I Really Girl But She Is A Family Friend. Is This Worth Going For

I like this girl but she's my dad's friend's daughter. Is this worth going for?

There's a ton to risk with this as you've mentioned because your families are close. But even if things didn't work out, it shouldn't be an issue for reasonable, mature adults to deal with. The only way a break up between the two of you would ruin the relationships between your family and that other family would be if you (or her) acted like a total douche, cheated on the other person or did something really nasty and underhanded. But otherwise, most mature adults realize that relationships sometimes don't work out as expected and if you were to part on good terms I'm sure everyone else could handle that just fine.

That's also the worst case scenario. It could also turn out really good. I mean what could be better than two families who have always had a good history together coming together with the marriage of their kids? You'd be a leg up above most guys in your position because her dad already knows you and he knows your dad so you wouldn't have to do as much to earn his trust and respect from the get go.

Just be sure of what you really want with this girl. You're a young man still so I'll be candid. Do you just want to bang her because she's really hot, or do you see something long term? If you aren't thinking long term with this girl, then I would HIGHLY suggest looking elsewhere or it could end in the trouble I talked about earlier.

Is it worth dating a family friend? pros and cons?

I think that the key to relationships is communication. Voice your concerns to her. Tell her that you really like her and take an interest in pursuing a relationship, but you're also worried that if things don't work out between the two of you, it could potentially impact the relationship between your two families. Ultimately, she will probably understand where you are coming from. If she's still interested in dating you, then it would probably be wise to establish some ground rules concerning your families and how that will affect your relationship. For example, you could agree to remain friends even if you break up, or simply agree to test the waters without committing to anything serious. No matter what you do, communication is key

Is having a girlfriend in college worth it?

I've had a girlfriend for 2 years now and we still get along really well...My family and friends like her and i like her family and friends...We both go away to school pretty far apart...I'm going into my junior year now and i've found i could get laid pretty easily if i wanted to by alot of different girls...is that worth giving up for my relationship?

Is it worth the risk to date a family friend?

Our families have known each other for about 10 years. She and I are 22 years old and we went to the same school. Our sisters were once best friends, but they had a falling out. This didn't have an effect on our mothers' relationship and I visit them as often as I can when I'm home from school. She's had a lot of boyfriends and I've really only had a couple flings before, but nothing serious. I never had a problem with her dating other guys because I never had feelings for her and I honestly never thought I'd have a chance in hell. But since she broke up with her last boyfriend, which was a serious relationship, we talk a lot more often. I've noticed that lately I get more peppy than usual whenever she texts or calls.

When I go to her house it's apparent that her parents assume I'm there just to see her. She's different from any girl I've liked before since we've been friends for so long and her family is such a big part of my life already. My mom went through chemo last year and while I was at school she'd look in on her and on a couple occasions she took her to the doctor. To show my appreciation, and also possibly test the waters for a date, I'm taking her to a Ke$ha concert later this month.

What details should I be looking for before deciding to go for it and tell her that I'd like to try something new with our friendship? Is it worth the risk? What's the worst that could happen?

Is this friend worth keeping?

She is using you my dear. Bail now and move on or she will continue this this pattern of abuse to you. You really don't need friends like this. On the other hand it sounds as if she dependent on other people in her time of need but not on theirs.

Best friend took girlfriend of 5 years, was it worth it ?

So i have a large group of friends that i hang with, everybody knows everybody and we are all close. All together, counting everyone, its probably over 100 people. One of my friends in the group had his best friend(also my ex friend) take his girl of 5 years.

We all found out and we all have tossed him from the group. He basically lost everyone, has a really terrible reputation, i dont know who would even want to be his friend when they find out what he did. He basically lost everything, his whole life, and gave it all up for this girl. He was a really good friend of mine also, but that that was just super dirty and i had to end it.

Im just thinking, was it worth it ? Gave up everything for this girl...