BDSM question. Looking to get started as a life style and need some help and advice.?
Me and my wife have played around with it before and about 2 years ago tried it as a life style but it didnt work out. The reason why is I kept backing down and not sticking to really anything I said plus I was using it as a means to just get laid insted of using it as an actual life style. I know there are people that do this all the time and even find ways to work it into public and work locations with out anyone else knowing. Plus we also have two kids one is 2 almost 3 and the other is only 8 months old so all the advice should be given with the fact children may be around so we have to keep things as hidden as possible.
Why does everyone say parenting is hard?
I love being a dad! But all I read everywhere is new parenting styles, don't discipline, do discipline, baby blues. Its sad! I have loved being a dad to a 10 and 6 year old girls (their mama passed giving birth to my youngest). I gotta say that this stuff is EASY! Honestly everyone I know or read about is always complaining about their kids. I wake up early just to make some gormet breakfast for them. And all I really do is take a bit of liberal parenting, a dash of conservative, mix in 4 heaping helpings of love and my life is great. And they aren't wild and crazy, or abused and fearful. They are great! They get up and help each other get ready for school while I make daddys secret pancakes, we go to school and they take turns deciding the music. They perform well at school and get a long with others. After school my oldest gets snacks for her and her sister while I check school work. After that they do homework and I go back and forth helping them out (they never really need it but I want to be involved) dinner is next and they play till dark. Bed and stories and then sleep. Did anyone think they would freak if that was their day? I mean come on! And don't tell me if I think parenting is easy then I'm doing it wrong...I know I'm doing a great job. Seriously I'm raising two girls on my own and my oldest is...developing. and having.....lady problems. Yeah I had to call mom on that last one. But all in all why does everyone complain about parenting? This stuff is easy.