Does CPS realize the mental strain they can put on teens?
They either don't know or don't care. For reasons I've come to know about over the past five years, I'll tell you hands down that it's the latter. They couldn't care less about what they do when they tear a family apart, and it's the teens that suffer most of all.If your family is truly unbearable, dangerous or violent, then get a government funded lawyer, and try to get a judge to emancipate you.You do not want to have anything to do with cps.They almost drive me to suicide and madeMy daughter so anxious she began pulling her hair out! She's 2.So, run, as fast as you can, in any direction but theirs.If you need specific help, please message me, I'll do all I can.Take care
How do you deal with emotionally unintelligent parent and siblings?
My mother passed away when I was 10, and from that point, my siblings and I were brought up by my dad. He was very caring, and worked hard and made sure we were taken care of, but he is very low on emotional intelligence. Pretty much all his relationships with people are strained one way or the other. Since he was our dad and a caring parent, he was a role model for us kids. We loved and respected him a lot. But as we all grew up and started living our lives, we realized that to some extent, we have all grown up to be somewhat emotionally challenged. With that realization, we can now look back and see how many of our dad's problems were his own doing, due to his emotionally challenged personality. This aspect of his personality is still causing some issues to him and our families. Among all the siblings, I am the only one who has tried hard to get to the bottom of all these issues. I have read extensively and tried to heal myself and become more emotionally intelligent. But I am having a hard time trying to help others including my dad. I am looking forward to responses from people who can either relate to this or have an insight into problems like this. What are some ways to motivate people to become aware and work on their emotional intelligence?
Can doing this make my parents lose custody of me?
Guess what? All parents are like that! Sounds like you piss them off in some way; I bet your parents version of events is much different! Stop thinking of yourself as a victim. I doubt that your dad slaps you, if he did, you would have talked about violence instead of giving us a long, rambling story about going out to eat. What did you say or do? I don't think you're a victim of child abuse, you probably did or said something bratty. If you want your parents to lose custody, go ahead and call CPS. That will embarrass your parents and further strain the relationship with them. Don't cry cuz you didn't get your Happy Meal.
I’m scared of my mom. Something is wrong. What do I do?
Listen man, I’m asian and my mum is much crazy than that. (use to atleast). Having an emotion problem doesnt always mean she has a disorder. Sometimes all these people need is someone to tell them how to control those burst of feelings. Maybe she’s going through some things you arent aware about or maybe you are the headache causing all this. Either way, find the root problem and fix it. You can’t just judge a person on the height of their crazy.If I saw someone frantically crying in the street and laughing at the same time for one I cant just be like, “that bish needs to go to a mental hospital, she’s having a mental break down.” I don’t know where or how she got to that or what happen so I cant.Just like I cant just tell you your mum is mental. You know your situation better than anyone else here. Again, find what’s triggering the problem and from then figure out whats that problem and fix it.if she’s really mental I think you’d know. She wont need trigger words like hey mum your useless ill go to my dad now. She’ll trigger herself from memory or so..but I’m not a doctor so best to go see one.
I am committing Suicide tonight...?
I have been depressed about life for a very long time.I am 42 and have dealt with depression and pain ever since I can remember.My wife is gone and I can't go through this sh*t again.To night I am committing suicide so I won't have to deal with hurt,loss or pain anymore.I am sick of it.I have crushed many bottles of pills into power form to hit my blood stream faster.I am going to drink alcohol and some liquor to help the effect. I am 42 and my wife,my best friend is done with me.I have no place to go,no friends.I blame nobody but I have decided this is what I want now.Nobody really wants to die,we just get tired of the same thing life throws at us and makes us turn to darkness. There is a bad storm coming and I wanna listen to it one more time.I wish it would kill me but im not that lucky.I love my wife but I cant do this anymore.I really hope people understand how sometimes,nothing is better than what u have in front of your face.I am not a bad person,I have a big heart but I have so many mental problems stacked against me and I cant deal with this anymore. I dont want help,I just wanna go away...far away. I hope I do this right so I dont have to fail at something ever again. I wish I had more E&J though.I just want to fall asleep and that's it. I tried so hard to wait for my mom to leave this world before taking my own life but I can't do that and I hate myself for that and I am so sorry for this mom. Please undersand,I just cant anymore,ya know? There is so much that I wanna say but in the end what I say will never ever be enough... Sometimes death is the right answer...for a select few of us.