First break up. I need help?
I can't imagine what a 2 year first boyfriend break up feels like. Me and my first boyfriend dated for 9 months, and I thought I was going to die. The only way I could live was by telling myself that we would get back. I think that's what you should do. Tell yourself that he will come back. In the mean time, remember the way you were before you dated him? That girl is still there some where, bring her back to life.
PLEASE HELP how do i break up with my gf?
So yesterday (monday) my friend pressured me into asking her out. So I didn't really think about it and i did.PLEASE DUN LAUGH I DUN KNOW WHAT I WAZ THINK EITHER .Anyways, yea now we r gf and bf and she likes me ALOT and she is very nice. But i dun have ANY feelings 4 her at all. NONE whatsoever So i really want 2 break up because this relationship is just really getting 2 me and i am getting very pressured because i know this isn't right. She is a very nice girl and i dun want 2 hurt her feelings at all. I am so ashamed of myself. So please I need help, how can i break up with her, i really shouldn't have done this and i regret it. But how can i break up with her? thx
How do I help my teen with a breakup?
You don’t interject. You offer to be there for him to talk if he wants in a non-judgmental way. Let him formulate his own way path of dealing with it.This is one of the hardest issues for all parents, You need to let your son process it in his own way and in his own time frame. I see too often parents get overly involved talking about their experience, and telling their child what is right or wrong or what they should do etc. It not about the parents.The bigger lesson is that life is full of relationships which will come and go. Some relationships he will be heavily invested in. Other relationships, the other person might be heavily invested in him. However, all relationships are a great gift which changes us, even the one which end in pain. Help him learn to appreciate all relationships and that his part in them is just as valuable as the other person.
I need help with a serious breakup. How do I breakup with my boyfriend?
You chose to break up. How do you not break into a million pieces? By being confident you have made the right choice. Have you?Having for your own reasons chosen to dump the guy you can either suck it up and recognise that this is what you want, or you can decide that your decision was a mistake and ask him to accept you back. If you choose the latter you might spend some time considering how it felt to him to be dumped by you. If you choose the former you should spend some time recognizing that you yourself have decided to move on and live your life without him. The time to have thought things like "I can't do this" was prior to the breakup. Either stick to your decision, leave the guy alone and focus your attention elsewhere - or recant and hope for his forgiveness.Breaking up and then pining for the guy is likely to hurt both of you. You are saying he is your world? No, he isn't. Because you dumped him. You walked away, you bailed out, he is no longer yours. So. Stop it.
Breakup...PLEASE HELP!!! Please?
I had been dating a man for the past 1 and a half years. I love him very much. I think he loves me. But our relationship has been filled with rocky times, arguments, etc. He just broke up with me and I am heartbroken. I am so lost & sad. I don't know what to do to get him back or what to do to get over him. I have never been so sad in my life. I have even thought about suicide. Can someone please give me some advice? Please keep me in your prayers. THank you
I need help my mom is making me break up with my boyfriend.?
I'm 19 years old and my boyfriend is 20. We've meet in college and been talking to him for 8 months. We didn't expect 100% for to be together fully. We took it slow, we became friends then best friends and the only one who truly know me. We had sex for the 1st time in December (and I was a virgin and 18, he 19). I was really shelter as a child before I went to college. In HS I wasn't allow to go parties, have sleepovers and NO boyfriends. Anyways my mom founded out I was dating Travis because we made it "Facebook official" only because a lot of guys wanted to have sex with me not knowing that I have a BF. My mom called me and asked if he was Jamaican, I responded "Yes" she basically said She hates him. Then she founded about my Ask.fm/IG but she found out I was a virgin and I tried drinking (which I don't like BTW) and now my mom is threatening to cut me off because if I want to go see him in the NYC, I'll get kick out of the house. I broke my phone (Well I didn't) my roommate's abusive boyfriend broke my phone so I couldn't call her and I didn't like my roommate and I used my BF's phone but called privately. Anyways she keeps saying I haven't called her in 5 months. Regardless, I don't like calling her because it's how I am such a failure and picking Travis over her. She tells my that she wish he drop dead, and that he's going to cheat on me and not going to marry me. She really don't see the connection between Travis and myself. We tell each other it's scary how we get along. We really love each other. If anything I messed up, and he still wants to be with me. Also, I met his mom, grandmother and sister and they open up to me with open arms. My family, well only my mother doesn't like him, and she's HATES him because he's Jamaican. He's not even fully Jamaican at that. I really don't know what to do. I want my relationship with Travis, but also with my mother.
