Puking to lose weight?
So over the summer i moved and didn't know anoyone so i sat at home, ate,slept, and did nothing. And gained alot of weight i'm like 157 and 15 years old about 5'4 . And i started running everynight and morning but i'm tired of being fat. How much weight can i lose by making myself throw up? And how fast will i lose the weight?
I resent EVERYONE in my life after losing weight?
I took a semester off from college because I was suffering from anxiety and depression. I decided to take care of myself and I started dieting and exercising and I lost a significant amount of weight and now for the first time in my life I look attractive, I have been overweight my whole life so this was the first time I looked like this. My parents started treating me differently, before they would always berate me to loose weight, now that I have they criticize the clothes I wear, the way I act, the people I talk to. Even the things that I do, they insist I go out more and meet more people. My friends giving me more attention, and they actually seem interested in hanging out with me. I dont have to be the one to ask them to hang out, for once they're the one's calling me. They actually seem interested in what I say, and now all of a sudden the lame nerdy things I've liked forever, is suddenly cool. For the first time in my life I am getting attention from guys, even guys who knew me before. Whenever the one's who knew me before give me attention it makes me so angry, even guys who didnt know me before because I know if they knew me when I was fat they wouldnt have given me a chance. They treat me better now than they did before, but on the inside I am the exact same person that's what makes me mad. I try to tell myself not to get angry but I cant help it, I'm so angry at everyone in my life. I dont treat them any differently now than I did before. I'm still nice to everyone on the outside, but on the inside I resent them all. I always think of ways to hurt them emotionally, I havent acted on it but I feel like if I have anymore of this I might, I dont want to turn into that person. I dont know what to do
Did people treat you differently after weight loss?
Yes and I totally resent it. I think I'm more distant and cold as a person now that I've lost weight. I see everyone as some kind of fair weather fake person who will abandon me if I ever gain weight again. So why bother? They're not my real friends. Basically I just enjoy their company, but in my mind there is this... "it's temporary" message or warning feeling. I lost weight because there was no other way to feel good, I mean physically good. My body was falling apart and I needed to stop being all achy and in pain every day. I didn't do it so I could make all the people at work love me. In the end, we're all going to be old, wrinkled and incontinent. Which of our shiny happy friends will remind us where our house is and tell us nicely that we forgot to zip up our pants for the 100th time? Those are our real friends. Because in the end, we will all fall apart. We can only feel good for a few more years. So supporting each other is more important than clapping when someone succeeds.
How can I get my Girlfriend to exercise and lose weight?
I've been with my Girlfriend for almost eight years. When we first met, she had an incredible body. She was very slim, with a nice stomach and a great pair of legs. However, since we met, she's been steadily piling on weight and outright refuses to do anything whatsoever about it. I'm really worried that if I cannot convince her to change her habits, then I am going to lose any attraction in her. Now, I don't want to seem shallow, but the reason I was initially attracted to her was because of the way she looks. I obviously got to know her over the months and years after that initial meet and have come to love her very much. I just cant help but feel that she doesn't really care about whether I'm attracted to her or not. I have tried all manner of sensitive ways of getting her to exercise. I've tried to lead by example by getting fit myself. Two years ago I cut bread, coffee and sugar out of my diet and constantly tell her how amazing it makes me feel. I've tried making her jealous by waffling on about my new (make believe) female training buddy at the local gym. All to no avail. In recent months, after years of trying to be nice, I've simply lost all patience. When she complains about being fat, I tell her bluntly to go to the Gym hoping my sheer arrogance will make her realise how the situation is making me feel. Hell, even her own Father has been poking fun at her for the size of her stomach. And when we go on holidays I am literally ashamed to let her wear a bikini in front of my family and friends. Over the last two years our sex life has become almost nonexistent simply because (and feeling like an absolute bastard for saying this), when she takes off her clothes, I feel more repulsed than turned on. I love my girlfriend so much, but how can this relationship last much longer? Is all of this a sign that she couldn't care less about my feelings, because it certainly feels that way! I'm at my wits end. I'm no longer attracted to my Girlfriend because she's too fat. How shallow does that make me sound! I've tried everything I can think of and I'm really thinking of ending it all because this whole situation has made me feel worthless in her eyes; that I'm not worth looking good for.
Why is EVERYONE beginning to hate skinny women and girls?
if you seriously think people are that obsessed with you , you have issues.