I want him to last longer in bed! i need help?
Maybe, before getting married, you should have thought about the fact he is a good 20 years older than you and may have a different sexual agenda to you. Sex is always good in the first few months - everything is new and exciting and you are exploring each others bodies, likes, dislikes all new things to you both Sexual energy is at a high But things do become familiar between you and sex develops a pattern or at least usually decreases in time spent doing it and frequency, it becomes more of an intimacy thing than so much of a randy exciting thing I don't think you need to get him pills etc, just talk openly and honestly bout how you feel at your age your libido is most likely alot higher than his so be gentle its nobodys "fault" How well have you really thought this marriage through? Are you willing to compromise on this? Because if this is how he feels sexually and he doesn't want for more you may just have to live with it - he may be happy as larry with your sex life. Ofcourse you can leave or find ways to please yourself but thats up to you. Communication is the key - don't place them blame!! Use sentences that start with "I feel" so you are owning your emotion and not putting the blame on him He should feel more open to discussion and your ideas if he doesn't feel attacked Make sense? Good luck.
How can I make my sex life more interesting?
This list is lifestyle focused because I think that's what undercuts many people's sex lives and leaves less time and space for experimentation.1. Get more sleep, tiredness depletes sexual energy especially in men2. Spend less time together - so that you're excited to see them3. Go to a hotel from time to time if you can afford it - fewer distractions4. Exercise more (both of you) so you feel a little more confident than normal5. Have some 'hooky nooky' ie cancel your plans or take a duvet day together6. Cultivate some kink - no pressure just explore the wonderous internet7. Speak up - say 'I'd like it if you did x' beforehand so it's like planting an idea, rather than throwing a curveball8. Listen - many men are afraid of offending women by describing what they fantasize about. You can open that door a little without swinging it wide open. 9. Flirt - flirting with other people can be a harmless way to feel sexier and 'bring it home' so to speak10. Push your boundaries - as you can see this whole list is a little on the wussy side, but sometimes trying something you assumed you wouldn't like can be surprisingly good.
How can I make my relationship more interesting?
I don't have any kind of experience but i have some Ideas (or my Expectations).Go For movies.Gift her some different Stuffs.(Handmade Gifts,Cooked food by you own)Be some Naughty when you meet him/her.Don't try to be husband/wife,try to be his/her bestie.Tell everything clearly when you are serious and wants to share anything.Care when you feel love,Aware when you are frustrated.Care when he/she feels Frustrated,Don't be Aware when he/she loves you.Spend some time in a room and try to be control each other.Share your past and forget about it.Forgive him/her till the mistakes can be tollrated.Say Sorry everytime when your partner is regretting(Say Sorry to each other).Put your Ego in your pocket and Keep your Love on your priorities.Don't Cross Limits but Be Limitless in other things.Don't hide just tell.Be Loyal.Dont Try to Be "IN",Try To Be "Have".Don't make him/her your property.Give Some Freedom and Have Some too.Que. Love is What,What is Love?Ans. No one Can explain.Don't Ask anyone just Be Loyal,Respect Each Other and each other's Decisions.Ask yourself before going to ask someone else.
I want to try something new in the bedroom, ideas?
There are so many things you can do to spice up your routine! Working for Adam & Eve I've found that when my man and I watch movies before we have sex, we usually have better sex. Often, we try to imitate what they do in the movies. Sometimes that just turns into sex gymnastics, and we have more fun which makes our sex much more interesting! I think changing things up a bit is always good, but you have to know what it is that makes him want to have sex. I'd talk to him about fantasies. What's his, what's yours, how can you both work together to act them out...those sorts of things. Bondage is a really good way to add spice to your bedroom. You can always browse our Kinky Bondage collection to get some basic toys, like the Under the Bed Restraint System. This is perfect for anyone because the harnesses aren't too tight, it fits perfectly under almost any bed, and it hides away so your mother won't see it if she comes around unexpectedly! Plus, you don't need posts in order to handcuff him. If you want more ideas or other suggestions, browse our site with the link below and you can save 25% off any one item!
Hollister themed bedroom?
Very original idea for a room.... lol, For decorations, you could buy one of those signs like they have hanging around at Hollister- "Clothing optional beyond this point" ;- ) For color, i would paint one wall Dark brown, and the rest a beige/light brown/sandy color. These colors would give the room a nice beachey,Hollister feeling, instead of a childish type of "going to the beach" theme. To make the beige walls more interesting, you can add fabulous accents. For instance, in the top corner one beige wall you could paint two life sized,dark brown seagulls (<---just like the Hollister logo) Also you could just plainly write "Hollister" somewhere on one of the beige walls (in the same brown wall color or course) These accents will resemble the one brown wall, as well as give the room a little more.......oompth! **make sure that your floors will be wooden! Another thing you could do is hang up a a surf board like a shelf. This can be done by mounting A surf board to two racks, that are attached to the wall.** Remember to spread the brown all over the room like in pillows,rugs, and more. Leafy plants also resemble palm trees greatly. So remember to include them! -If you are still not sure about your room, just go to Hollister and look around. There you will certainly find ideas&inspiration
How to spice things up in bedroom for husband?
Make some noise. Move. Initiate. Wear something cute. Watch an adult film you both can agree on. Do what you see. Chocolate sauce made just for licking (adult toy store). New positions (the book 'Kama Sutra' is quite a journey) New acts - massage his back with oil, then flip him over and ride him like a rented mule. Wear just jewelry and high heels. Keep them on during. Fondle lick caress suck new areas. Slow dance first, then extended foreplay. Wine, candles, smooth jazz, spiced incense, lots of making out and oral. Diana Krall concert @ Hollywood Bowl, wine, cheese, necking, then home to f*ck like hungry tigers. New locations: couch, kitchen, car, movie theater (baseball stadium is a bad idea). Small amounts of chocolate whipped cream. Strawberry-kiwi lube and a nice new dildo. And so on.