I had sex with my step brother what should I do?
my name is Rani , and i've been creeping around with my stepbrother for like 4 months now lol and i know its wrong but i cant help the feeling that i get when im around him. it started when my mom and dad went on their every year anniversery trip during the days after christmas , while my brother and i are on our winter break and they practically comeback when its over. my brother and i are both 15 well im currently 16 but whats the diff. we always play around picking with eachother but this time our playing went to far because we ended up alone in the house making out. we didnt stop at making out we ended up having sex in my bedroom. after that day i didnt really speak with him it was awkard. i thought things will be back to normal by the time mom and jonathan[stepdad] come back but i got jealous when his girlfriend showed up unexpectedly. i noticed that he didnt flirt with her as much and he tried to get her out of the house. when he finally did he came in the basement while i was hiding watching televison annoyed and started kissing me again laying my back down on the coach but i didnt refuse i took his shirt off and started kissing his neck. so during the whole winter break we had sex and acted like a couple , i felt bad because we are young we shouldnt be cuddling up naked so happy. we went out acting like a couple around people who did'nt know we were leagally brother and sister. we joked about how funny this was and just the fact that we were sneaking around made me love him even more.i dont want to ruin my moms marriage she loves jonathan[3 years now]. at the dinner table we forgot where we were and i leaned my head on his shoulder , making my parents wonder but we joked it off saying yuck. what should i do ? would I caryy a guilt as I get older????
I slept with my foster brother is that ok?
The clearest answer is NO. Its NOT okay. I'm not saying that because of some type of "incest." You're not biological siblings and the prohibition regarding incest does not apply. But it's not okay for these two reasons: 1.) You are in a family relationship with this guy based on the circumstance of your living arrangement. Intimacy in these situations almost always creates more problems than it's worth. It's why it's almost always a bad idea to have sex with a co-worker, or a room-mate; that same sort of situation makes it a bad idea to have sex with a foster sibling. 2.) He clearly took advantage of you. He's not nice to you, he makes you cry, he doesn't like you...then you were vulnerable and he banged you anyway. You like this guy and so you won't like what I'm going to say, but this chain of events makes him a creep and a user. Time to Cowgirl Up and deal with the problems life has given you...don't go looking for more. Chalk this up to a moment's indiscretion and keep your distance from this guy from now on; he sounds like bad news. Good luck.
LGBT: I have sex with my foster brother?
Um....okay.... :) 1. No idea, maybe he thinks of u as something more than just a sex partner 2. Yeah, a little (in my oppinion) :) 3. um....bring him along? lol Nah.... Just tell him you need some privacy 4. well, it's not exactly brotherly love when the 2 of yiz r sleepin together...... So, yes i think he does.... :) Edit : Then why not tell him what you feel... Tell him what u told us 2nd Edit: I didnt mean tell him exactly the same stuff... Sugar coat it... And anywayz, if you do love him (not erotically or whatever) you should tell him, coz it could get even more complicated n he could get a lot more hurt.
I had sex with my step brother?
Ok I am not here so people can say rude things I am just need a little advice form OPEN MINDED people. My step brother is 10 yrs older then me. I am 18 and he is 28. He recently moved back home because him and his gf broke up. saturday night we were alone watching a movie (he had a few beer)and he started rubbing my legs then went further. He rubbed my whole body and keep saying how beautiful I was. I really didnt know what to do so I just let him. He had never doen anything like this before. Monday night he came in my room and said that what he had done was totally out of line and that he was drinking and meant nothing by it. I thought ok and just let it slide. But then yesterday he came in my room while I was cleaning and sat on my bed and started talking. I sat down beside him and talked when out of no where he kissed me. I was shocked but I ddidn't stop him. He ddint stop there he kept kissing me touchinghign me. he had me naked and was doing oral sex when he looked up at me and asked "can i f*** you". I didknowknwo what to do, I knew it was wrong but it felt good so I nodded yes. we ended up having sex. before he finished he ssomethinghign along the lines of me being so tigafter wardsards he asked how he measured up to the other guys i had and when I saihadn'tadnt had any other guys he freaked out. He started yelling at me that I should have told him I was a virgin. Now he wont speak to me. Why would it matter if to him if i was a virgin or not,
Foster brother wants to have sex with me...im 13? He is 17?
