Does my sister have anger issues?
So, i will be listening to music, and if i happen to be listening to a song that she has heard before she will yell at me to stop copying her music, and usually she will start cussing like hardcore. Its like she is protective of "her" music. Then also for stupid reasons she will yell at my mom,when my mom was just asking her a question or something. A lot of the time she ends up hitting one of us pretty hard, and then storming away and locking a door. This happens a lot when she doesn't get things her way she'll start cussing a lot. I think that she is bipolar.. but im not sure. SO, does she? also, she not really a child, she is 17. oh yea i forgot to mention my dad.. he is just really quiet, i think he has more issues with being social.. he usually just sits at home. but my sister practically hates him and well she cusses at everyone in the family. but my dad wouldn;t really do anything. He's not the harsh type
My mom has anger issues and it sort of scares me?
Ok so I'm 15 years old and my mom kind of scares me. She has never actually hurt me but she yells at me REALLY loud for stupid reasons and if I try to get away from her by going into my room or something she pulls me back and sometimes it seems like she will hurt me. My dad's a jerk to her and if he really makes her mad than she slaps him. I'm always scared to give my mom bad news or something because I'm afraid of what she will do. I get especially scared to show her a bad test grade because she gets angriest about grades, even if I tell her how hard it is and that I don't understand it. I'm sure that once I can drive things will get better because I will be able to just leave the house. I also feel like her anger rubs off on me because I used to be able to stay calm whenever she yelled at me but I now I yell back at her. My family is going through a lot right now and I don't need to deal with this too. What should I do?
How do you deal with a mother with anger issues?
Over the years, my moms gotten EXTREMELY worse with her temper. She yells at me when I make mistakes, and although I do deserve a lot of her criticism, I seriously think she's out of hand with the things she tells me (for ex. "you're a stupid, crazy b^tch" among other things). She never gives me a moment to explain myself because she believes she'll always be right when she's the one caring for me. I can't even feel bad for the things I do because she's so unbelievably cruel when she punishes me. I also can't show that I am mad, because then I make the whole situation worse. It seems like everyone has to control what they say around her, but she has no problem letting loose on other people. She says the nastiest things to my father and not only does he have to take it, he also has side with her. He even told me he thinks she needs counseling and anger management, but he is too afraid to even tell her that. Right now, we had another fall-out (the third one this month) because I was taking care of my brother who had to do homework, and he was still on his first assignment (since he was also watching television) when she came home along with my father. Then, she blamed me for not looking over him (even though I did twice, and the two times I was checking on him, HE WAS CLEARLY DOING HIS HOMEWORK). She blames it all for me being on the computer, but I was doing my own homework and I also did some house chores around the house. She's angrier at me than she is at him. What the hell do I do? I'm really upset, and I need some advice. How do I keep myself calm around my mother and avoid conflict?
My mom is ALWAYS angry at me ... and we never get along ... help ?
I am 13 & I've been having problems with my mom lately. She's always in a bad mood, and she's always yelling at me for something. I tried talking to her, but she is NOT the type of person who sits down and talks things out. Unlike other moms who just calmly tell their kids the problem, my mom will blow up on me, then refuse to talk to me for a few days. Her behavior has been really bad over the past year. I know she's getting put under a lot of pressure since my dad's drinking problem has worsened over the past few years, plus she works the midnight shift at work. My mom is always screaming and cursing at me if I don't do something right, and sometimes she will hit me if she's really pissed. I feel bad because my mom blames me and she says I'm the one who causes all of the family problems. Several of my aunts and cousins have even said that she needs anger management. I understand that she's probably under alot of stress because of my dad, but I just can't take it anymore.
My dad keeps yelling at my mom and it makes me really upset. How can I help her?
If your father is so angry that you get scared that he will hurt your mother or someone else, you can call the police. Call 911. Tell them your father is yelling at your mother and that you are scared. Be sure that you are in a safe spot to make the call, such as in your room or in a closet where your father does not see or hear you.If nobody is going to get hurt but you feel upset by the yelling, you can talk to your school counsellor for advice on how to deal with it. It is not your job to protect your mother from your dad’s yelling. I know it is upsetting to you. It would be very upsetting to me, too, but this is adult problems and it takes adults to solve them. Get an adult’s help to protect you.
My mom yells at me, what should I do?
My mother has anger management issues. When she s mad she yells and screams, and hit things like the wall or kitchen counter really hard to (in her own words) "stop from beating the sh*t out of [me]". She justifies her yelling by saying she doesn t know any other way to express how she feels. When I was younger(3 to 13) she hit me when I acted up but she doesn t anymore. It gets worse because I stutter when I m scared and her yelling scares me a lot. But when I stutter she gets madder and yells more. I ve had panic attacks and have been scared for my life when she yells. She ll yell at me even when I or my older sister have a friend over. I also realised she doesn t yell at my sister, but she s been screaming at me since I can remember. When I was in 6th grade(11 ys/o) she was yelling at me and grabbed my throat, I hadn t been more scared for my life. In 7th grade(12 ys/o) she told me I always ruin everything for everyone around me, she still says this to me though. I can t move out because I m 15, but I don t know what to do. I can t tell her I think it s bad because she ll get mad and think I m trying to tell her how to parent. I m scared she s going to break me and turn me into a broken adult. I already feel like I deserve to be hit and yelled at when by other people I mess up. I m desperate and don t know what to do.
My girlfriend gets very angry with me, yells cruel things, punches me, and throws things-is this normal?
More importantly, do you think that she has an anger problem? Is it ever really OK to behave that way, I mean, even if I do something to upset her, is physical violence and verbal abuse justified? I really love her a lot, but she doesn't think that there is a problem. One moment she will be telling me how much she loves me and how lucky she is to be with me-that I am the best thing that has ever happened to her, and the next moment she is screaming at me, telling me that I am a "piece of ****" and a terrible human being. She hasn't been eating or sleeping well lately, which I think has been contributing to it. I made her breakfast this morning, and she would not eat it. I'm am really worried for her health, so I got angry and called her an idiot for not eating. That's when she started to throw things at me, punch me, and slam me against the wall. She took some stuff with her and said she wasn't coming home tonight. I don't know what to do anymore...