I really miss my ex best friend what should I do?
Because a friendship requires the willing participation of two and one of them is no longer willing, you cannot do anything now about the lost friend.Your best solution is to hope that your friend will come around and that in the future you will be able to mend things. In the meantime, you must go and work on yourself and your other friendship connections. Join clubs or activities and meet new people to make friends with.Perhaps your friend will miss you too and come looking for you. But it will be good for you either way, because you will have made more friends by then too!A good lesson:It is clear that having only ONE friend meant that you needed to get too much from that one person in friendship. It is a good lesson. You cannot rely on just one person for ALL your needs in life, you must have more friends that just one, some will be there for hard times, some for fun times, some for advice, and some for support. One person cannot be everything to another, that is unhealthy and unbalanced. You need more friends in your life even if you can mend this friendship, or the same thing will happen again, you will wear her out and make her tired again.
I miss my best friend advice please?
We knew each other since fifth grade and our friendship ended in our junior year of high school. Our friendship had its ups and downs like any other. Then my best friend started to hang out with this other girl and she would prefer her all the time. Whenever I wanted to hang out she would tell she already had plans with this girl. This made me get annoyed because I knew she was starting to prefer this other girl. Then out of nowhere after Christmas break my friend tells me to not to talk to her and that she didn't want to be my friend anymore. At the time I was hurt but I let it pass. Now I'm almost finishing my first year of college and I miss her. She was my best friend. We grew up together and what hurt me the most was that she prefer her other friend. We talked almost a year ago and we tried to be friends again but it didn't work. We both didn't try that hard. We both hurt each other unintentionally. What I don't understand is why I can't forget he friendship. I know she hasn't forgotten my friendship either but I feel like when the trust is broken is really hard for everything to be the same. Do you guys think we should give our friendship another chance? I feel like with the ups and down she was still an amazing best friend. Why do you guys think I can't for her friendship? Is it normal?
My best friend left my school, and I really miss her. She had some problems, but we were very close. How do I get over her?
That happened to me. A very good friend of mine left my school.But, that was no reason for me to stop contacting said friend. That didn’t mean I stopped visiting him, or talk to him every other day (or text). That didn’t stop me from telling him stories about people we know. That didn’t stop him from telling me about his prom. That didn’t stop us from still being friends, day in and day out.Now, he’s living 8 hours behind me. We still are friends, and will be. If you feel this friend is worth holding on, hold on. If this friend isn’t worth holding on to, you will eventually let it go eventually. If you can’t, maybe you should stay friends with said person.That being said, get closer to your other friends! It will take time, and it will feel a bit different. You have to understand that one friend can never feel like another. They are different individuals. Don’t value one feeling over another. They are both unique in their own ways! Go find out more about your other friends!Good luck!
I really miss my ex best friend what should I do?
The only thing you can do is try to contact her and tell her that you won't pester her anymore. It must have been quite evident to you by now that it was foolish of you to demand unnecessary attention from her. So it's for you to decide whether you want to continue the state of no contact or try for the little contact which you had in the past with her. Do understand that every person has various priorities in his or her life. Other people are parts of their life. Every person, in one's life, has a particular place and accordingly they are devoted time. You can't force anyone to devote more time unless she herself feels to do so.So, if you can assure her that you won't bother her with the attention problem, you may contact her and explain the same to her.However, if you intend to repeat the same, it's better not to contact her as it seems you have already offended her to a great extent that has prevented her from contacting you again. How far I have experienced, we always miss persons who were special to us in the past, no matter how many friends we have at present. But, when there's a strong reason behind the break up of friendship, somewhere inside we have got hurt to such a deep extent that it prevents the patch up. Hence, in your case, you have to work out the reason and mend yourself and your behavior towards her if you want to have another chance at her friendship. Good Luck.
My best friend now has a new best friend. I miss her. What shall i do?
