveal its own possibilities, and you’ll see what’s possible.If you are serious about getting back together I would suggest you check out this program - GET EX BACK HERE - I got my ex back from this program and it really helpedRead My Full Review of The Program - HERE[1]Footnotes[1] Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You Out of The Blue! -
My crush texted me after 3 months of no contact, what does that mean?
what does that mean?This is a GREAT question to ask your crush! No one on Quora is going to know why. You’re going to ask to ask your crush. The only thing we Quorans can do is speculate, but ultimately you’ll be left with even more questions than you had to begin with. So go ask your crush.Now in typical Quoran fashion, it’s time to speculate! Maybe he plumb forgot about you and you just ran across his memory and now he’s reaching out to you.Maybe he was dating someone and the just broke up so now he wants to discretely flirt in the hopes of dating youMaybe he was out of town and is now in town and wants to hangMaybe he wants to tell you he’s gayMaybe he wants to introduce you to his new girlfriendMaybe he remembered he owes you $20 and wants to pay you backMaybe you have something he needs and is reaching out to borrow itMaybe something happened to a mutual friend and he’s hoping you knowMaybe he’s bored, all of his friends are busy, so he’s going through his list of contacts to find someone to chat withMaybe he’s dying soon and wants to make sure he’s square with youMaybe he confused your contact info with someone else so he thinks he’s contacting them and not youMaybe a friend tipped him off that you like him so now he’s exploring this ideaMaybe he saw you earlier, but for some reason couldn’t get your attention, so now he’s reaching out to youMaybe it’s a friend playing a mean joke on youMaybe, maybe, maybe, maybe, maybe!Talk to the guy, to figure out which maybe it is.
I need advice about my crush really bad!! Please answer!!?
This is really difficult. I know you like him a lot, but what makes this tricky is that you don't want to become like the girls he grinds at parties. Right? Right! Sadly, this fellow has learned that he doesn't need to try too hard to have girls swoon all over him. So he is making the most of it and it is possible he hasn't had to behave any other way but flirty. So it seems that he is polite to you because you have not acted like the other girls, plus--he knows you. What concerns me is this---he has not made any polite moves to get to know you better. That's probably because he has a harem adoring him! He's popular, apparently. I think he is a player. I would still admire him from a distance, but make the most of your conversations when you see him. Next time, make the most of your brief chats in the lunch line. Say "so how's your day going so far?" Say "did you see so-and-so movie? It was so good." I mean, you can't say too much in the lunch line, but be your friendly self. Yes, just keep being friendly and talking to him--do not ask him out though. By now, if he hasn't noticed you other than your short conversations, don't get your hopes up. I don't encourage you to become like the other girls. If he's not interested enough to talk to you beyond the lunch line, then make that lunch line conversation as good as possible, but don't mistake his neat personality and your crush for him being a guy who respects the girls and wants a seriousl relationship. He obviously doesn't. You'd love that, but I think you'd be thrown into the pen with the other girls. Remember, you want to be noticed, be appreciated, and be asked out. You've already figured out that he doesn't have to work too hard at being around girls, but he's shying away from serious relationships. Even if he did ask you out, you'd be worried about the other girls flitting around him. Just smile, be happy to see him and talk, sweet, friendly, open, but don't expect anything. You are not the type for a shallow guy. You can continue admiring him as a crush, but don't let your imagination blur the reality of the situation.
My crush and I don't talk anymore, what now?
Your problem lies in you and your solution in your question . As you are saying that she is full of pride and is not ready to accept her mistake , you should not be with her .Try to understand my point ..!! Do you really think that you can live a happy life even after getting in a relationship with such a person who is self centred ?? Probably your answer is NO , isn't it ? Try to seek life beyond your crush and get your mind out of these thoughts .Another point : You said that she liked your instagram photo and you are confused now . Bro, remember always that a " double tap " on a photo does not mean that she really likes you , and does not love at all ..!! Instagram puts a symbol of heart for liking a pic . It is just to keep all of us busy in using such a stupid and useless app .. !!Have some good hobbies . Try to nurish them , polish them and shine yourself in that area !! :) Provide your valuable feedback . Thank you .