I need opinions. Please be serious.?
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 &1/2 months. We are still young and are only going to be in high school next year. Please ignore the age factor here unless you are going to say something positive about it. We are both very mature for our age, we’ve already done everything (yes even sex it’s our bodies we can do what we want to when we want to) anyways, we continue to have these arguments and fights and just bad moments. We have different views on the world and how things should be. We get along so amazingly and have such perfect and happy times together, but we still have these really bad times too. I personally have cried more than I have in over a year since I’ve been in this relationship. He always tries his best for me and I for him. We love each other and that is for sure. But we need to stop having those arguments and fights and bad times because it is just getting worse. We both have things we need to change and work on but we’ve been doing that. I really don’t want to break up. We both agreed that breaking up is not in the cards right now. So please I just want to here opinions because it keeps coming down to this. “What do we do now”
MY FATHER-IN-LAW GAVE MY SON BEER!!!!! OPINIONS PLEASE! Sorry this is long its alot of info. But I need help!!
Ok so my son is 2 1/2 and when he was 4 mos old we were out to dinner with a bunch of our family and my father in law was holding my son and he started giving him some of his margarita and I flipped out and he hasnt done it since. Well today my in laws came over and I walked back into the room and I saw that my FIL had a beer up to my sons mouth. I ran over and said no no no and told him not to do it and that he better never do it again. My dillema is that we are supposed to go away next weekend for 3 days with my husbands whole family for his aunts bday and now I am not sure if I want to go and if I do go I dont think I want my son going. But then he will miss out on going swimming and things like that becasue it is at a lake. I also have a 4 mon. old daughter and I am afraid if I take my son I will be worried about him the whole time and neither one of us will have any fun. We also have an issue w/my fil smoking around my kids and I am constantly trying to keep that under control to.
I need help with peoples opinion on destrimination at work! DISNEYLAND PARIS. please help :)?
Hi so I work at DisneyLand paris I have been here a few years. I came out here to be a face character and parade performer ( can't say who) but I got told when I got here I couldn't be a face character due to the fact I have a lisp, a very very slightly lisp. most of the time people don't know I have one until I tell them. Is this disrimation? they have also allowed other people in the past to do the face characters with a lisp, but now they won't let me. I wrote a letter and they completely ignored everything i wrote and just sent an apology and said technically i do the rest of my job, e.g dancer, fur character.... which is apart of my contract, and that part I have never disagreed to or complained about. is this discrimination ? if so what do I do about it? do I have rights? its completely ruined my confidence as its my dream job! I keep trying harder and harder and every time they shoot me down for it. They say its character integrity, meaning you have to be everything the character is.... but they allow people with different features and other speech impediments, present and future to do it and suddenly character integrity doesn't apply. There is also a pre approval before you do your training, for physical looks of the character.... which I pass, but shouldn't that be the time to disprove me instead of putting me through the training even though they know I have a lisp? please can someone give me advice and opinions.
What is your opinion on teen curfew laws?
I think they're useless like teen drinking, smoking, drug, and sex laws... teens will find a way to do anything they want with or with out the permission of their parents, police, or the government.
I need your opinions on community policing!?
I have always completely supported the idea of community policing. I feel it is extremely important to bring the community together with the police. I think that serious crimes will happen no matter what, but on the other hand, if the public can feel closer with the police, feel like they're truly on the same team, that could help reduce your every day "smaller" crimes. The reason being, many small time "thugs" and "bangers" are just people that are lost and want to feel apart of something and have no confidence in being a contributing member to society; so if you give them a sort of camaraderie with police it could show them that there are better things to be doing than going to jail all of the time and causing trouble. Community Policing isn't just to bring the public and police together, it is apart of an even larger movement, which is to HELP a community, which includes public safety but also community programs as a whole. Consider the Broken Windows Theory. If the community is nicer as a whole and crime is beginning to become reduced then it could potentially become a positive trend. Just my .02 though...
