Im 15 and i dont want to get older or grow up. help?
Ok if someone really can help me please do it. Ive asked familiar questions like this and half of the people just made fun of me. Another amount of people went on and made no sence whatsoever about something totally irrelevant. I just turned 15 last month and i can honestly say it feels so eeird to say it. And it feels weird that its already 2012 theres nothing to look foward to as an adult or young man. I like the feeling that im still just a kid(secretly) because like any other kid my age would think im crazy but idk what it is i just miss my past when i was a kid. It sucks because my friends are rally good friends and at school they act different they dont acknowledge me as much as outside of school because they wanna be popular. But idc about that stuff. Outside school theyre really cool. I just fear thr furture. Every year has gotten worse for me since 7th grade. 7th grade wow this sucks i miss being a kkd, 8th grade damn i miss 7th grade this year sucks and i miss the age 12 and below and 9th grade damn what happened with my life? Im asking all these questions and wondering what to do everyones growing up, changing, no more toys, no more being a kid :'/, i realise i have more responsibility. I wish i can go back to elementary school and just have fun. I dont wanna move foward i cant believe in a year ill be 16 and itll be 2013. Thid is very depressing for me. Please help me out i just wanna be a younger kid again. Not knowing about sex or drugs. I dont do any of these i swear i miss it all. And so far no one seems to have helped me and i want the help
Why don't I want to grow up even though I am 30 years old ?
Cause growing up is boring! You wont believe if I told you that I still watch cartoon shows even though I am 30+. I love animation movies. I recently visited Disney Land. I do not have kids yet. I am a child at home, playing with my pet, making all sorts of crazy sounds, nagging, being stupid and my family totally enjoys it. With my college friends I am still the same person who is naughty, rude, attention seeking and adamant kid. There is always an involuntary smile on my face when am in a group chat with these friends of mine. I really love the way I am when I am with these people - family & friends. And then there are places where am all grown up, reserved, polite and up-to the point. There is growing up and there is growing old. There is being matured and counting grey hair. There is adding wisdom as you grow and there is adding numbers to your age. There is making memories as you grow and there is making life complex as you become old. It is very important to save that child in you which challenges you, which pushes you and which lets you be expressive. You do not have to be all grown up. You can choose to be many things you want to be.
Do people really grow up to be like their parents?
It’s a bit more complicated than that. People are heavily influenced by their parental figures, which are usually but not always their parents. The people we look up to as children define normal to us, in how they behave, how they treat other people, how they treat their spouse and children, how they think about their careers. I am a lot like my grandfather, who was a huge influence on my life.Some people have a bad enough relationship with their parents that they end up rejecting them and everything they stand for and become in some ways the opposite of their parents. The irony is that while this is often true on the surface (children of very religious, conservative parents may become liberal atheists) but often the way they approach the world is still. very much patterned after the parents they reject. So while they may be liberal atheists, they are still judgmental and narrow minded, just on the other end of the spectrum.
I cry because I don't ever want to grow up??
Please don't say just get over it or something!!!! I"m 16 and only 2 years of high school are left! This makes me want to cry!!!!!!! I don't want to go to college in 2 years! It's too early for me! I feel like I was like 3 yesterday! What happened, how did I grow so old? (I'm not saying I never want to go to college because I do, I just don't want to be an adult so soon) I"m 16, I still play with dolls, I play outside and have fun all the time! I'm always happy and smiling and I'm really small! I'm 5 feet tall and a twig and baby faced with big eyes and chubby cheeks! Most people would guess that I look about 9 years old! I guess I act really young too! I don't want that to change though!!!!! I want to be a kid and have fun, not go to a boring job everyday and work! I don't want to get married or have a family or take care of anyone (obviously not now, I"m talking about the future)!! I don't want to take care of a kid, I want my parents to take care of me and I never want to move out!!!!!!! I cry like every night that I'm a day older and soon I will be a year older and before I know it, I will be 50!!! I"m sooooo sad because of this! :(
I don't want to get older...?
Being young has it's many advantages and disadvantages...I'm sure you have heard the song, "I Won't Grow Up!" from the movie Peter Pan? He talks about being a kid and having fun forever. While it is comforting to live with your parents, have fun and be care free....being an adult is fun too. My favorite thing about being an adult is going shopping with my own hard earned money. I love my job and giving back my talents to society. As an adult I can eat ice cream for breakfast if I want! One thing you said that concerns me...is that you talk about the future worrying you. I think that you would benefit from having a mentor or counselor. I used to see a counselor and it was nice talking to someone who wouldn't judge me and would give advice on how to get through the problem. You aren't alone! Hang in and remember you will always be you no matter how old you get. I believe your as young as feel. About leaving your parents...even though I live in my own home, my parents are always a call away. We have dinner together once a week. Also you dont have to leave home right away once 18, if you want to stay around awhile and transition out slow thats ok too! Each year you will reach milestones and find out how wonderful they really are. Talk to your teachers at school about college and fun things they did in their young adulthood and you will find that it isn't so bad.
Do we really need to grow up? Can't we remain children forever?
Change is the law of nature.Have you ever seen a life of a river?It starts from a mountain and ends in sea. May be river wants to stay at one stage but if it happens its water will start to rotten itself. Another aspect is that suppose if river keeps itself bounded to the mountains only what will happen to the creatures those are dependent on its water. May be river doesn't aware of its cruciality but others do.I want to say if you will stay always child how will you fullfill your purpose of life? You never know why you are here and who is waiting for your help in future? So enjoy your childhood and move on for the further surprises of life.Another example to understand. Suppose your mother give you, your favorite dish to eat daily. Although it is your favorite but you can have it regularly, to a certain period of time. After that you will definitely wish for change.Same, if we remain child for always, slowly slowly we will start to tire of it.
I dont want to grow up and im 17?
I turned 17 in november and now I just feel so old. Like I realllly dont want to grow up, imagine being 20 ?? OMG I CANT, thats 2 whole decades on this earth. I finished high school last year and now im year 12. I just noticed that people are way more ruder to me and expect more from me cause im older and I dont like it. Like the other day I was late to class and I told my teacher because I had to stay at work late. She said to me “WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD” and I felt sick. I dont want to go to the real world, im happy being a child. Like no way, I see myself as a kid not a adult, people have way more sympathy towards kids and younger teens they dont give a **** about adults, I also dont want to pay bills ever in my life thats for my parents to deal with not me, how can I become a kid again pls
I don't want to grow up. What should I do?
Have you seen my bio?It says I’m 16 in a 30 year old body! Do you know what that means, man? We’re the same age, bro! *fist bumps*I love playing FIFA, CoD, and Assasin’s Creed! I enjoy comic books, and absolutely love cartoons. I’m an anime junkie!I crack silly double meaning jokes, only to be ridiculed at. My home is filled with posters of The Simpsons, South Park, FRIENDS, Asterix, Harley Quinn and the Joker, Deadpool and Batman, and people laugh when they enter my home.I love collecting action figures! My little nephews laugh when I show them my “toy” collection.I love Horlicks, Bournvita, and Boost, much to the amusement of my colleagues!Oh, thee vile and powerful Satanic descendent, we want our Neil back, my friends say every time they step into my home.I laugh like there’s no tomorrow, I play cricket, football, and basketball with the kids from my neighborhood. I enjoy spending more time with these kids, than guys my age because I find them boring!Look, buddy, ageing is inevitable.But it’s up to you to decide if you want to age both your mind and body, or if you want to age just your body and let your mind be.