What should I do? Need advice
Stop Taking Sedatives. You will and you can sleep naturally once you learn to be with yourself ! I am not an expert in this field but being an ardent follower of the philosophy of Bhagvad Gita, I have learnt that a person is responsible for his/her own situation and we HAVE that power to have control over our emotions, we have that power to get guided by our intellect, and we have that power to focus on the ball DESPITE all sorts of emotional turmoils. Arjuna had to fight and kill his brothers and uncles. Anything more depressing than that? I don't think so. Krishna told him to listen to the call of duty ! I say, when you truly and sincerely listen to the call of duty (whatever are your obligations and you are SUPPOSED to do), you will get in flow of life and things will fall in place. You just need courage to do so. Once you are settled and once you start confiding in yourself, you can always introspect in retrospect and kill your weakness and harness your strengths. I have no Idea why are you depressed, neither do I know if my words are making sense to you, just know that I know things can take an impulsive turn. I know and understand that pain that runs in your heart (Yes, in your HEART, literally physically). It might be hard to handle. In such cases we need to listen to our brain- not our mind, but our intellect ! Think of what your mom would advice you if you were to communicate these feelings to her. Or your dad, or your mentor or teacher, just Think ! That is also your intellect speaking, right? :) To tap into your intellect you have to MEDITATE ! Just meditate, despite the pain, let those tears role down, cry hard, but sit yourself down and force yourself to meditate ! When you can harm yourself of depression, you also have that strength to cure yourself against it. PULL YOURSELF out of it, FORCE yourself to be optimistic. Our minds gravitate towards the negative. Always rememebr. :) All the best. Humanity is with you ! :*
I NEED ADVICE, WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?
So me and this guy have been texted for around 2 weeks now, he asked for my number and he's the one that texted me. Around 2 days ago, I woke up to a text from him which he sent at 5am saying something like have you decided what you want and then I replied what do you mean what I want and he said that I said I didn't want to talk to him and then I replied that I didn't say that because I actually didn't Since I said that he hasn't replied, it's been around 2days and I'm thinking he's kinda lost interest in me. I don't know whether i should say something or not, I don't want to seem desperate cos I'm really not If you think I should say something what should I say I've only known him for a short period of time and I'm not sure if I like him, should o make an effort or leave it at that?
I need advice with my life. What should I do now?
Step1— Set 2 goalsA long term goal (for a span of 5 years or more)- like you want to be a great engineer, doctor, actor, entrepreneur, salesman etc in next 5 yearsNow chose a day to day goal that can help you fulfill your long term goal -like working out for 8 hours a day to practice skills that can help you achieve your dreamNow my friend you have successfully set up your goal .Step2— Priorities- Now that you have your priorities set do that task daily for 8 hours a day before any other tasks . Work hard no matter what it takes. After successful completion of your task reward yourself with the things you love the most ( maybe you like to eat chocolate cakes)Step3—Stay committed - Daily commitment will get you going in the flow and it will become your habit .You will no longer have to be dependent on the daily motivation as it will be a part of your daily habit or routine and so you will definitely be able to see the results.Bonus tip-Stay relaxed , practise meditation,read self help books, develop a growing mindset ,learn from your mistakes and don't presume anything.You will achieve anything that you want , provided you are willing to work for it .Stay blessed,NamasteyANKIT CHAUHAN.
What should i do? need serious advice?
I have been with a man for 4 years. He has beaten me many times and he also has cheated, im not sure about sex but has been caught with his ex girlfriend SEVERAL times and one other girl that i know of. He is very controlling and has to always be right. He has put me thru hell and back yet ive always stayed. we have a 3 yr old son and in december he left for the marines, i hated him then and he knew it he begged me not cheat or find anyone else, but i couldnt wait for him to leave, i knew it would be my chance to leave him. one night about 2wks after he left, i found out somethings about him, got really mad and out of revenge kissed and started to have sex with another guy, i stopped as soon as i realized what i was doing and i have never and would never do it again. i dont kno if i should tell him or not, we just got married and he left again for training , i keep telling myself i was such a bad girlfriend and he was sooo nice. what the hell ??...i just wanna fresh start with him, and we are gonna be moving away in may, im just scared somehow the "rumors" of this guy and i will get back to him, even though no one knows the truth, i stopped it the guy got mad that i did and spred so many rumors, i mean what should i do. i feel so guilty. i really love my husband, ive put up with so much from him and ive only made that one mistake. should i tell him? or should i forget about it, and deny it if ever i have too?
Do we really need life advice?
Most people are looking for a Life User Manual containing instructions for avoiding failure. Religion is happy to supply such a book. The problem is, religious manuals don't work. Look at the Middle East. Big business told people the path to success was college and career. That worked for awhile, until rich people became greedy and ruined it. Most people want to be told what to do. Their search for a better user manual continues.
I need some advice, Im feeling lost. What should I do?
It's ok. Just keep going. You can totally do this. We have all had times in our lives where things don't go as planned. You know what that tells you? That you're trying. And you know what that means? You're bound to succeed. Just keep trying. You can try the same things again, or try different things. You're practicing for success. Success will come. Get yourself ready by continuing to practice.
I need urgent career advice. What should I do?
This is the situation where worry's comes to the scene, so don't worry much.Try to make a list what you have learned till now, make an another list at which you are best and good from what you learned.Everything you need is awareness there are many jobs to do whatever happened is happened start a life from today, be productive, learn what are the business things you can invest like in stocks, start studying books.Remember what ever the job you may choose try to stay in for long period that will increase your job experience and salary.If your financial is good try to do some business safely like owing a hostel, giving rental save the money you got from them and expand your financial stability.I'm a fresher completed my b.tech recently one year back. In between one year I got so much worried sometime taught myself to calm down.I've done mechanical with good score but falied at finding a job in core and I need money so I've started searching jobs out of my core hopingly I found an opening in GIS field which has nothing to do with my b.tech.Be talkitive and buildup relationships with family members and relatives because when I started doing that one of my cousin in relatives suggested this GIS job to me. And then I applied to it attended to interview got selected and currently in training, so family relationships are also majorly important. Be a socially networking animal build your circle.What I wanted to say is just have hope, be patient, everything takes time, move slowly, watch every minute as it is passing by carefully and use it by pushing yourself up. These all will be out of the map when you get worried so don't worry much.Wishing you all the best, hoping you will find a good job what ever it may be.
What should I do, need expert advice please ?
From reading Deepika’s response, it sounds as though you are hurting because of the one you love. I’m sure you are suffering and don’t know what to do. Believe me, we have all been in that situation and we didn’t know what to do at the time either.We didn’t know whether to be bold and talk to the person. OR. If in talking to the person things would be much worse.There’s also the very real chance that something very sad or unfortunate has happened in the other person’s life that you know nothing about. Perhaps there’s someone you both know who could answer that question as well as other questions you may have. Don’t ask the person’s best friend. That places the person in a very difficult position.In the meantime, it might be better to step back and continue living your life as best you can. Smile and be pleasant whenever you meet. Wait and be hopeful.You’re in pain and you want someone to give you advice to relieve that pain. Waiting is the hardest thing to do and the least welcomed advice to receive. But I think, for the time being, and until you know more, wait.In time, your relationship will be restored. OR. You will move on to something that may prove better.