I posted something about my roommate on Facebook and my friend went behind my back and told her. What should I do now about my friend?
I think you have this all wrong. Your real or root problem is not your friend. Your problem is posting something disparaging (I assume) about your roommate to a public forum and getting upset because your friend shared that post with your roommate. Even if you posted this information to Facebook and used settings that only allowed your friends or close circle to see it, the fact still remains that you were publicly talking about your roommate. Facebook is, nonetheless, a public forum, even when the people who see what you post are only the people you have allowed to read or see your posts. When you don’t want the things you think, feel, and believe to be known to others, you should simply keep them to yourself. If you have a problem with your roommate and simply want or need to vent, only do so with a trusted confidant face-to-face or over the phone during a conversation, clearly establishing that what you say must be kept private and confidential. You should only vent to people whom you know are trustworthy. Maybe you and your roommate are having problems, and you want to talk to your close friends about these problems. That is your right. However, FaceBook and other social media are, by their nature, public forums, and what you post there is no longer under your control, despite so-called privacy settings. People have a tendency to gossip, especially when they see posts that invite that kind of response. Lesson: whenever you don’t want someone to know something, never post that information on social media. Your friend was tactless when she shared your post with your roommate. If your friend knew that what you shared on Facebook was not to be shared with your roommate, then she is also untrustworthy and a trouble maker. Even if your friend did not known that the information you posted was not meant to be shared with your roommate, her doing so suggests that she lacks the wisdom and the maturity to know that “loose lips sink ships.” If I were you, I’d apologize to my roommate and have a talk with her about what was posted and why it was posted. Then, I’d be sure to remove it from Facebook and from any other social media. Afterward, I’d seriously consider if my so-called friend is someone who can be trusted and make a decision about whether to continue that friendship. Then, finally, I’d check in with myself about my own lack of maturity and common sense for talking about my roommate behind her back in a public forum.
My Mom Blamed and accused me of something i didn't even do,and she does this all the time.....?
When I was younger, my Mom never saw any right thing that I did. And yes, she also blamed me for every wrong thing happening in the household. That was years ago, when my brother was very young. We have a 6-year age gap. Now it has stopped since my brother has already grown into a teenager himself. Now what is the direct link? I think your Mom blames you because she expects you to be mature enough to do the right thing (assuming you're old). I mean even though it's your kiddie sister who scattered her toys in the living room (this is a hypothetical scenario, mind you), you should have been responsible enough to clean those toys so that it won't add to her burden. Child rearing is one thankless job so it probably drives her crazy and insane--hence the developing unbearable attitude. You cannot expect her to blame your little sisters for mishaps because they do not know much about life yet. On your older brother, perhaps he is busy running errands or working so your Mom doesn't think that she can count on him. I am not telling you that she should blame you. I believe blaming is a harsh thing to do--whether the person is worthy of the blame or not. I am explaining to you reasons as to why she acts that way. Possible reasons to be exact. About the YM status--if you want to clear things out, apologize to her. Find the right timing! It may even be the springboard for you to be able to have a deep and serious talk about your issues against her. Your Mom will be always your Mom no matter what you do. Until now, I am in a love-hate relationship with my Mom for the simple reason that she has a big mouth that won't stop anytime of the day. Plus, she has suffocating rules at home. Sometimes I yell at her too because I couldn't take it anymore. But I realized years ago that it would be just better to shrug it off and go on with my life. Stop noticing her. Just shrug her off. Stay inside your room and use the Internet. Study well, run errands, obey her so that she won't get pissed off at you. Soon you will realize your Mom's worth in your life. Good luck!
My best friend told me that it bothered her that I didn't post a comment or "like" the new pictures she put on social media of her new baby. Should I say something?
Social media is a plague.Your “friend” is a not a good person. A good person who is not bothered by something not happening, simply didn't expect it as a requirement. So by being bothered something that didn't happen, she expected something from you without telling you directly. (Things like this drive people insane.)Your “friend" expects you to drool over their life in “support” and when you don't they think you're upset with them or it's your problem and not theirs. There is no justification in her mind that your lack of attention is caused by anything other than spite.Your dad is dying in the hospital? Well you had your phone with you right?! Why didn't you get on Facebook and comment! You're obviously the jerk for spending your time not making me feel like the most important person in the world.Right?That is exactly what she is doing. She is a typical codependent social media sloot. I deleted all social media and stopped using new platforms all together because of the rampant codependency found in them.Stop using other people for justification your life doesn't suck, and stop letting them use you for the same thing.