Need Opinions! 17 yr old grandson stole checks from grandmom $1400, press charges or not?
just to be contrarian. What grandmother wants is her money, and she would likely want to see consequences, but not lifelong consequences, for grandson. Because he would be over 18 when convicted, he would almost certainly be charged as an adult. This becomes part of the public record. It would likely be charged as a felony. This becomes part of his public record. And, these records are never expunged. Since the crime is one of "moral turpitude", he would be disqualified from many jobs (even assuming he turns his life around). If asked on employment application, he would have to say he has been convicted of a crime. The prospective employer would then look it up. All that it would show on computer (CCAP or other system) is felony theft/fraud. This would, indeed, have a severe impact on the boy. The impact of going to jail for a few days or weeks (likely the result) and restitution is not what will hurt him. Indeed, that may help him. But the consequences will follow him forever. And, while the holier-than-thou attitudes may be right - he did it, he suffers the consequences -- it remains a fact that these actions, if charged, would result in at least a decade (and likely more) of consequences. Further, even for government loans and grants, there are many crimes that disqualify you from aid. In other words (and you would need to check this), it is possible that, due to stealing the money, he could not even get financial aid for college which is really essential to start his life down the new path. this is not a question about whether what he did was right or wrong. But whether the long term consequences to the child are worth the recovery of the money from the bank ($1,400) is a question only grandmother can answer. And, frankly, I think she already has.
What is your opinion on the outcome of children who have never been spanked because there was never a reason to?
If there was never a reason to spank them, that would say they’ve turned out well due to great parenting or kids who were easy to parent. Parents were probably consistent and clear about expectations, they likely talked and discussed issues with their children rather than spanking and being dramatic about issues. If there were consequences for behaviors, they had other methods than spanking.Some people feel the spankings they received when they were kids were good for them. Some parents think a spanking has to be extremely painful, others feel a tap on the butt is a spanking and one that I read about, clapped his hands behind his children because he couldn’t bare the thought of spanking them. There are a lot of different views about spanking.
What are some of the problems faced by daughters-in-law from their mothers-in-law in India?
My mother in law was really sweet to me before marriage and even after it she always seemed a lovely lady to me until an entire year passed by n I realised how she is as a person. She is amazing at politics, twisting words for her own benefit, making everyone feel how much she does for them and just after a minute you can hear her secretly gossiping about you to her husband.She tells me things like I m dark, I have thin hair, broad shoulders, fat on lower part of my body etc and I wonder if all of this is true were your eyes closed when you chose me for your son. I was married when I was 23 ( that's another story) so I was a kid mentally, I didn't know cooking or managing house but within a year I learned everything so that I can take responsibility of the house and she doesn't have to work as she's old but she never loved me for it. She always find issues in my work and tells me how good her daughter is at everything and I am nothing in front of her. She keeps complaining to my husband that I think your wife doesn't want us to live with you guys when in reality I never even thought about it. She unnecessarily keeps crying till her son comes to know and tells him I behave badly with her and when I ask her to tell specific instance where I behaved badly she has no answer to it. My husband is blind in his parents love and doesn't want to see they manipulate him for their benefit even when he knows the truth.So, I had not gone to see my parents in 2 years of marriage because my in laws had an issue with it. This time I lost my cool, called her up and told her- I always wanted you and papa to live with us bcs I don't think parents should be abandoned when they need you the most and you people want me to leave my parents by not seeing them at all! I am not going to leave them and I am booking my tickets right now and stop me if you can. Yes I am dark, I don't have thick hair or whatever I love myself. You have a problem with it, deal with it. I love your son and I respect both of you but I won't do it at the cost of my self esteem. If you people can live with me in peace it's fine otherwise I am giving divorce to your son.After that, things have improved and nobody really tries to insult me. I think it's really important to speak for yourself about the inconvenience you are facing otherwise people take advantage of your goodness. Don't let anyone take you for granted. Ever.