My life is screwed up, what should I do?
Fix It!! (In My experience)-Many people who are in a bad place (whether it be BAD in terms of finances,/ physical appearance -weight-/ relationships,/ job etc) often “Stay Stuck”because : A) They do NOT Believe that They, themselves, are Responsible for (where they are / how they got to) this place in Life. ….AND--- B) They are looking for a“Quick Fix”/ answer to their situation. Unfortunately, until they can change their thoughts, and Actions in regards to A) & B); their life will remain “screwed up” . I Know this, from personal, as well as empirical experience. My life,also, was “screwed up”…. AND, until I was about 32 years old I Continued to screw up;; BECAUSE I truly thought that “bad things” just kept happening TO ME. However, after I found a great therapist, and really worked at getting to the “root” of my unhappiness, I began to see the ways in which I contributed to my situation AND take responsibility for both it, And my Life as a whole….things started to change. Part B) was accepting that it was going to take Time to change my thought process, change my “ingrained” responses, and change my overall Perspective about life, and how the “Universe Works”*—(another subject, for another time).- But it all began when I changed my PERSPECTIVE. It is my firm belief that Everyone has their own Truth, (which is shaped by their perspective);; and a person's truth becomes their Reality. So, as in algebra (if A=B, & B=C,; then A=C)…when a person's perspective changes, their Truth changes. When their Truth changes, their Reality changes…. Hence, a different “outcome”. CHANGE YOUR PERSPECTIVE AND YOU CHANGE YOUR LIFE
I accidentally screwed up my wig how do i fix it?
I was cutting the bangs to my cosplay wig but i reaaally messed up one side is there a way to fix it? Plus its a long one that keeps getting tangled and frizzy any extra tips?
I screwed up the first impression with my girlfriend's parents, how can I fix it?
My girlfriend's parents has forbidden her to see me anymore because I screwed up the first impression. My girlfriend invited me over to dinner at her parents house one day out of the blue, and I, being a nontalkative person, couldn't make any conversations with her parents at all. I was so nervous. I also didn't even think of bringing any gift or anything either for dinner, since it was a very short notice when my girlfriend all of the sudden told me to stay for dinner with her parents before we went out to the movies. It was my first time meeting her mom and dad. Now they think I'm a jerk and won't let me date her because they think I'm a untrustworthy lamo. Their family is very Catholic (I'm not...I'm Buddhist), and they take priority in being honorable, proper, maintaining a good reputation and they only want the best for their daughter and they control her life all they can it seems. I sure came along like a bad guy now. But I really love my girlfriend, how do I get her back?
My sister and I screwed up my mom's birthday! We really need your help to fix it!?
Wow, your mom sounds like a spoiled brat to me... She is upset no one got her a card or present. Geez, birthday's are not about gifts. Your mom sounds like a very materialistic person, in my opinion. There have been many years I didnt get gifts or cards for my birthday, but guess what, I DIDN'T CARE.. I still love my kids and I wasnt mad at all because of it... Your mom sounds like she needs to grow up and stop pouting like a 2 year old...
How can I fix my relationship when I screwed up big time and another chance may not be an option?
Ever seen two kids fight and the mother steps in and after scolding them tells them, “Now say you’re sorry!” Do you think they’re actually sorry for what they did? Or are they sorry that they got caught?Likewise, be honest; are you sorry for whatever you did, or that you got “caught?” Are you more worried about how you fix this? Or are you genuinely stopped-dead-in-your-tracks with grief that you hurt this person? If you’re the former category, you have a chance to fix it and grow. If you’re the latter? Then you need to fix you, because not empathizing your partner’s pain that you caused them is a serious issue. Getting back together then would be futile because you’re not likely to change your ways.
How do I fix a messed up Car Title?
Me and the guy I traded with somehow signed our own titles instead of each other's. Guess we didn't realize as we were talking. I know you can't scribble or white out so what should I do with this title? I can't register without it.
I am 16 and have messed up most of my life. How do I fix it?
First… Your life is just starting. My goodness, no matter what your parents say…your life is beginning now, it’s impossible you messed up most of it.PLUS you cannot “mess up” your life. You are alive. And messing it up, means you died. Period.The pressure you are under, is the only messed up thing here.16 years old. My God, you are not even physically fully developed. Your brain is still growing. I wish I could talk to your parents. They believe they are helping you and they are not doing that at all. You are helping yourself here. Good for you.Now first: Food and shelter is all you need to stay alive, so what ever your parents are doing, at least they are keeping you alive. Thankfully.Next: Take the time to think about this part… Give your mind freedom of thoughts. Free your mind, and tell your mind to work with the body that keeps it alive. Freedom of thoughts and free the mind to think by the body’s consciousness…Keep thinking those words until you are in that good place: The middle.Freedom of thoughts, freedom to think by consciousness.Then…I want you to ask yourself exactly: “what do I love?” Keep asking that question and answer it for yourself. If you think “you don’t know”… Go back and tell your mind, freedom of thoughts freedom to think by the senses, sight, sound, smell, taste, touch, consciousness…And when you get into “the middle ground” It’s a chill spot…Ask again “What do I love”Make a list. And find how you can incorporate it into your work in life. What ever you love in life, make it all about your life. “How” doesn’t matter. “What you Love” is all that matters.As long as your parents are keeping you alive, they are doing their job. Leave it at that. Focus your attention on your life, on love and yourself.Please remember, you cannot mess up your life. Only if you are dead. And when you are dead, you won’t care about this stuff.Now, Think Love, love love…and work it!Your parents, are wrong about you and about a lot of other things. You can learn better. < Do it for yourself. Show your parents what love is really about…by working it! You can do anything you want. And you will succeed. I know you will. You do too :) Freedom of thoughts…freedom to think consciously< By way of love ;)