How do I help someone going through a breakup?
Hi, whether it's a person you care about or you yourself, I support you in wanting to help this person get through the break up .If the person is sad or unhappy, let him/her make her own choice in how he/she wants to deal with it provided it poses no danger to anyone's well being. If she needs to cry, vent it out in a song or sports, write about it in a diary, it's OK.Hear him or her out if he/she is ready to share. A listening ear and no judgment is a treasure. We may feel at a loss at times as we have no solution or don't have the solution they want (ie. For their ex partner to get back together with them) but it's OK, part of life is about learning how to get through events that don't turn out the way we want.Now if your friend is up to it, treat him/her to his/her favourite activities. It can be a recreational activity (e.g. cycling in a park, chilling out at Starbucks, watching a movie), an animal related activity (e.g. feeding ducks, stroking cats, visiting the zoo), volunteer work (sometimes, being there for others can help us to feel that our lives are still worth living even if we have lost someone we treasure)…Notes of encouragement or support can be a plus (e.g.letters, greeting cards). For some of my girl pals, plushies of their fav animals cheer them up too.
We got back together after break up recently need help with suggestions !?
He broke up with me few weeks ago because of my anger issues then I convinced him really hard that I’m changed and he wants to give another try to relationship to see if that works. But he only replies to my texts randomly and hardly initiate texts or calls anymore not much communication like we used to text for hours everyday very very much. we used to text very much all the time before break up thing but now since he wants to give another try he seems changed n not texting much and not calling at all. I asked him why he isn’t initiating calls and texts he told me that I need to make his parents believe my change convinced them that I really changed because he told them about break up and they blocked me that time and they would call him foolish to accept me back. I told him to hide this until we feel comfortable with each other again. He lives with them. Do you guys think he really want me ? How we supposed to see each other if his parents won’t allow him to see me. He used to stay on weekends with me. It’s not possible anymore. We love each other very much. What should we do now? We can’t meet because of his parents. Ugh.
I need help with my break up, it was a 5 yr relationship...can't seem to move on?
yah.. ur better than this. first of all, see this rationally, not emotionally. he has a new girlfriend, she works at hooters and is a stripper. what kind of values does he have right now? ur in medical school and do not party much??? so if u can tell from this, he wants a party girl. u are not that. and yes, he may have kissed u back last time, or called u a psycho. either way, he is manipulative and not strong enough to tell you No. but then again, many guys aren't =T. so u have to look back at yourself. why do u want him? why do u love him? regardless of how he's treated u? regardless of his drug addictions? ask urself, what kidn of Man do u want? what kind of Man will take care of you? someone who is successful, smart and motivated? someone who respects u and supports u thru med school? or someone who makes u feel 2nd class to a hooter's girl (no offense to her, but a very different personality and situation as you.). don't pine after someone who Doesn't want what you offer. why not wait til u find someone who loves u for ur motivations and goals? so this turns back onto You. u gotta love urself first before u can expect someone to love u. because only then will u be able to wait and watch for someone who you Deserve. if u are insecure or do not feel like u deserve the very Best, then u will settle w/ someone who will treat u like this. i suggest if ur interested to read The Confident Woman by Joyce Meyers. she's a christian writer but it's more of a self reflective type of book. i think whether or not u are religious doesn't matter as much as the values and life lessions she talks about. it helped me a lot during my break up, and now i'm w/ a Wonderful guy... :) its not all attributed to her book, but mostly just looking at myself and what kidn of woman i wanted to be. i'm alot more productive and happy than when i was w/ my ex boyfriend. good luck