I take all my anger out on my mom?
My mom does absolutely everything for me. But when I don't like the way its done or she forgets to do something i asked her to I always scream at her. And today my dad wouldn't let me go to my friends house and so I took my pills and threatened to down them all(I've been sick and the doctor gave them to me so it would go away) and then she didn't say anything so I threw all them at her and after we picked them I asked her to drive me and she said no. After I walked up to her and slapped her. Then I fell to the floor crying and my hand still hurts. She told me I lost my best friend. I don't know what to do I can't stop crying and I love her more than anything in this world. What should I do?
My mom takes her anger out on me?
my mom takes out all her anger on me, since i was little, always blaming me for everything, i keep saying "its fine she is my mom she probably does this because she is upset or something" but im really tired of it, nothing is getting her upset at all, she just hates me and im being too nice with her but im done like really i just wanna kill that b-i-t-c-h shes just despic,able
My mom takes her anger out on me!!?
Ok, well we just had a foreign exchange student and she left and we were very sad, my mom especially she used to tell her everything to let it all out she was the person she used to confide in but now that she is gone:( my mom seems to keep it all in and when she cant handle she says sam your room is so messy and starts yelling at me and i start crying because im not a bad kid she complains that i cause trouble with my brother and my dad because they dont get along well for example my brother is a terrible student and he always comes home extremely late and hes only fifteen while im the stupid one who is boored and stays home with my mom because i know she is lonely when my brother gets in trouble she says your not going outside tommorow you came home late... next day mom im going outside and she says have fun..... he swears at my parents and yells at them all the time and calls me names i get mad and call him a name and then my mom steps in and yells at me she says that im always jealous of my brother and starts letting it all out she acts like im a terrible child while i feel like she like my brother better all i try to do is stay home so she wont be lonely anymore Im actually starting to act up after she yells at me because I can't handle it anymore!!!!
Why does my mom take her anger out in me?
I'm 14, But I'm turning 15 next month. When I get up the smallest thing I say she would get mad. Sometimes when my mom pics me up from school she has something nice to say but then she ends up telling me awful thing about me. She never tells me anything nice about me. It's always... "Why can't you be like her?" "Where the hell did I get a child like you?" "If you ran away I would never look for you. It's not worth it" I have lots of friends, they say I'm the most fun to be around. I act like I'm happy most if the time. But I can't take it anymore. I try my best but she will never see it. I hate living all I want tot do is die. Leave everything. She won't even notice. But some where I know i can do it. I can make it to medical school. But all she will see me is as a failure. If you reply back thank you so much.
My mom takes out her anger at my dad at me?
my parents hate eachother but they wont get a divorce... whatever, that's not the subject. anyway everytime they fight (pretty much everyday) my mom gets really mean to me for no reason. today she asked me what i wanted for food and i was like what are the choices? and she got really mad at me just for asking a simple question.. and she sighed really loud like i was stupid and she was like chinese food or pizza.. so i said pizza. and when she asked me what type i wanted and i said um.. and took more than 2 minutes to reply so she got mad again. and when she yells at me i cry (obviously... because i dont like being yelled at) and then she just yells at me for crying... she does this a lot but she does it even more when she fights with my dad... i dont understand what i did to deserve this
Why does my mom take her anger out on me.?
While i woukd love to tell you the full story, I cannot (since I went 1473 characters over the limit) so I will sum it up. I'm 15 turning 16 in a few months and I'm a sophomore. So, to sum up the story, my mom calls my name and I can't hear because I'm listening to a video while wearing head phones . After realizing that she's not calling my sister, I answer back and she tells to get the mail, and before I leave, I give her some helpful advice on how to get my attention better since my sisters name sounds similar to mine. When I come back inside she begins to yell at me after I hand her the mail. She begins to bring up her past and my father who is married to another woman, while I'm just there taking in all her harsh words. My question has to be why she snaps at me.
Why does my Mom take her anger out on me?
