I hate my brother. What do I do?
Be civil to him. Your job isn’t to act out your emotions but to behave responsibly with others in your life. That will be true for the rest of your life. When you are an adult and not living at home, you will have more control over the amount of time and ways in which you interact with your brother. For now, avoid conflict, talk with him calmly about issues, and calmly ask for help if something is truly a serious issue and you can’t manage to work it out with your brother.It’s very common for other siblings to “hate” their younger siblings, even when they admit to loving them. Frankly, it’s really a matter of growing up and gaining perspective. When you’re younger and more narcissistic than you hopefully will be as an adult, any annoyance can seem intolerable. However, siblings often become best friends or at least trusted confidants when they are adults. Don’t throw away the potential for a good relationship by making your relationship worse with him. He’ll have bad memories of you and might be less supportive when you really need him as an adult.You may also want to consider the effects of your behaviors on your parents. Parenting is hard. If one sibling “hates” another and behaves that way, it adds undue stress and concern for the parents. Instead of making big judgments about your brother, ask your parents for advice about how to get along with him better. Sometimes, the solution is to stay out of his way. At other times, asking for his help rather than making demands might work better. Asking parents to help you set up good boundaries with your brother might help too.If there is any abuse such as regular hitting, serious threats, name-calling, or other types of abuse, definitely ask for your parents to put an end to that. If they don’t, talk to your school counselor about how to get help with that situation. Nobody should get hit or intimidated incessantly. Family counseling, parenting classes, and other measures can help. Protection might be necessary as well. Nobody deserves to be abused.Beyond actual abuse, though, you need to learn how to work out situations with your brother to help you learn how to work them out with others in your life in the future. It’s important to learn to make decisions based on a perspective that isn’t just based on your emotions. Emotions are important, but they aren’t reflective of the entire situation. Do what gives the best long term result.
I ******* hate my brother what should I do?
Move away honey, talk to your f*ckin parents that you don't want to take care of him anymore. If your f*ckin parents didn't let you go just run away. wake up girl! you've been bullied by your own f*ckin family. they actually think you're useless and a stupid maid. My advice is get a job and show them your first salary to your f*ckin brother penis and put some of it into your f*cking mother's vagina.
I hate my brother, what can I do?
I really hate my brother, to me he is the most vile, selfish creature in this earth.i have 3 sibling, the oldest is my bro, my older sister, me the middle child and my younger sister. I am not hating my brother over small things. Because of our chinese root, my mom really favor my brother over anyone in the family. Despite being a troublemaker, he get away with almost everything. Being a middle child , I am always the one leftout, but that is fine by me because I dont really understand it when I was a child. I only know it is not normal when I was in the college and see other sibling interact with each other. Mom favor my brother too much, to the point it is unimaginable. I know my brother is a lazyass and big talk, but mom still give him all of his saving, even if she know he will spend it carelessly. Years ago my older sister get schizoprenia, and one of the factor is she is being tormented by my brother, she is living abroad with my brother at the time and my brother didnt give her any money, but in the end my brother get away with it, all of u know how serious shizoprenia is right?!! Over years I think my brother has show how stupid, lazy, big talking, wastefull he is. Is love will make you blind to this point? I tell.my mom time by time not to give him money anymore but mom never listen to me, she is afraid he will starve if he dont have neough money, but how will someone who wear branded from head to toe will starving to death? My mom give enough money to buy a house.
I really hate my brother?
I know and understand what you're going through but sometimes the youngest of the family gets beaten in this crap. Frankly theres nothing you can do, i have that problem with my little sister and I hate her so much. and I dont have a brother, if you're looking for somebody to talk to or anything I can be here for you. my contacts in my profile. BTW im about to be 19. and my email is n_akd@yahoo.com But I understand how family is like so maybe you can just talk to your brother and tell him you love but you've got your own live and desires too so maybe he can change his mind on being such a dick.
I actually hate my brother, now what?
It doesn’t sound like you have a problem. I wonder if you are feeling guilty for hating your brother?I wonder if you have an accurate definition of hate? Hate involves wishing bad upon the person. What you have described is more dislike or detestation than hate. Nothing religiously wrong with detesting someone or disliking someone or disagreeing with someone’s opinions.If you really wish bad upon him, and you want to get over it then:Give yourself some empathy: Let yourself know that you have been through a rough life living with him, listening to his demeaning comments, and seeing him blame everyone else for his problems.List the Needs you have not had met while living with him: Respect? Safety? Family unity?Grieve how sad you are that you have not had a brother you can respect.Only after you have done #1–3 above, then: Look at how he was raised: to believe that the burden of sexual safety and purity is on the women, not on the men. Look at how difficult his life has been, having to plan an entire year abroad to please his conscience, having to be sexually celibate while the rest of society is having lots of sex. He’s having a very tough time. He’s grabbing onto ideas that seem to help him have less stress in his life. He’s only 17, he might grow up.Forgive him. He doesn’t deserve it, but forgive him anyway. You don’t have to like him, you don’t have to agree with him, you don’t have to feel safe around him, but just let him go. Release him to be wrong.
