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I Screwed Up Real Bad With A Friend

Is it bad i screwed my friend's mom?

So.... im in collage, my friend and i are roomates. And his mom lives 15 minutes away. I go over there sometimes with my friend to get food.... wash clothes, stuff like that. Well his mom is hot! I kinda started flirting. Then after a few weeks. When we were alone. We did it. What should i do?

I hurt my girlfriend really bad...?

Wow I'm sure you don't want to hear this, but its prolly time to let go, either move out or move her out and stop torturing yourself. Trust is what makes a relationship, learn from your mistake, that's what life's about. Move on. I know it hurts, but staying miserable hurts you more. The more you go back and forth to being happy to being hurt the worse it will be. Soon you'll developed trust issues and wont be able to trust another girl. Take care of that so it does not happen.

If you screwed up really badly, but were unaware of the extent to which you did so, would you want your friend to tell you? Why?

Depends on the level of friendship.If the other person's life/livelihood is in danger, you are obligated to tell.If it's something small and irrelevant by comparison, then you can let this person find out on his/her own.First make sure that this person is not already aware of the issues, sometimes people choose to turn a blind eye to the problem.

I screwed up a relationship with my best friend. How can I get them back?

Maybe give them time to cool off. During this time try to observe yourself. Try and understand why you did what you did. Maybe there is an issue in the friendship that needs to be resolved. Maybe you’ll find that the issue is not solely your fault. Try and understand ‘why’ you did what you did, before you try to figure out ‘how’ to make it better. Only then will your apology be sincere, and reconciliation will be worth it. But remember that all you can do is all you can do. After you’ve done all you can, you have to let go of what you can’t control, and let things be. And if perhaps you two have an ultimate fall out, try your best to grow and learn from it and become a better person and a better friend for someone else. Perhaps to someone who will be a bit more tolerant of the human condition to screw things up sometimes. We all have our own internal battles that we have to deal with. Sometimes we’re unaware we’re even at war with ourselves. So forgive yourself and remember that every one has screwed up before, including your friend.If this person is really your best friend, they will be able to see both your scars and your beauty but let neither change the way they view you.

How do I get over a friendship in which I messed up?

Apologize. Tell them you’re sorry you messed up. Effective apologies include how you imagine it made them feel and what steps you would take in the future not to do it again. Then it’s up to them to forgive you or not.At any rate, you did the best you could by apologizing and if they don’t respond by wanting to reconnect, you should have a better time of moving on.Btw, when you apologize, and I know it’s hard not to do, but don’t tell them why you did it. Many times this comes off as “excusing your behavior”. That’s not what you want. You want them to know that the apology is all about them and how they felt. At a later date you can tell them why, emphasizing how you know it wasn’t the right way to act.

What is the quickest way you've seen a friend screw up their life?

Rich… Helluva guy. Give you the shirt off his back. Do anything in the world for you. Anything.Big, strong, imposing guy, but with a smile that will light up the room. At my wedding, people who'd never met him were actually afraid until they talked to him. Most people; my young niece took to him immediately, and wanted no one else to take care of her when she got a splinter in her foot. I still remember him, dark skin, bright yellow shirt, and shell necklace, standing out even in our eclectic crowd.Rich has a soft heart inside his somewhat imposing shell, but is very protective of those he cares for. Word came to him one day, that the boyfriend of one of his good friends was abusing her. Rich confronted the man, who responded violently. Without going into too much detail, by the time it was over, the other man was dead.Rich is now just under half way through a twenty-four year prison term.

I got messed up and peed on my friends?

So, basically, I really messed up bad last night. I popped pills while i was drinking...and just got destroyed. Smoked too. And then....while my friends were sleeping on the floor, i was told that i peed on them. Like a lot. And here i am at 1 oclock the next day, and im still ****** up. Im a little worried. but what I'm most concerned about is the fact that i peed on my friends. So my question is...what do i do about it? I apologized over twitter...i would have by phone but i lost it last night.....so what do i do now? move away and hide my past in shame? I'm very upset...and at a loss. I don't know what to do. Just some words of advice for me would go a long way!

What song says sorry for being a really bad friend?

Cheesy song also but... Two Differents World Collide by Demi Lovato. (:

That's all I can think of. Sorry. Hope I somewhat helped anyway! xD

Can popping your neck really screw up your spine?

Yes, it is true that if you habitually pop or crack your knuckles, they DO NOT become arthritic in the future. There have been a couple of studies on this, looking at elderly people who had a lifetime habit of cracking their own knuckles compared to those who didn't. The crackers had less arthritis.

The neck isn't as clear. It's not likely that the joints in the neck that are being cracked are being damaged. Some will say that it can cause them to be hypermobile (too loose.) No one knows. The problem with cracking your own neck is that you may not be popping the joints that need to be popped. You are popping the ones that are already moving well or moving too much.

I'm betting that 20 minutes after popping your own neck, the urge to pop it comes back. This is due to the neurological stimulation and/or endorphin rush that has calmed down, and the cause of the discomfort not being corrected properly.

Yes, the same applies to your low back.

Further, the neck and back do not like to be forced into rotation. I suggest that you do exercises that stabilize the whole "core", and see a chiropractor.

What should I do after I messed up our friendship?

If the other person is still able to listen to you, admit you are a jerk and ask for a second chance.If the other person is no longer listening to you, act like a grown up. Once people notice the change in you (from a jerk to someone mature and learning a lesson), word will pass on to that person and a when a chance meeting comes, put on your best and be disciplined always.If the mess is so great that there is NO way ever that the person would listen, forgive or let you have a second chance, just MOVE on.You have learnt your lesson and i sure life continues on its journey. Your friend would be the immature jerk. He/she hasnt grown, learnt or moved forward.Cheers

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