Sometimes I just don't want to talk to anyone?
Alone time is good. You need alone time. I've found most people totally irritating in one way or another, when they are not lying or cheating or whining about some stupid crap, they'll try to get you involved in some nonsense. You live then you die, enjoy what time you have as much as you can, with or without people.
What are some things you should never talk about with anyone?
People that are close to you - Unless it is something good avoid talking about them. Everyone makes mistakes, but forcing your negative point onto the person you are talking to is neither fair to them nor the person you are talking about. Let them form their own mind about them.Sex life - What you do in bed is your deal. Even if your partner is totally okay with talking about it you still need the person you are talking to and their partner to be okay with talking about it too. It’s better to just avoid it at that point.Others private lives - Just because someone told you about their past, about what they did or about what is going on their life does not mean you are free to use that information however you want. What is shared in private should stay in private.Other than that nothing comes to mind.I know a lot of people say do not talk about money, politics or religion, and they are right not talk to about it with everyone but that doesn’t mean they should never talk about it.MONEYYou should talk about money with your partner and you should talk about money with your family!Make sure everyone is on the same page and make money exciting again, not something evil!POLITICSOf course you should talk politics with people!It’s always good to see the other side so that you are not blinded by one side of the situation.Only when you know both sides of the coin can you make an informed decision!RELIGIONReligion should be a bit more taboo than politics but not entirely.Everyone has their own beliefs and as long as you accept that fact you might learn something and might get a new, better belief that you can add to yours!Besides, it’s always interesting to see what drives people.Most things can be talked about, it’s just about allowing everyone else to believe whatever they want… for better or for worse.
Why don't I feel like talking to anyone?
I don't know whether you had this issue all through your life till now or this is a recent change you observed in yourself. I will tell you few possible reasons along with some solutions. I hope it helps you. If it is because you are hurt, sad or depressed about anything then you need to be serious about it. If there is something that is making you sad talk about it. Share it with your close friend or family. There is certainly a solution for everything, trust me.If this is a habit from childhood then you are probably an introvert. Well, this was the situation with me only. And as I grew up I found out that I had inferiority complex kind of thing. My mind use to unnecessarily compare me with others and I use to feel they are far better than me and I use to avoid people. But then I met a psychologist who helped to get out of this situation. Whether you feel like or not when you meet someone initiate conversation. General conversation like saying hi.. When you are with friends or gathering and you feel like sitting alone, not responding much or not talking at all. Take a deep breath and try to mix up with people and take interest in conversation or discussion. One reason can be your thinking doesn't match with others around you. It happens and it doesn't mean that you are wrong or they are wrong. Everyone has their own perspective. So, try avoiding topics that can lead to conflicts rather talk about general topics. Do meditation. It will help you get answer of many things that probably no one can answer as no one can see what is their in your mind except you yourself. If you feel like not talking to anyone all the time then this is a serious issue. It is very common sign of depression. Find out the cause of your depression. Are you not happy with your job/ studies? Do you want to do something and failed? Did anyone hurt you? Have anyone friend/gf cheated or hurt you? Ask these question and if any of these are cause of your sadness then think of possible solution. Do things that make you happy. No person and nothing, absolutely nothing is more important then your happiness. If someone has hurt you or betrayed you, forgive them. It happens and holding on these things harm you more than that person. If you are not happy with your job then search for another. Money matters but not more than one's happiness. Be happy!!
I feel lonely but I don't want to talk to anyone either. Is that weird?
I can only say that I at least feel this way so there are others too.I am 32 now and since I was a child I pretty much never felt any need to talk to others. The last few years I have been feeling more and more lonely yet I don’t like being around others( i’m not one of those people who hate everyone or similar, I think the people I meet are mostly good, nice people, and I am a pretty optimistic person to boot), I detest talking most of the time and at best find it exhausting and boring.I don’t understand why people seem to enjoy such interactions. I could spout things like they want a connection or something but I just do not understand it. I have never had or felt such a thing with anybody. Perhaps I am missing something as a person, it certainly feels that way.Yet I still seem to have this biological instinct to want a partner, companionship and sex. It’s incredibly annoying and it hurts. A lot at times.I have no friends. I never met anyone who I genuinely enjoyed talking to.It’s not like i’m some weirdo( well other than the above haha), if you met me on the street you would think I was just an ordinary person no different than anyone else, we could even say hi and make a sentence or two of small-talk and all would seem normal.It certainly makes life hard in a myriad of ways. To be normal would be wonderful.I hope I can find a path forward as life lost it’s charm years ago and I feel like an old man tired of life ready to move on.
How do I tell someone that I never want to talk to her again?
Face to face is best. Because all you have to do is cruise Quora for 2 minutes to find lots of posts along the lines of “He/She said he/she didn’t want to see me — what does that mean???”Face to face, and be specific. “It is over. I don’t want to see you anymore. Please do not contact me. Remove me from your social media. I have blocked you on my phone, Facebook, and Instagram.”You don’t need to scream or yell or argue or explain. Just say it matter-of-fact, and firmly. And have an exit already planned out before you do this. A2A
I don't feel like talking to anyone. Is it normal?
There can be some reasons for that. Maybe you are suffering from depression that’s why you don’t feel like taking to anyone.It happens in my life always. I am suffering from a lot of depressions and sometimes I think I am the worst guy in the world. I can’t do anything. I am neither good at bad things nor good things. My life is full of waste. And thus I compare myself with others and think that I am not in their level. I usually don’t start talking with others until they don’t start. And also there are some other reasons but all of them are interrelated with one another.When your life is not normal then you will never come to know about you. You will not be able to lead a normal life like others. Your thoughts and mind will be gone to somewhere else. There is something happening in your life that converted your daily life to this situation. The reason can be multiple. Try to find out what’s going on your life? Why you feel like that. And try to convince yourself. Be confident, exercise regularly. If you are suffering from depressions for long time then you can visit to a doctor. It will help to boost up your daily life and later on you will be able to lead a normal life. Thanks
Why do I feel dull and lost and don't feel like talking to anyone most of the times?
If I could be real with you.I used to feel like that as well. I could spend a day or a week just thinking. I would never come to any conclusion. I would worry and try to come up with a master plan,to change things around. But I would end up just wasting more time.Stop. You’re never going to feel any better,smarter or more motivated. Just pick one thing and do it. Focus everything on it,where it be school,work or anything you really love. How do you know you love it? Time yourself doing all your acts over one day,or even a week. The one you activity you do the most? That’s it!Unless you’re forced to do it(then don’t count it).Hurry times a wasting!