Why is the world so judgmental on everything?
As in people. You can't express your feelings cause right away people judge. If your sad they call you a cry baby, if your mad they call you bipolar. If you nice they call you a p*ssy. If you spell a word wrong right away they are like "your stupid you cant spell, your so unintelligent" If your pretty they are extremely mean. If your ugly they don't want to be near you. And So Much More. They Make Fun Of The Way You Type The Way You Dress The Was You Look The Way You Talk EVERYTHING. And im not talking about me. im talking about everything ive seen in life. People Are Just So Rude.
What is wrong in being judgemental?
Judgmental is not stating an opinion or even labeling something as "good" or "bad".Being judgmental is when based on one quality of someone or something you conclude about his whole nature, about all his other qualities.You judge his wholeness based on one aspect.For example, it is not judgmental to say that "this man who committed a crime did a bad thing", it is an opinion (which can be accepted or not). However, it is judgmental to say that "this man who committed a crime is a bad man".We can not wear someone else's shoes. Everyone has their own way of living and there is specific thinking behind their actions.We grown up in our society we’ve been conditioned from early years to think and perceive things in a certain way. Nothing wrong with it, as long as, that very way will not limit our thinking and hurt those around us in the process.Not being judgemental does not mean to be opinion-less, spineless, non-skeptical, not being exquisite, being indifferent to whatever. If this was the case then no discussion or analysis of reality would be possible.
Is it wrong that I hate judgmental people?
nope. yes if its like a judge or a employer though.
Why is everyone's so judgmental around me?
Why do you ask this question? Why is it not just you but everyone?If I see you and I make a judgment not in your character's favour but I keep it to myself, and later change it after knowing you would my prior judgment matter? I personally think being judgmental has nothing wrong with it and even if it does we all do it, which would make it just more acceptable.Now what if we take this approach and let everyone be mean to each other and let them judge others for being their own self, well this will be you judging me. What I mean to say is we should definitely need to work on ourselves and allow ourselves to understand what we don't believe in or know without worrying that people are judgemental anyway.
If you tell someone they are being judgmental, aren't you being judgmental yourself?
HiTelling someone that they are being judgemental does not necessarily puts me into same category.There is difference between being judgemental and being analytical.Being judgmental: includes judging someone/thing without actually knowing the conditions. Two people fight, i see them, and judge them as cruelsome, bad people. Here i am judgemental because i never bothered to knew the reason of the fight.Being analytical: My friend bought an expensive book with attractive coverpage. Being a books lover, i hurriedly decide to buy a book. But wait. Did i went through the content? Did i analysed if that book is really worth buying if it did not fall into the category of my likeness.Here i am judging on the basis of my analysis. This is being analytical.So the crux is:Being judgemental about some one / thing does not really means that you are actually judging them. It may also mean you are analysing the situation.
Are those who accuse others of being judgmental being judgmental themselves by their very accusation?
I have found this to be true in many cases- it seems that those who do not want to recieve truth decide thattruth is judgement- those that scream "don't judge!" the loudest tend to be the most judgemental; those that scream "tolerance" the loudest tend to be the most intolerant. Those that are constant accusers are often pointing the finger to cover up their own weaknesses and inadequecies- the accuse others of the very thing they are guilty of and seem to have the hardest time receiving correction or instruction for their own lives.
How do I stop being so judgemental?
look at yourself and notice that you have flaws also
If you tell someone they are being judgmental aren't you being judgmental yourself?
No, by telling them they are being judgmental you are communicating an observation of their behavior.