I really don't know why she does this. Maybe it's because I'm the one that's always around and what not. But I'm the most behaved and responsible one out of the me and my sister here at home. Like today I guess she's had a really bad day and what not. She's cleaning up the kitchen and I ask her a question trying to be nice about what show she's watching and she responds in an angry voice saying" WHAT?! WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO SAY?! STOP MUMBLING!!!! SPEAK UP!" (When it's actually her who's probably losing her hearing) We're leaving to go to California tomorrow on vacation so she gets really anxious I guess and is running around the house like a Chicken with her head cut off. So she turns into Satan practically when she gets nervous and takes it out on anyone who's around. Omg I really don't even want to go to California with them tomorrow. I really honestly cannot stand my idiot family anymore. They're annoying! I seriously cannot wait for this Fall when I move out to a University as well.
Why do teenage kids take their anger out on their mom?
Kids go to school for math and history lessons. Where do they learn to manage anger?The home is the school of emotions and moms and dads are the key teachers. Oftentimes we think anger management just happens automagically…it can…and we parents can also boost the learning process along.I’m the mom of 4 boys now aged 23 to 17. We’ve had experience with this.Firstly, some insights about the brain. During teen years the brain undergoes major transformation and the emotional reactions and reasoning capabilities are not fully connected. It is very easy for teens to “flip their lids” due to development of their brain. It’s by the age of 25 that these connections in the brain are complete. Check out Dr. Daniel Siegel on YoutubeSecond, the way parents act (or react) can invite or diffuse anger.Some moms try to be controling (I did too) and as many have mentioned, we have multiple opportunities throughout the day to try this.“Get off your phone.”“Clean your room.”“Why are you home at this hour?”We can get that same message of firm guidelines across without the control element. That will generate less anger.“What is our agreement about phone usage?”“How many dirty underwear are lying on the floor in your room and how many are there in a clean room?!”“What time did you say you were coming home? What happened for you to come home at this hour? How can I help you come home on time next time?”Model the behavior you want: react in anger begets anger, a peaceful response diffuses wrath.Let your child have the last word. Ohhh so difficult. But in their time when they are seeking greater autonomy and testing out ideas, we parents can “put them back in their place” by insisting on being right. Maybe we are :) Maybe the teens will not learn it from us; they���ll have to learn it from experience. Let the kids have the last word. If you disagree, agree to disagree.Tell your teen you love them. When they are teens, these kids can tower over mom. And cuddling and saying, “I love you,” can feel awdward. They still crave to hear it.
My mom takes her anger for her ex-husband (my dad) out on me. She prevents me from seeing him, and yells at me for his actions. What do I do?
It sounds like your mother has anger management issues, and that you are the closest thing to your father, so she transfers that anger to you.It’s not right, or sensible, but angry people seldom are. If she is able to listen to you talk to her, let her know that you aren’t a marriage counselor. You, as a kid, have the right to have two parents, whether they are together or not.It’s time for her to accept that her anger is based on issues that she has not yet dealt with. She is in desperate need of counseling. If she’s, so far, verbally mean, and not physically abusive, maybe she won’t go any farther than she already has. You still don’t have to be the mediator between them. Their divorce is not your fault, and it is not your responsibility to make them act sensibly.Talk to your mom about getting help, if you are comfortable about doing that. You are not her best friend. You are her daughter. She’s crossing the boundaries when she takes her anger out on you. If you can’t move out because you’re too young, then do your best to avoid “alone time” with her.Good luck.
How can I ignore when my mom takes her anger out on me?
Wrong question. You can’t ignore that.What’s her deal? If your mother has anger management issues, she probably needs professional help.Did she ever hit you? That could leave her open to having assault and battery charges filed against her. Anyone witnessing her outburst can call the cops on her and the police can press charges on her even if you won’t.Are you a minor? Social services might need to get involved. Otherwise you might consider moving out.Check your options and plan your course of action accordingly.