Financially broke and need some advice?
Hi: Some really, really good ideas here. I'll just chip in with, if your husband works basically, sounds like sales or unsteady work. May be he needs more work. Could register with a temp. That got me work when I needed it. If temps don't come through, you register with another. May be take on part-time as an additional source of income. Save all your receipts and keep a diary of your expenses. Don't know your husband's occupation, but he may have employee business expenses that are only partially reimbursed or not reimbursed. Start a business. If you have a loss the first 3 years or 3 or first 5 years, does not raise eyebrows with the IRS. And, it wipes out AMT which is a possibility if your husband works 2 jobs.
I'm 30, depressed, unemployed, have no fun in life and basically can't stop thinking life will be over soon. Since 30 is really a grown up age - what is your best advice about what to do with my life?
I am sorry if this sounds simple. But sitting here at nearly 60, still coping with the depression I had before I was a teen I suggest this:The most important thing you can do is work to expand your social network. Find the friends who can tolerate someone that has ‘down’ days or weeks or months. There are people that are okay if you aren’t cheerful. But, you do have something to offer!I don’t know much about you. But I do know that one of the biggest problems a depressed person can have is loneliness. It means that what few interests you have are more likely to be shared with some who you know and trust.I speak from some experience. I wish I had been able to keep up my social network over the past few decades. Even though I have friends I have had for 50+ years with many I have known for 30+ years, many have moved on in life and I am only in touch via social media. Other health issues other than the depression and anxiety that I suffer were a handicap. I couldn’t keep getting out to be with my friends and I couldn’t keep making new friends.HOWEVER! I am trying new things. I joined a writer’s group. I made 5 good friends through it. They are also invaluable when it comes to proofreading my writing.It can be done! Even at nearly 60.When I was 30, I think I wish someone would have pushed me a bit more to maintaining my social networks.If you have those social networks, then being able to build trade and employment networks will become second nature to you. You will be able to stretch what skills you have and make use of them. You will know how to walk up to a potential employer and say, “Hello. Are you hiring?” Potentially followed up with, “Do you know of anyone that might be hiring?”Good luck! Coping with long term depression isn’t easy, but it is possible. It is easier with the help of your friends!
When I finger myself I basically pee out of my vagina... It like comes out and gets all over everything.?
Sorry for the TMI but I really need some advice. Where is the best place to finger myself so I don't make a mess. And how do I do it so it feels really good?
Miserable 16 year old? Advice please?
I'm 16 years old, I'm fat and ugly. No boys like me. I don't have much friends only about 3. My dad left when I was 2 so he doesn't care obviously. My mom gives me everything I want basically, I got a car for my birthday, I have a iPhone4 like I wanted just really everything I ask I get. But, I'm not happy. I'm so depressed, and miserable I don't ever feel like doing anything. I have such a low self esteem and really insecure but I mean what fat person isn't? Sometimes when me and my mom get in arguments she always calls me fat and stupid. All of my family is always making jokes about my weight knowing how I feel about it. I tried losing weight didn't work out all that well. Sometimes I just feel like taking all the pills that are in the cabinet so I don't have to deal with this anymore. I don't think anyone would care much. just like my mom and sister and aunt. But that's it. It wouldn't really matter. It'd be for the better anyway, my mom wouldn't have to deal with how ungrateful she thinks I am. I wouldn't have to deal with school and everyone making fun of my weight, and I can't shop at any good stores because they don't look cute on me because how fat I am. I know I need help but I don't know where to get it from? I don't wanna talk to my mom about it because me and her don't really have a good relationship like I love her and all that but we can't really talk. My older sister just thinks I'm some spoiled brat same with everyone else in my family. What should I do?! ]]]';
Please help me out and give me all types of advice and tips you have for me?
So, I'm looking to lose weight. I've always been curvy and therefore I tend to look bigger than most girls, because I've got a hourglass shape. Mostly, I'm looking to get fit and shed the extra pounds I've been getting since Thanksgiving last year. Basically, I need dieting tips? I'm not a vegetarian but I'm leaning towards becoming one because it seems much more healthier, but I will take pretty much any diet you guys may have. I'd like something that has easy meals to cook, I go to school and barely have time to cook myself big foods so quick, easy things are good for me. If anyone knows of a site where I can get a dietplan for free than that would be awesome. I have about three months to get fit again, so yeah. And second, EXERCISE TIPS PLEASE. I don't the time or money for a gym subscription so I have to exercise at home. I need to tone my whole body, everything. Even fingers if that were possible haha. So, routines? Workouts? Anything that works. Just your best tips overall would be highly appreciated.