I need advice about taking care of my little sister?
You have my sympathy. Your whole family is still getting over your grief and trying to reorganize as a new family system. It will take a while yet to decide what your new roles are now that your mother is no longer with you. There will be tension and disagreement during this time. Accept that this is normal, and give each other a break When you find yourselves yelling at each other, stop and calm down. Remind each other that everyone is feeling sad and confused, and that the world won't end if you can't resolve your laundry issues. Then stop intervening between your dad and your sister. It sounds like you have started mothering her a little, which is fine if it helps her. But you can't be her parent. Even though he is grieving, your father needs to step up and be the parent to his daughters and work out the household rules with both of you. He may feel there is nothing he can do about her, but in reality, there is nothing he chooses to do about it. It's probably hard at this point. But it isn't your responsibility. You should offer her love and support, but you don't have to be the authority. Your sister might even prefer it if you don't try to take care of her. She may feel like you're trying to replace her mother, and that might make her angry. She may get along better with you if you go back to being just the big sister.
My sister has herpes and I need advice to give her?
Just let her know how much you love her and care for her, and just be there for her if she needs a shoulder to cry on. I contracted genital herpes and HPV when I was 17 years old. I felt HORRIBLE. I was depressed, upset, angry, you name it. The thing that helped me more then anything was my mom. She was with me when I was diagnosed and never stopped being there for me. She was my shoulder to cry on (literally). With time she'll be just fine. Time heals A LOT. Good luck to you and her. I know how bad it gets!
I need advice Me and my sister are thinking about straying into incest?
My sister has always undressed in front of me and says some pretty suggestive things to me. Than earlier today she was bending over in front of me so I spanked her for a laugh. But she than started grinding on me and I got a little "excited" she than grabbed it and said meet me in my room after mom leaves. I luckily had to go to summer practices and than went to a movie to think about things. I kind of want to get close with her but I don't know. What should I do?
I'm attracted to my sister-in-law! Help!!! Advice needed!?
Let me start off by saying that I am truly in love with my wife, but I have always had a minor attraction to her sister (2 years younger). It was never anything serious, but lately, I have been fantasizing about her. Whenever she is around I keep checking her out. There are even times when she initiates sexual playful banter with me. She is unmarried and right now is not seeing anyone. So she is over at our house a lot. I'm getting to the point where it is harder for me to be around her because I'm afraid something might happen. Am I worried about nothing or do you guys think this is a real problem? What should I do? Has anyone experienced a situation like this? Serious advice please!
I need advice! My sister is pregnant out of wedlock (again)!?
My family is a very strict Christian family. There are five of us kids and we all came out great, knowing what is wrong and what is right. Except for one of my sisters. When she was 19, she got pregnant out of wedlock. It completely tore my parents apart and she had a shotgun wedding with she was 5 months pregnant--married an absolute moron. When she was pregnant with her second child, her husband left her for a little high school girl. Later, they divorced. Now, my sister who is not even 24 yet, is pregnant again (and it's not her ex-husband's baby). I found all this out from her ex-husband's little high school girlfriend, who has a Myspace. I read all her comments to her friends. That was how I found out my sister is pregnant. She's 20 weeks pregnant and she has not told ANY of us! We didn't even know she had a boyfriend! (She lives about an hour away from all of us). WHAT CAN I DO?!?! HELP! Any advice? Has your family gone through this?? Thanks.
HELP! My boyfriends sister is moving in, I need advice, please?
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