A Democratic state senator this week posted something online about assassinating Trump and deleted the message but was already caught. How do you feel about democrats threatening Trump’s life?
There are several questions that we might ask:Did Missouri State Senator Maria Chappelle-Nadal threaten Trump’s life?Or did she just express her wish?Is it wrong for one of our government representatives to make such a wish publicly?Should there be a penalty?Did Trump ever say something about assassinating a President?If it’s wrong for Chappelle-Nadal to wish someone would assassinate Trump, why was it all right for Trump to wish for someone to assassinate Hillary Clinton?Let’s look at each question:Chappelle-Nadal did not threaten Trump’s life. But she did verbalize something that some other citizens have privately wished.She said that she wished someone would do so.Yes, it is wrong for a government official to make such a statement publicly. They must remember that every word that they tweet and write reflect on them forever, even if they delete it immediately. (This is a lesson I wish that Trump would learn, to think before he tweets.)No, I do not believe she deserves any penalty. After all, we did not punish a prominent Republican for urging assassination at a public event. If there is any punishment, it will be decided by the citizens of Missouri at the Ballot Box.Yes, Trump urged second amendment supporters to assassinate President Clinton in order to keep her from making Supreme Court appointments. Later, he said it was a joke.No, since Trump says it was not wrong for him to publicly express his wishes about assassination, it is certainly not wrong for someone else to express a wish.Conclusion: If she had said that she was going to go to Washington to assassinate someone, that would be a threat.
If I delete someone's birthday post on my Facebook timeline, will that person get a notification?
Not at all. Facebook doesn't give the damn about the deletion stuff. You have all rights to make yourself comfortable with the things you're putting on it. Just make sure that he doesn't see that before the deletion because he will come to know that the post is intentionally deleted. It's better that you put the things by thinking enough whether to update it or not. Happy Facebooking. :-)
Facebook doesn't show what my friends had posted on my timeline. Why? How can I fix it?
You first have to understand the difference between Timeline and News Feed.So, if we understand your question…You have a friend that posts something on their timeline on their account and you don’t see it on your timeline? Well then everything is working correctly. Your timeline only shows Your posts. It’s the News Feed where you see posts others have made on their timeline.If you fail to see their posts in your News Feed then you two aren’t very good friends and you don’t interact with each others posts much if at all. If you like a friends posts and if you comment on a friends posts and if you click on the images they posts then Facebook knows you are good Friends and uses the precious New Feed space between the incessant fake ads that are there to show you your Friends stuff.So, if you want to start being good friends. Go to your friends Timeline and interact with their posts there. Say stuff like “Wow, that cool.” or “I want some”. and then click on their photos and videos and then share their post to your timeline. Tell them to do the same to your posts. Suddenly, like magic, Facebook will make room for your posts in each other’s news feed.
Why hasn't my narcissist ex-posted anything on his social media post discard?
One of the typical things which we do when we have recently broken off our relationship with our narcissistic boyfriend is to search social media websites to see if we can find out what they are saying about us! If we find something we are relieved because we think doing that is perfectly normal, because we would write up something which our friends could see because we are normal.Narcissists do not think like we do! They do not think like we do and they will never think like we do.Your ex boyfriend obviously does not want to bring any attention to you both, especially by pasting something on social media. He wouldn't even think about putting something on social media because in his mind nothing else but himself is important.
Is there anything wrong with my boyfriend not acknowledging a post I made about him on Facebook? I wrote a sappy message post with a pic, he didn’t hit like, comment, or mention it to me.
The only way to be sure is by asking him what he thinks of it. Should not be a problem.
Blocked someone on snapchat from viewing my story but they still saw it?
So I block 2 different people on my snapchat from viewing my story, not actually blocking them or unadding them or anything, i just went into the story settings and checked their names under who could view my story and custom and all that because i just didn’t want those two people seeing it, but they still viewed it? i went back and double checked that they were checked off in the dont view thing and they were but they can still see it? i know they aren’t like hackers or anything either they’re my friends, but why are they able to view it even after i blocked them from seeing it??
She didn't reply to my snapchat?
There is a girl I like a lot at my school. I snap chated her and she opened it. I figured since she didn't reply her phone died or something. But a couple minutes ago I posted a snapchat story and she saw it so I know her phone didn't die. Is it that she doesn't like me. She looks at me in class a lot and she smiles at me but Idk if she likes me