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I Need To Start Looking For More Friends/a New Bestfriend

I like girl A. We are very good friends. A's best friend B likes me. Also, A likes a guy C who is my best bro and C likes another girl D who is in a relationship with another guy. What should we do?

You can apply Bipartite Matching algorithm of Graph Theory. All you have to do is:Put all girls as vertices (a's) in Part A, and boys as vertices (b's) in Part B.Draw an edge between vertex a to vertex b if a likes b.It will be a bipartite graph (there are no edges within vertices of Part A, and same for Part B) unless your friends are not straight.Then find maximum matching for this bipartite graph. (refer this link Maximum Bipartite Matching - GeeksforGeeks)You will get maximum matching as output and the matched edges will be the pairs who should be together.You can apply weighted bipartite matching algorithm if you know how much they love/like each other. In that case, assign weights according to their amount of love. and repeat step 4 and 5.Thanks for asking this question. Finally I have found a real life problem which can be solved by what Prof Panda has been teaching us for 2-3 years.P.S. I can provide you code for both weighted and unweighted maximum bipartite matching which I made for my project.

How do I make friends at my new school?

This happened to me alot. Because my father is in Army, we have to change our stations every 3–4 year, new schools, new teachers, new friends. I always felt like being in zoo, so many staring eyes.Well what I did on my first day, follows:Sit at front-most seats (2–3 days)It will make you visible to everyone in class.Participate actively in discussionsWhen you join a new class, not only you but everyone is hesitant but curious to know. Ask teacher questions (related to topic) or answer them when asked.Caution! Don't become over effecient.Observe everyone and analyze themPay attention to class mates when they speak, one can learn alot by speech. From there you will know everyone. Each class has same set of nerds, machos, spoiled, strugglers e.t.c. Get to know their norms like: if they shake hand when they meet or simple “hi” is enough.Try to talk, about schedule, weather e.t.cOur favourite subject used to be mimicking our teachers or sports-period or Imran Khan.Show your presenceDuring free-period sit behind groups, understand the nature of group and positions of its people. During recess sit alone but in a place where you are accessible.Become teachers petIt is upto you. If you win teacher’s attention, then no bully can harm you. You can offer teacher to pick his/her bundle of books, participate when teachers ask, bring up good ideas. (No need to become a nerd)Extra-curricular activitiesThese activities are really helpful when you want to increase periphery of friends. It will give you fame but in good manner. Participate in debates, quizzez, sports, music-galas, or even morning assemblies.Remember friends you make here won't be your besties, you have few besties (usually childhood besties). Though your interest might overlap, but interest changes overtime. Respect everyone and in turn you will be respected.Don't get manipulated, understand everyone’s motive.First 1–2 weeks would be a little awkward, stay confident, reflexive, articulate, humorous and you will fit in.Best of luckSource: Google

Best friends: a Leo and a Cancer?

You're not her best friend. You're more concerned about her liking you, her opening up to you, her caring about you, than you are about her. Perhaps she doesn't feel comfortable enough with you to share herself with you. Perhaps you are a person who talks about other people or who seems to open so she is concerned that you may let slip something very personal and private she tells you. A Cancer is loyal, so you can trust that she will take what you tell her to the grave, but maybe she can't say same about you. There is always a reason why Caner withdraws or chooses not to share themselves. As far as her "caring about you" goes, again, it's not all about you. She told you she doesn't want to share some things, you pushed her again about it, and so she is blocking you out. When its no with a Cancer, its no. You pushed, and she let you know that you're not going to get your way on that one.

Cancer and Leo can be friends as long as there is mutual respect for boundaries and equal give and take. Stop keeping score and enjoy the fact that you've got a good friend who listens to what you have to say. When and if she feels comfortable, she will open up as well. Stop fishing for it and she may surprise you. I am sure there are many many interests you have in common that you can discuss....her personal life doesn't need to be on the table for your viewing pleasure all the time. Cancers don't have a habit of lying, but we will self protect when we don't trust someone.

Is entertaining friends a must or a leisure?don't you think that entertaining friends is a waste of time &mone

If you have the money, throw a party once in a blue moon. It is not mandantory to entertain your friends (unless you're part of some upper crust blue blood family, then it's a regretable chore). Never look at your friends as a waste of time. Instead of doing something at your home, if/when you feel like getting a small party going, go to a respectable club.

Do you care about the number of friends a person has on facebook?

Couldn't care a hoot if I have less friends on Facebook than others. Likewise, I don't give a hoot about how many friends others have either.

Same as in real life. I would rather have one good friend than 20 not so good ones.

How to move to a new group of friends..?

Okay so I kinda got into this fight thing with my other friends a few weeks before school ended and once I thought about it they weren't really the kind of friends i liked/wanted. So it's summer time now and i'm starting 8th grade next year and I think I just want to start over with a new group of friends/clique, but i don't know how to switch into a different group because all the groups were kinda made in 7th grade. I'm a very shy person, with not much self confidence which I plan on changing a bit to help with this situation and yeah. I want to know how I can be a part of a new group of friends and how to find myself with that....

thank you.....

Do you ever give ex-best friends a second chance?

When dealing with people, either you accept them as they are or you don't accept them at all. Everyone makes mistakes, but few people ask sincerely for forgiveness for what they have done. The Bible instructs us to forgive, but it DOES NOT say to forgive and forget. It DOES however instruct us to FORGET those things which are behind us. This means to not harp on things from the past that are hindering us from going forward and enjoying the future.

Four years ago, you and your girlfriend were children. Now you are closer to mature adults. Yes, forgive her. It sounds like she needs a friend. And she chose you. That must really say something reputable about your character. You said that you told her things that she needed to know to avoid getting hurt years ago. Look at her now. She knows the information and is still is getting used.

Forgive her. She needs a friend.

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