I Think A Girl Likes Me But I

Help this girl likes me and i dont think i like her???

theres this girl and ppl were calling her fat and ugly and stupid. so i let her cry on my sholder and invted her over t make holady cookies we had fun and now i think she likes me!!! next year ill be a fresh men and she will be a senor it makes me kinda uncomterbull. she rides my bus. and she call at least once a day. she wants me to go to her band concert i dont wanna hurt her she already has had a rough time. i wanna help but i dont know what to do. her house burnt down last summer her mom died when she was little. i just feel bad a wanna be a good friend and nothing else. what should i do????

I think this goth girl likes me?

If you keep busting her staring at you, you're probably right about her having a crush on you. It sucks that she's so hostile during the brief encounters you've had, but hey....teenage girls are about as insecure as it gets, and that's all you're hearing. It's so much easier to be nasty than to be pleasant, so that's what she's decided to do.

If you are genuinely interested in her, you will probably have to get through a LOT of emotional walls that she has put up. But if your feelings are genuine, it should be worth the effort. Don't make overt gestures to be nice to her, I'm guessing a girl like this can't be won over with flowers and such. You would do better in trying to appeal to her on an emotional and intellectual level, because she probably perceives you as just as much of a stereotype as others do her. A girl into goth culture (like I was in high school) is probably a big fan of music and literature, so try and engage her in a conversation about either. Maybe ask if she's been to any concerts recently, what her first concert was, or what some of her favorite books are.

Most importantly, if you genuinely want to get to know this girl, pay NO attention to what your friends or other classmates say. The high school social strata means absolutely NOTHING in the larger scheme of life, and the second you are handed your diploma, everyone is on a level playing field. So you are into different things....think how much you can learn from each other.

Best of luck!

I think this girl likes me, but I'm gay...?

Okay, so I'm a 20 year old guy going to college, and there's this girl that I met at the beginning of the school year. She's very funny and nice, and she's fun to hang around with. Also, I'm 90% sure she likes me (other people have pointed this out to me as well), and she makes little hints here and there that she does like me. Like I said, she's an absolutely wonderful person and all, but there's one thing.... I'm gay.

Or, I think I'm bisexual. I'm not exactly sure yet (I do know I'm attracted to guys, though). But the bottom line is, I'm not attracted to this girl in that way. I just want to be friends with her. And it sucks because I find myself wanting to avoid her sometimes just so that I don't have to deal with it. But I'm tired of doing this. I do see her as a friend and I don't want to be avoiding her anymore.
What should I do? I feel bad because I think she wants to be in a relationship with me, and she's such a NICE person, but I just couldn't see myself going out with her. But I don't want to end our friendship just because of that.

Any advice!!??

PS: One thing I forgot to mention: I'm still in the closet. Some of my friends may have an idea that I'm gay (bisexual??), but others don't seem to have a clue. And I don't think I'm quite comfortable to come out yet. So, this has complicated things much more.

Sorry this is so long, just really need some advice. Thank you.

I think this girl likes me, but she has a boyfriend?

I am almost positive this girl is into me. I'm not going to help her cheat or anything, and I doubt she would anyway. But what should I do? She seems to dislike her bf a little, but I can't really just ask her if she wants to break it off with him?