My best friend found out I slept with her boyfriend, help!?!?
I grew up with my best friend and we have been best friends forever, but im also really good friends with her boyfriend. He always comes to me for advice and we talk about everything. She gets annoyed with him really easiliy and is usually a *****. I went to visit him at his college one weekend and ending up having sex with him in the shower. At the time they weren't "dating" but talking I guess. We were both wasted and it didn't mean anything, i think. But my bestfriend found out about it and I lied to her. Then I finally told her the truth and she hates me. She won't talk to me. I know it was awful to do but i never meant to her hurt her it was just something that happened surprisingly. What do I do now?!? How can i make it up to her?
My best friends boyfriend got me pregnant?
u r awesome...and CLEARLY a victim here. is it easier to be a horrible friend and cheat with her boyfriend AND get pregnant or be an even MORE horrible friend and do the same and be a coward and put her health at risk? that is confusing. you had no regard for her before, why start now, right?
If you have sex with your good friend, can you still be good friends? Or will it have a influence on your relationship?
It depends on the type of friendship you have. My best friend is a woman, I'm a man. I'd always desired her, but she never really felt the same. I got the opportunity to go on a vacation, and I invited her since neither of us was seeing someone at the time. Vacations are typically more fun with a friend. She came to my place (I live in a different state than she) as we were to leave the next morning. I set her up on the couch, then left her alone while I went to the bedroom. I stayed up a while playing around on the computer, but eventually she came in and said she really wanted to seduce me. We talked for a while, started getting physically intimate, then stopped (because I had the same worries as you). Eventually. We got back into it and had sex. We had sex every day of that weekend. We returned to our normal lives, talked on the phone from time to time. Seemed normal to me. I went to visit my parents and met her for lunch one day while I was there. She was a bit nervous about it, but everything was completely normal. No difference. Our friendship was not affected. Plus I now have the great memories of it. We haven't had sex again. And we're both seeing other people. She made the mistake of telling a former boyfriend, which led to a lot of problems between them because we still speak and are friends, so she won't do that again. Can all friendships be like that, just casual sex for a weekend and never again? Probably not. But mine is. And now we just have something even more special that we shared.
Me and my best friends brother kissed! Now she is mad and won't talk to me?
This is so ironic, lol I've had almost the same thing happen. She's mad because you're supposed to be her bestfriend & now you're with her brother which is taking away from her. She sees him as her gross brother, & she probably thought you did too. Now, you clearly don't lol. Just let it run it's course. If you're really true friends she'll get over it & talk through it with you. If she doesn't, she was never a real friend at all. Something like this shouldn't make friends drift apart. If I may ask, how old are all of you exactly? Your level of maturity takes a huge place in this as well. Hope it all works out for you. Best of luck! - Sydney. Btw, when this happened to me, my bestfriend cut me off completely & I started to date her boyfriend. I eventually broke up with him, but I'm still friends with him. It was hard loosing her, but she wouldn't have let that come between us if she really was my true friend. She just brushes it off. I'm still pretty sure she hates me. Lol
I slept with my guy friend, and now he won't talk to me anymore!? plz help?
i went through the exact same thing! Its amazing how you think you know someone completely and then something like this happens! Mine was my best friend of 2 years and he told me all the things he knew would lead to me sleeping with him and he told me he really liked me and really wanted to date me and I fell for everything he said and obviously you did to... It sucks it hurts and all you want to do is talk to him and I'm not just going to tell you to move on and get over him cuz its not that simple don't do things that make him jealous just act like it doesn't bother you if he wants you foreal he will come back if not just try to urge yourself away from him! I'm sorry!
Is it wrong to date your ex's best friend?
The flat out, less complicated answer is hell yeah it is.Well, under certain circumstances. ( I’m gonna get so much crap for this)I once dated this guy who was 21 when I was 18. I thought he was pretty cool, coming from someone who had JUST graduated high school. We were coworkers for a few months, and then one day, he confessed his feelings to me. We dated on and off for almost half a year, and let me tell you, it was awful. He had a lot of emotional problems. He didn’t know how to love me. Some days I was his girlfriend, some days I wasn’t. He brought up having an open relationship and polygamy a lot, which I refused since that wasn’t my cup of tea. He held me on a string and used me for emotional support and sex and company; the list can go on and on. I started to feel like I wasn’t worthy of love at all, as if my only purpose was to be a puppet and a mother to someone who didn’t even try to fix his problems before entering a relationship. To this day, I feel ashamed for allowing myself to accept anything less than the love I deserved.And this is where I finally answer your question.In the place where I worked, I had another coworker who was best friends with my ex. I absolutely loved hanging out with him. We would go on hikes, play video games together, spend hours talking about how much we hated our current relationships and helped each other out with that. It was completely innocent, he and I thought nothing of it… at least until we were both single. He was a caring guy, I could tell he loved me in a platonic way. But he gave me everything I needed; support, love, friendship, a shoulder to cry on, and so much more. Eventually, I told him how I felt and it turned out he felt the same for me. But we could not be together until he talked to my ex. He was uncomfortable with the thought of dating his best friend’s ex girlfriend without talking it through first. I waited about a week until they talked. My ex had told him that he saw it coming, because he was caring for me, because he was capable of loving me. A year later, he and I are still together and I’ve never been happier.Under certain circumstances, it is ok. If you have the opportunity to be happy, do it. But be careful, don’t be devious. Do it because you cannot see yourself with anyone else. There are plenty people in the world.