Oh my god !!This is so filmy and common, I have been seeing this as a kid.Let me be lil rude, so that you will understand it. No offence tho and thanks for A2A.See the point you said is your best friend has a new best friend.Your problem, you see... Maybe on the other side you were just a good friend.First of all there is no best friend, there are friends... according to our comfort zone we label them as good, best, BFF and all.If she was your best friend, you should be happy to see that she found a new one.. If she is happy, whats the problem ? The problem might be she is spending less time with you, not answering your texts or late replies... That's priority.We all have priorities for something and it changes every now and then.There is nothing like She means everything, I can't live without her... this happens only when we haven't explored or we expect a lot of things from someone so that we are afraid to look at others.Give her some space and let her enjoy.... In the mean time you can follow we and we can be friends (jk, no offense).You miss her, you surely will.. after all she was your best friend.. and you are not spending time with her like you used to... but then you have to move on... explore new things, make new friends and above all stay happy. If you tried making her feel about this, she might manipulate it differently and you may lose her forever. Rather distance yourself, if she misses you like wise... she will be back and by then you would have explored many things.All the best.
My friend is going on vacation, I already miss her?!?
I've been in the exact same position as you and i hated it. If you can't text her then you could always send an email (unless of course she can't email either). What I've tried is thinking from my friends perspective. Especially if I'm in a situation where I would ask her advice. Also, if you have anything that reminds you of her just keep it near. When I was younger, my friend and I would give each other our stuffed animals to take care of. That always seemed to help. I know it's to late to do something like that now but maybe try that next time. Hope this helps!
How do you overcome missing your best friend?
One day, a speaker said to a group of us, “Look at the person sitting next to you. I guarantee that that person will change, move away, or die. And there’s absolutely nothing you can do about it.”This is the truth. We all change all the time.But I don’t like it. I live the illusion of static presence. I live in the past of my mind that never changes, and I don’t want things to change. I don’t want to give up what I want.This is not the way of the world. And when things do change, I act as if something is wrong. I am selfish, and I want only what I want.When I understand this, I still miss my friend who is gone, but I no longer obsess on my grief and my longing for what is not. And sometimes, I learn from my experience, and I behave differently to my friends that are here, now.Thank you for asking the question. Sometimes it helps me to think about these things in my life.
I miss my childhood best friend.?
ok send a message starting off "how ya doin? long time no talk I was just sitting here remembering back in the day all the fun we used to have; what happened?" & whatever else you want to write & take it from there.
Made the mistake of dating my best friend? How to get us talking again?
So I dated my best friend. It was seriously a huge mistake on my part, he really liked me though but I just didn't like him enough. After we broke up we fully stopped talking and gave each other space, but I really do miss my old group of friends..which I can't hang out with anymore because he's always with them and he thinks its really awkward. This was a while ago though...now I just want my whole group of friends back together...he moved on and so did I. Now is the right time for us to be the best friends we used to be. I just want advice on how to get us talking to him. This is just really irritating because we had such awesome/funny times and adventures with me, him and another friend..just want those awesome times again -.- And for the record, I already have a boyfriend...so all I want is to have him back as my friend.
I really need some good advice....its a long story..?
Three years ago, i met my best friends cousin, Celub. I really liked him! a lot! But i lived in New Jersey, and he lived in Pennsivena. He was down in NJ visting, and he had to leave, i really missed him. i found out from my bestfriend later that he really liked me too!! but over the course of these three years, i moved on, and i have a current boyfriend of 11 months just recently i saw him again at my bestfriends sisters wedding, and i was struck. i started remembering feelings i used to have the night ended with a bunch of us playing foot ball (tackle) he tackeld me a few times (and the truth is, i liked it...) when he left again, half of me was glad, and half of me missed him so much... i feel terrible the one thing that keeps me thinking about him is that he is a christian, and my boyfriend isnt. God is a big part of my life.... and him being a christian makes my feelings worse... What do i do? please, someone, help me....