I really need some help! I'm on the edge.?
I'm sorry to hear about all that you're going through. It sounds like a lot of your problems carried from childhood into adulthood. No child should grow up in a party house with hundreds of people. It's just plain unhealthy. A child needs caring, nurturing, disciplining, and loving and they don't get that in a party house. Child Protective Services was needed in your home. It's a shame you never knew your father and that's not your fault, but you'll have to get past that. There's nothing anyone can say that will fix you. It's very commendable you got away from street drugs, but it doesn't stop there (as I'm sure you've found out). You need to start working on yourself step by step and learn accountability and responsibility and apply it to your life. You also need a healing process that includes mentoring, learning, growing, and maturing for things to get better and that takes time. You can start by contacting the National Drug Information Treatment and Referral Hotline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) for information, support, treatment options and referrals to local rehab centers for any drug or alcohol problems. It operates 24 hours, seven days a week (www.allaboutcounseling.com/crisis_hotli... Next, you need to get your girlfriend out of your life. With all you have to deal with, the last thing you need is a gf to worry about. If she's the one now, then she'll be the one later. If she can't understand that, then she is not the one. If you're only 26 and she's of age, then she can't be but so much younger than you. So, those years shouldn't make that much of a difference. This girl is into the things you're getting away from. That leaves you with a choice to make: worry about your gf or let her go and worry about yourself. You need a 12 step program. You also need mentoring from a man who's life story is similiar to yours and support from others who've experienced what you're going through. You will find this in support groups. Another thing that helps is reaching out to others one on one through volunteering. This may sound corny, but don't forget about Jesus Christ. He cares and many churches now offers Christ centered recovery help that has helped so many people move one with their lives in productive ways. This may not be what you want to hear, but this is a realistic answer. You've tried it the other way, now please give this way a fair chance. It works.
How can i become a better more productive person?
My life is not going the way i want it to i am struggling to graduate from high school i am going to get laid off and i feel like all i do is watch tv i need to find out how to motivate myself and to step away from the tv. honestly not being a morning person/not having a set schedule and watching tv has ruined me life so far can anyone help me with some advice tips support anything?
Do you think anger is productive or non-productive?
I would have to agree with your husband;that said,it's important to differentiate between anger and resentment. anger is a normal human reaction to an affront,emotional or physical.resentment is when I choose to RE feel that anger over and over again.(yes sometimes I am that selfdestructive,lol) I can give you an example of anger being productive,I was terrified of the ocean because of a childhood near-drowning incident;I was married to a man who loved to snorkle and scuba dive.he wanted a dive buddy,and I couldn't get [past my fear.He finally picked a fight with me about being a wimp. well,once he got me mad,I was able to try it just to "show that jerk", and once I got my head under the surface of the water,I was COMPLETELY hooked.I was mad at him for being mean,but I have always also been grateful that he goaded me into facing that fear.the rewards were amazing.
How can I utilize my phone to make myself more productive and ultimately just get my life together?
Ok let us have 360 view on utilizing our smartphone more productive.First of all my English is not so good , so please forgive for the little mistakes.Let us back to the topicWhat about learning a new language ?Try Duolingo.Being healthy is not at all a bad thing. Well in that case playstore will help you with plenty of apps.Want to acquire knowledge and wisdom , watch TED where you can expand your horizon.Its time for building up a good carrier , don't worry LinkedIn is here.I know its really hard to know about current affairs in the hectic life. Try InstaNews.Tired of handling your documents , lets put it in DigiLocker. Don't worry it will be safe there.Lack motivation , you just need to try some amazing apps from Playstore.These are some of the simple tips for using smartphones productively.You may know many other applications which helps to make a better change. Comment it , will be helpfull….!!
How can I best be productive in every moment of the day?
Thanks for a2a, Alex. Start the day by thanking for getting up in good health and mood. Have a warm bath. Take healthy breakfast.Note down days activities that you expect and intend. This should be made a habit. Every day, before start, a five-minute exercise will provide you with a written plan. Jot down time allocation, and possibly time duration with from and to. YOU MAY HAVE TWO OR THREE JOBS RUNNING IN PARALLEL IF YOU HAVE THE CAPABILITY AND CAPACITY.Keep an eye on time saving. Foremost is that time wastage should be bare minimum. At times, rid yourself of distractions. Keep correcting and upgrading what you have written for the day. In case priority drops for a certain task, that may be relegated to evening or even next day.After the day is over, see what percentage of works have successfully been accomplished. You will see that as days pass by, average of improvement will increase with a margin of a few days being lower but more pulling up with higher percentage performance.Hope this helps.
How do I get help for depression/self-mutilation with no health insurance?
Find a psychologist who uses a sliding scale for payments. It will be worth the money if you can change this one destructive behavior.Go to the first session and tell him that you have this one issue that you need to work on, but you have limited resources (we all do now). That way you can concentrate on getting it fixed quicker.You can try calling your county mental health association for information . Maybe there are free clinics in your area.