What should you do if you literally hate one of your brothers?
Shun him. Don’t speak to him. Don’t say anything to him or even look at him when he’s around, even if he’s trying to get your attention. Ignore him, like he’s a bad dream. You wrote it yourself: have absolutely nothing to do with him. He has other siblings; it’s their turn to take your place.And when possible, leave and be with your friends or stay in your room, alone, with the door locked, headphones firmly in place.Some people really like kids (your parents), and some can’t stand them (like you with this one), and it’s okay.If you get called out for shunning this brother, remind your parents of what always happens when you DO pay any attention to him. Maybe your folks will get a clue.And there’s this possibility for family peace: Suggest that you, the detested brother and your parents have a conversation at home. A peaceful talk about all this crap, with each of you getting to have a say. Just the 4 of you, because that’s the trouble zone.Good luck. I hope you’re making plans for when you move out, and it might be time for you to get a job, if you don’t already have one. This will take you away from home for hours at a time, and, you’ll earn money! YAY.
Is it OK to hate my brother?
The most intimate friend one can get or one can be blessed with is a brother. The hatred comes and strongly climbs up out of jealousy, that my parents love my brother the most where they don't even exchange a look or conversation with me which is totally foolish. If you really are living in a deep hatred with your brother just let them know that what are the particular acts of his, you don’t actually like on an ambition just to go for a solution. In that case one should not be so egoistic. A perfect discussion can solve it a lot. Also one should forget of asking his problems which his brother doesn't like as well. After all these conversation just give your brother a breath taking tight hug, just to let him know how much you love, how much you care for. This is just one side.Also hatred can grow inside you for your brother for some familial reasons. Suppose, a family is having separation who had two children. One is living with the mother and the other is obviously with the father. So in that case young mind may groom hatred for the other sub consciously where any of them can't be stated responsible for the decision of their parents. One day it surely will come to light. But if we think deeply, is it his fault that he gets a comfortable living with his father or mother. Obviously not. This case is something very unusual.So, to sum up, go for a solution. If you don't control your hatred, I'm afraid it might control you. So what's the benefit of hanging with a problem without going for a solution when it is very easy. Just keep one thing in your mind to deal with life easily that life is too short. So don't waste it hating someone. Enjoy your stay on the earth. hahahaha.LIVE, LOVE, LAUGH.THANK YOU….
I LITERALLY HATE MY BROTHER! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
My lil sis used to hate me when were teens. She'd treat me like crap & id hear her say the same things your brother would say...she'd say to my mom or big sister (she couldnt stand me & didnt care if I died) id literally cried my eyes out. When I got married & moved away she'd email me more or chat with me on messenger. The distance brought us close & when I got divorced & moved back home she was there for me & loved me ten times more. We hungout & looked out for eachother. We've fought on few occasions but always made up in 5 minutes lol. Ive loved her & protected her since we were tots. She realized that along time ago & started to appreciate me & acknowledged me not only as a good person but as a loyal big sister. Im sorry you're going thru this babe. Im sure deep down there has to be some ounce of love between you both but you're both stubborn in admitting it to eachother. You might think im nuts for suggesting this but I think its best if you sit down with bro & tell him that you both hating eachother like this isnt helping. Why dont you both plan a night out together. Go to a movie or have dinner & get to know eachother. Life is freakin short & id give anything to have my brother in my life but we dont know where he is. He's the only boy of 4 of us 3 girls & just him but he's always been a mess in drugs & alcohol. We dont know if hes alive or dead. But if he was here we know he'd bond with us cause we appreciate eachothers company cause we never see eachother much. Its been 3 years since we last saw him or heard of him. Sorry this is long but I feel your pain & hope big bro can let you in. Take initiatve & he'll see that you're trying. If he turns into an a** with you then atleast youve tried & he'll try later on I hope. Dont give up hun he's your blood & shouldnt be that way with you. Good luck
I HATE MY LITTLE brother!!!!!?
He is banned from my room and my computer! his plan is too destroy my life! What should i tell him!? He is not even nice to me!! He doesn't play tricks on me but he is just so annoying and mean! one day i tried to be nice to him but he was still dang mean to me!!!!! What should i tell my parents! the bad thing i have a computer in my room and he doesn't he is always trying to barge into my room to go on my computer! and i always tell him NO! because i do not want him in there! i have signs that say stay out, knock first!(which he does not), and i have a doorhanger that you can write on! he never obeys it! When i say i am having a friend over do not go on my computer and do not go into my room! When my friend leaves i go up to my room and find him playing a dumb cartoon network game!! IN MAY i already told my parents that he gets on my nerves but all they said was that is not nice! But he is a lying jerk face that i have to live with him for like 8 more years! i am annoyed out! Help!?
I hate my brother...what should i do??
well they say to ignore them and they'll stop bothering you but maybe your doing that maybe you should play at his game and irritate him as much as he do you and see what happens.