Can someone cheer me up? I'm feeling a little sad about life in general.
Hi friend, let me call you a friend)Life is so short , always remeber you have someone in your life who believes in you and loves you just the way you are (nick vuijicic). Doesn’t matter whether that person is your mother, father, friend or anyone else! You are not alone! I read one a bit sad story about life( There was a woman who was married to her lovely man, she doted on him so did he, but they didn’t have much money. The woman was always thinking about getting wealthier, wearing brand new clothes, eating in the best restaurants, even when she was sitting by the table with her husband having a meal her attention was somewhere else ( about her “better future”). Suddenly one day her husband died( Years passed. She got all the things she “dreamed of”, she got those expensive clothes, she was having those delicious meals. But do you know what she regretted the most, what she was lacking in her life? Yes, her husband. She was taking for granted those incredible moments, she wasn’t living her present, thus she WAS SAD!!! LOOK AROUND LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL! Do not take everything too serious, if you’ve got any problems right now you WILL solve them. Whether you are satisfied with your life or not DOES depend on you! Happiness is enjoying the little things in life!Stand up dude! Start living your life. Carpe diem(seize this very moment!) You are responsible for your happiness. Good life requires courage, strength, and a lot of effort! That’s why many people are so lazy so that they choose sadness, don’t be AVERAGE! BE UNIQUE, MAKE YOUR LIFE!
I don't want to live anymore. I feel alone and useless. I don't want my family to suffer for me either. What can I do?
Dear Ariel,You do not need to explain.I know this feeling well. I spent 3 years in very deep depression and wanted to die every day. I tried committing suicide once but failed. I felt useless and worthless and totally alone. I still remember what it was like. I know the bottomless pit. I also know how to get out of it and to dissolve the depression once and for all.I strongly recommend you go to my blog at lifesanswers.org and read everything there about depression and how to get rid of it. Do all the practices and suggestions listed there. Do that starting today.Having said that. A couple things that are very important….First, if you die in depression, in the darkness, it will follow you. There is no relief in death. It will actually feel worse and even more real. Plus you will add guilt to the mix. So suicide is really not a good option.Second, you can get rid of the depression and the feelings of uselessness if you commit yourself to it. It will take work on your part by you can do it. You are not alone. There are people who care about you and you should make them a part of your support system.Third, you need to find a good therapist who has experience with depression. Make that person a part of your support system as well.I tell you these things from my experience and the experience of hundreds of other people I have worked with and helped.You can get out of this dark pit, this pain that never seems to end. You can do it. The darkness is lying to you.Remember, you are not alone and you are not worthless no matter what that inner dialog tells you.Take careJon
Anyone ever start out breastfeeding but then change your mind and want to use formula?
I desperately wanted to breastfeed and have had my mind made up since i found out i was pregnant, but since my daughter arrived it's been a nightmare. I knew it could be a difficult experience the first few weeks, and I knew it could take a lot of work to get it right, but I seriously am miserable. I want her to have the breastmilk so much! My daughter won't nurse (she's three weeks) and has yet successfully feed at the breast. I pump every few hours, usually after she eats, and my milk supply has started to go down so much so that I need to use formula every other feeding now because have no milk. I bring her to the breast every feeding, and she screams bloody murder for as long as I have her there in every position. My boyfriend and both our families were very supportive and in favor of breastfeeding from the start but are all getting to the point where they want me to just bottle feed now, i'm starting to resent them and quite honestly, my daughter, and it's making me sick to think of this. i don't want to have to attempt nursing anymore because she never will, i hate that i leak and have to always be wearing a bra. my chest feels like it's going to fall off from pumping so often, i'm just tired of it! has anyone else out there just decided that that they really don't want to be breastfeeding anymore?
Could a doctor answer this please..i need serious help...?
Ok, first thing is if you can never diagnose someone online, there is no comparison to actual seeing someone.... Also, if you have had a CT scan, then it would pick up any obstructions, inflammation etc. that may give a feeling of tubes etc behind your eye. As it came back negative, I would assume, in that department, there wasn't anything to worry about. However, there are many other things it could be that a CT scan would not pick up. Obviously, you may only be giving some of your symptoms, where others that you think are not important, may be. Such as, have you noticed increase amounts of spit?.. perhaps more chewing or grinding of teeth in your sleep? How do you feel emotionally, do you feel paranoid in any way? With these head shakes, do you get a headache?... Do you wear glasses?.. How is your eye sight?.. when was the last time it was checked? Head shaking is of course a common symptom of mental illness, it happens in most of the animal kingdom when there is a level of distress, just because you have never suffered before, doesn't mean you won't in the future. Of course, it may not be linked to any mental illness but it could be physical. Nerve damage can also cause muscle atrophy, so I wondered if you had, had any injury over the last two years around your neck area of had any blows to the head? Have you been put in for a MRI scan? or did they feel the CT was enough? At the end of the day, you have done the right thing in going to the doctors, whatever answers you get online is no substitute for the real thing.. so make sure you keep up with appointments etc. I am sure once they have found the key, they will manage your condition just fine. Just something to try, I wondered if you have had an allergic reaction to something, that has caused inflammation in some part of your body. If you have no joy with the treatment you are getting, I would try some of the over the counter antihistamines (oral) Always read the label)) and see how you get on with that. I am concerned you are feeling suicidal also, if these feelings get any worse, you must inform your Doctor, as there are drugs they can put you on that will make you feel better in the short term. Good luck