Should I go on holiday with my family or girlfriend?
Okay, let me get this straight. Your girlfriend breaks up with you, for being with your family? I would break up with her immediately. Seriously. If your girlfriend asks you to choose her over your family, she's not worth it. Tell her, if she thinks she's worth more than family, she's a bad person. Because she is. Family comes first, remember that. You can have plenty girlfriends during life, and if she wants to be a part of it, she can be. But if she doesn't want to, let you have your family.
My girlfriend and I are going on a holiday and our parents won't let us go away together until we're married. Our parents talk to each other and are on good talking terms, how do I get them not to find out?
If your parents are not letting you do something, you are under 18 and are minors.If you are adults, you go and do what you want. They don’t let or not let you do something. You make your own decisions.If you don’t want to rub your parents’ noses in the fact that you two are going away together and screwing like rabbits when you get to the hotel, tell them that one of you is going to Michigan and the other is going to Texas, or wherever and leave a day apart. Hmmm..scratch that, maybe one to San Diego, the other to Tampa and just take selfies on the beach without the other person in any of the pictures you send home. The beaches in Tampa and San Diego look pretty much the same. Just make sure that if the two of you claim to be going to different places, they look similar enough that you won’t be trying to explain why there are palm trees in Alaska.
My girlfriend is going on holiday with several guys (and girls) sleeping in in the same room. Am I wrong to feel insecure?
No, you are not. Feeling insecure is like feeling jealous when someone gets something you always wanted. It is a feeling all humans possess and certainly you are human and hence you feel insecure. I am in a long distance relationship and insecurity is a part of our everyday struggle.It doesn't make you good or bad. No feeling is right or wrong. It is a feeling and you can't stop feeling something.What makes you good/bad is how you react or deal with this. If you react with immaturity and stop her from going with her friends, yes that makes the feeling wrong, that makes you wrong. Just make peace with the fact that your insecurities will exist but then your trust will too. Act upon your trust and not your insecurity. Taking a mature decision is what is going to determine if you are good/bad
My girlfriend is going away for two weeks and I'm worried about cheating. How do I get over this?
If you are worried that you will cheat while she is away, it must be some natural instincts of yours so I would say give in and she will give up. One of these days you will learn not to follow your natural animal instincts.Alternately, if you are worried of her cheating, then don't. Evolutionaryly speaking, the fairer sex can find a male at the drop of a hat but choose to almost always choose the right one. Be glad you are that one. Give all the love you can give. If at all, in future, you two are not tegether for whatever reason, your regret should not be that you did not give your best in this relationship. Keep your insecurity to your self. Observe the source of your anxiety in everyday situations and work on reducing that. Do not discuss with her. You will only be planting an unnecessary bug and clouding her mind. Know that you are “the man” when you trust her completely.
I'm worried my girlfriend will cheat on me on holiday?
Hey man, just wanted to say congrats on your first serious relationship. I wouldn't worry about it too much, you guys are both young, and as fixed as you may feel right now, neither of you understand what you want out of life yet. I say, don't worry too much. Try not to think about it. Whatever happens, happens. I wouldn't get too worried about what she does. If you're in a relationship with someone, it means you trust them. In this world, we trust each other on different levels. Sometimes the people we trust hurt us, sometimes they don't. It's part of growing up. On a side note, I know several girls that say that their period changes/isn't as bad after using the pill. Anyways, go out there, have fun, don't think about it. Desire causes suffering. If you love some out, set them free, if you truly love someone, then that will also set you free. “The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.” ― Bob Marley
Should I let my girlfriend go on holiday with a gay guy? Please help.?
My girlfriend is friends with a gay guy, before we were dating they went away together. She wants to do the same, and already has it booked. I'm totally not ok with it. I don't mind them been friends but going away together is too far in my opinion. I know they will be sharing the same room, maybe even the same bed. They kiss regular as friends. Hang out together, and text all the time. She thinks all this is totally acceptable because he's gay. I'm worried if I tell her how I feel, we will end up breaking up because the only outcome I think is best is that she didn't go away with him. Do I have a right to feel this way? How can I stop it? Should my girlfriend be showing me more respect to our relationship? Please help, it's all I think about. And the holiday is just a few months away.
My girlfriend is going on a vacation, what should i do!?
have phone sex
My girlfriend is going out with a male friend of hers for two days on a small vacation. It is just the two of them and there will be drinking. Should I be worried?
Don't listen too these crazy liberals that think you can let your woman go on vacation with another man and say “well either you trust her or you don't” that's nonsense.Your woman is supposed to respect you and your relationship, she isn't supposed to unnecessarily create situations where you have to worry and stress about what she is doing.This is why women get angry if you go out with your boys to the club, shut off your phone and don't come home until 11am the next day it's disrespectful all of thoughts and stress she going through the whole night is not cool.Both of you have a obligation to each other to make each other feel secure in the relationship.Second off, what do her intentions matter? How many women ended up in a man's bed they didn't intend on sleeping with? Especially when there is drinks and drugs involved.Don't try to be someone else, be yourself and if being yourself means that you are not comfortable with her chillin with another dude all weekend than tell her that ain't happening.If she goes anyway, then that's okay. Because if spending the weekend with another man is more important than fixing what you have together the whole thing was a joke from day one anyway.These women will try you and see if you’re soft, don't let people convince you to live with things you can't put up with.
Should I feel comfortable with my girlfriend going on vacation with her single male friend?
In my experience, there are two kinds of people in this world: people who believe that men and women can never be friends, and when a man and a woman are together it is always about sex; and people who believe that men and women--even men and women who fancy each other--can be friends and spend time together without sex.People in the first group also often go on to say that women are basically helpless and unable to assert boundaries. If a man wants to have sex am with a woman and they are together, sex will happen. Doesn't matter what the woman wants, doesn't matter if the woman says no, sex will happen. Some of those people even seem to think that all women who say they don't want sex are all liars. After all, if sex always always always happens when men and women are alone together, then the only reason a woman would be alone with a man is she wants to fuck him, right? Right? If she says otherwise she must be a liar! Where there's smoke there's fire!Most of the people who have answered so far are in the first group. I am in the second. I believe men and women can be alone together without fucking, even if one of them fancies the other or if they fancy each other.It doesn't matter what you should feel. Feelings don't listen to should. It seems as if you do feel uncomfortable else you wouldn't be asking.Will she cheat on you? We don't know, we don't know her.Either she is trustworthy or she is not. If she trustworthy, she will not cheat on you on this trip. If she is not trustworthy, it makes no difference if she goes on this trip or not--at some point she will cheat on you.Better to find out now, not five or ten or twenty years down the road, seems to me.
Is my girlfriend wrong for going on vacation without me?
My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. I have children form my previous marriage that I pay child support on. I also like to spoil my kids with other things such as toys, movies, I pads, expensive birthday parties, eating out where they want to, etc and have accumulated some debt from this. I have gone on a couple of vacations so far with my girlfriend but she has paid my way since I was behind on bills. However she booked a vacation by herself next month and is meeting friends on this trip. She invited me and said she would love me to go but couldn't afford to pay for both of us again. I think it's selfish of her to do this and I do not like the idea of her going on vacation without me and think she's wrong for doing this. She says I'm making a big deal out of nothing. Is she wrong for going without me? She is childless so does not understand what it's like to have bills like I do.