I have been living in foster care for about a year now. This is my third home, ive been here for two months..also Im about to turn 14, by the way. Last week I was in my room crying, because my foster mom wouldn't let me go to this huge huge party that every one is talking about. it was suppose to be sick:(. When my friend was over i told her that he was hot, and she told him. Because he is, so maybe that why he thinks i like him. He has been really nice to me since i got here, I didn't really know how to react to it, he gave me a hug, and i kinda scrunched up. Plus he always gives me complements and stuff. At 4 i was outside smoking, and he came up to me asked for one, we were talking for a while then he all of a sudden he said I was really Pretty (i just said i know and laughed), and asked if i was a virgin. I said no, because im not, i have had sex before but it was by force i didn't want it. Didn't tell him that though so he must think im a slut, then he asked me if I wanted to have sex with him. I was in shock, My face turned red, i told him no..He just looked at me, and said o.k then..we stood there in silence for a moment then i said i had to go. I have been in my room sense then, and i don't want to leave, I told them im tired, not they care, and im under the covers typing this...i can here him laughing out there:/ .And im afraid to see him again, its to embarrassing..i kinda feel bad, because i was so rude, and it must of been awkward to him:/ I just don't want to face him again, what should I do? i needed to tell someone so i told the internet.
My gay foster brother keeps trying to sleep in my bed with me?
Im 17 and hes 13. A big storm came through our town about a week ago and since then hes been coming in my room every night saying hes scared and cant sleep alone. Sometimes i make him a bed on the floor or put him at the end of my bed but he ends up next to me anyway trying to cuddle and everything. I really think he might have a crush on me cause hs follows me around like a puppy and compliments me all the time and tries to touch me whenever he can like fixing my hair and stuff. I want to shove him off but I feel bad for the kid cause i know hes been abused in the past and dont want to make him mad at me then have him go crying to my parents. Idk if hes even really scared but i dont want him to pput a move on me while im sleeping. I tried to suggest him sleeping in his own room but he gets sad and and says that we dont want him. I dont want to tell my parents cause i dont want him to get in trouble i just nt my privacy back.
How can I make my brother understand that sleeping on time is very important and necessary?
It is easier IF he is punctual in other activities. Otherwise, he may not get convinced until he realises the truth. It is a sort of ‘Mindset’ and everyone of us do possess this quality. It is difficult to drive this out unles we get convinced outselves. Humans resist ‘Change’. It all depends how strong this feeling of your brother is. You could still try and preach advantages of a regular habit not only when young but, even as we grow old. For some however, a couple of hours of sleep does magic. Please talk to him openly without bias and may be you will succeed.
Is it wrong to have a crush on your step brother?
Feelings are not wrong or right. They just are. We don’t have much control over our feelings, so how can they be wrong? What we do have control over is how we act on those feelings, so actions and behavior can be wrong or right.It is actually quite normal and common for people to develop crushes on their step-siblings, especially in adolescence. If you were not raised as siblings, none of the normal inhibitions that usually prevent interest between siblings would have developed. If you gain a step-sibling in adolescence or late childhood,circumstances means you are thrown together with this person and get to know them in their home context - something usually only reserved for people we are very close to - family, partners, and very close friends.The brain will often get things backwards - we think we act a certain way because of our feelings, but sometimes the behavior comes first, and then the brain decides we must have the feeling because that is the only thing that makes the behavior make sense. Here’s an example - Men were approached by a woman on a bridge, and asked to fill in a survey. The woman then gave the men her number. Half the men were approached on a high, swaying, rickety bridge. Half on a stable bridge. A lot more men who were approached on the rickety bridge called the woman afterwards. This has been interpreted to mean that the men felt increased heart-rate, sweating, etc because they were nervous on the high bridge. BUT these are also the physical ‘symptoms’ we experience when we find someone attractive, so the men mis-attributed their physical symptoms and assumed they were attracted to the woman.I suspect a similar thing often happens with step-siblings. Because you are forced into a context that is almost similar to a relationship in that you get to know this person in their home context, (and let’s face it - hormones!) your brain is very likely to turn this familiarity into a crush.And even if none of the things I mentioned above is relevant to your situation the answer remains the same - there is nothing wrong with having a crush on your step-brother.What "The Love Bridge" Tells Us About How Thoughts and Emotions Interact - PsyBlog
Is it ok for my girlfriend to sleep in a bed with her brother?
So yes, no, maybeYes: it's weird if an adult woman and adult male brother sleep in the same bed when they are siblings from the us regularly. Vacations, odd sleeping situations, and space limited situations yes that is acceptable. I even think of its an occasional thing like a nightmare or a death In the family is acceptable.No:Some people culturally that's not even remotely a weird thing. I'm the past it was 100% completely acceptable everywhereMaybe:I have slept with people I don't want to “sleep with” it's really not that weird. Additionally, if they don't have a “close relationship” orhave a “too close relationship” then yes it maybe is considered weird