I'm 16, and I never leave the house?
I just turned 16, and recently I've started to realize that I really don't have a life.... I mean, I hang out with like one friend and go shopping or go over to their house sometimes, but that's like MAYBE once a month. And aside from school and my dance class one a week, I really don't get out of the house too often unless it's to go run errands with my mom or something.... It's not like I'm super weird or creepy or ugly. Lots of people say I'm really pretty. It's just that often times, I'd just rather be by myself, rather than trying to make people think I'm cool and fun. It's not that I never want to go out tho. People just never ask me anymore, so it's just started to become my lifestyle, and I haven't done anything genuinely fun in so long..... I'm also really shy and self conscious, so usually, going out to parties and crowded places just annoys me, because I'm constantly worried about how I look, and trying to find people to talk to, because I honestly don't have many friends anymore. My two best friends moved 2 years ago in the same summer. Often times, I just can't be myself around many people (mostly popular people, because I feel like they're quickest to judge), so it's just a pain for me to even go out. It's just not fun for me anymore. I understand that I'm a teenager, and I should be going out and having fun, but I just can't. It's become something I SHOULD do, not something I WANT to do, which it should be, which just bothers me even more. This isn't how I'm supposed to be, I don't even know why I'm like this. I haven't always been this way. I'm pretty sure it has something to do with how shy and awkward and self conscious I am. I'm starting to really hate myself.
I need an excuse to get out of my house for 30-45 min?
Go to a friend's house to pick up a book you loaned them.
Why I feel I need to get out of my house? Why am I afraid of my people?
The very basic reason is that , you want to make perception among people that you are simple ,single,studious, shy and a good boy,which what people think that such personality is very rare and a ideal one and people began to follow them (old attitude).But this does not actually work,even in your family .Say ,suppose why some movies make tons of money?It is due to active script ,heroic punch,actions ,dhamaka.etcJust similar is the case, audience will enjoy your company only when you are active ,different from others and yet cool.You just don't wear mask of other ,that's create difficulty because you can't act longer and soon you feel bored . In this way you create barriers among your family member.My purpose is to say that ,just go original and make people laugh at you. This make you happy and you will no longer be afraid of your people
I need to get my daughter's boyfriend out of my house?
My daughter is the most beautiful and polite nineteen year old you could ever meet. The second you come up to her you'll love her. She still lives with me, and so does her fiance. He's the total oppisite of her, though. He does drugs, he doesn't really love her, and he always yells at her and argues with both of us. I'd really love to get him out of my house, and let my daughter live her life without her verbally abusive boyfriend running her life. I've tried breaking them up (even though it's not my boyfriend) but I'd never want to see my daughter get hurt. Please help.
Need an excuse to get out of a sleepover at a friends house!!?
my friend invited me to a sleepover, and i couldnt think of any excuse on the spot so i had to say yes. i really dont want to go because i really dont like her parents! tey are really forward and rude and nosy, and i cant tell my friend that!! my mum really doesnt want me to go either, and my friend only just told me times and stuff and its tonight, which should help to come up with an excuse. i cant use feeling sick, or doctors/dentist appointment. and my friend is sort of nosy too so i cant just say that i cant make it and not give an excuse. please HELP!!!
How can I get my adult son to move out of my house?
I understand this is a very difficult situation. You don't want your son to hate you, yet you also dont' want to be taken advantage of. You do need to come up with two contracts. One for being a room mate, and the other with a formal date he needs to move out by. He gets to choose which contract he wants. Go get your signature notarized at the your bank to make it look more official. IF he chooses to stay as a room mate he needs to pay rent and he needs to pay YOU a cleaning fee of XX$ (whatever) per week, and if he refuses, you very very sweetly give him written notice of eviction, done through the proper legal channels. He may be depressed. He may be entitled and using you. You can try talking to him about this, to HELP him develop a move out plan. You have to be very DIRECT. If he still refuses to do what you ask, you need to make life VERY uncomfortable for him. Do not keep toilet paper in the bathroom (hide it in your room) Make sure your bedroom door has a new knob with key or passcode lock. Also buy almost NO food. Keep whatever food you can in your bedroom, hidden. Go out to eat more - buy inexpensive takeout for YOURSELF and don't give in. Hide the laundry detergent in your bedroom. Then call your internet provider and have it turned off for a short time. NO cable TV or internet will drive him crazy. Then remove the bedroom door from his bedroom and place it inside your bedroom or (better yet) give it to your neighbor / friend to hide in their garage and don't tell him where it is! Take the blinds off his bedroom window. Hide them. Tell him you will return these items when he starts paying rent.
My child keeps getting out of my house. I need help!?
I have a two year old little girl that keeps getting out of the house. We have a dead bolt on the front door, and have the back door to where she can't get out any more. The problem is the front door. She has learned how to put the key in the dead bolt, and unlock it. Even AFTER we've taken it out and put it on the refrigerator. I'm stumped as to what to do. We don't have a lot of money right now because we're still paying deposits for this house, (we moved in last month). So I can't go spend 50+ dollars on "childproofing" my house. I've done what I can with the cabinets, and everything else. I'm just really worried because I don't want her getting out, and getting ran over or getting taken or falling into the creek that's beside my house. Please if any of you out there can help me out. Give me suggestions please. This is really freaking me out.
I want to get out my house but I don't have anyone to support me. What should I do? I'm a 17-year-old girl.
Take the ASVAB and, assuming you do well and have no health issues, try to join the Air Force or Coast Guard.During the Spring of the year of my high school graduation, I took the ASVAB, scored well, and eventually enlisted in the US Army under the Delayed Entry program.By September, following my high school graduation and before I turned 18, I swore in and was off to Basic Training at Ft. Jackson in Columbia South Carolina.Following Basic Training, I came back home for a month then went to Ft. Gordon in Augusta Georgia for 19 weeks of additional technical training. We had the weekends off during that time and base also offered breakfast at midnight. Life was not bad.Before completion of that second phase of training, I received orders to go to Corozal Panama along with dozen or so of my phase two classmates.Since I had a technical job I worked in an air conditioned secure facility covering day, swings, and night shifts. Swing shift was the best since you had to be at work by 2 or 3 in the afternoon then you were off by 10 or 11; which meant you could enjoy some night life without having to wake up extra early the next morning.After a year or so, I went home for Christmas for a month then came back to the enlistment NCO providing me some reenlistment options; overseas and in the states. I chose the Presidio of San Francisco.At the Presidio, I worked alongside civilians and military personnel. I always had the weekends off. After a couple years I was given orders to go to NATO; specifically to Birkenfield Germany; however, I declined the assignment so I was forced to leave the Army by September of that year; which was about six years from the time I originally enlisted.I left the Army as a married man and lived in San Francisco for a few years where I started my new life as a civilian.Although my short military career was great, not everyone enjoys US Military life; but it’s an option to consider; just try to be wise.